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COL720: WGO: November 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of November. As the guys end the month of thanks, they find themselves with not a lot to be thankful for. It’s been a month of ups and downs, so listen in as the cubs share their goings-ons as we close out on the year.

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  • COL719 comments and more: Hey Guys, I hate to be complaining, but am sending this email in case if you are unaware. I downloaded COL 719 and sadly could not hear Jeff speak at all. I could hear Gary and background music.  I went to look at youtube today and it seems to be operating the same way. I’ve listened to quite a few podcasts where Jeff’s volume was very low and hard to hear, while all the other guys were ok.  COL 719 is the first that I recall not hearing Jeff at all. Just wanted to let you know. – MTNB
  • Advice: Hi I’m ace(he/him) and only recently started watching the podcast and found it interesting. I’m a trans guy living in the south and I’m still pre-transition and not out to everyone (mainly cause of fear of judgement). so any advice on how to let people know without saying it straight up – AR

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  • @MrMooseyboy
  • @DaddyMcQuaig
  • @acre_xxx
  • @DadToTheBone9
  • @PupBeejay
  • @Droolingandtou1
  • @thecgarden
  • @midomonty07
  • @jpban9
  • @zanyzainboi
  • @MOCubHot4U

Patreon Updates

  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Hadrian, Lloyd G. and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL718: WGO: October ‘23
  • COL719: LTA…Adulting

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COL702: LoR: Sex After 50

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke is back to broach the topic of sex after 50. As one of the hosts is approaching this milestone, Ed addresses and discusses the potential changes to one’s sex drive as they cross that age. From sexual health to sexual desire, listen as the guys boil down what you need to be aware of as you cross over that hill.

Show Topic

Landscape of Relationships: Sex After 50

Welcome to Your 50s!

Lots of people have healthy and active sexual lives at all stages of life. That being said, here are some aspects of your sexuality that MIGHT change.  

Sexual Health 

  • “The World Health Organization defines sexual health as a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being in relation to sexuality; it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity. Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence.”
  • Regular doctors visits; talk to your doctor about your sexual health; bring a list of questions/comments/concerns helps
  • Colonoscopy and prostate cancer screenings
  • Maintain activity levels 

Sexual Desire

  • We aren’t 16 anymore 
  • Medical conditions, lifestyle, mood, hormone levels, medication
  • Spontaneous vs responsive desire 
  • Possible adapt a sexual willingness mindframe

Erectile Dysfunction 

  • Age doesn’t cause ED, but natural aging and illness can impact sexual response
  • ED is a biopsychosocial phenomenon with biological, physical, psychological, behavioral, emotional, and cognitive factors AS WELL AS identity, relationally (interpersonal and socially),  and intimate factors.  
  • Erections are not required for ejaculations or orgasms
  • Talk to your provider.  Again, talk to your provider. 
  • Medication and treatment options

Communication

  • ”Adult sex is interpersonal” – McCarthy and Metz
  • Maintaining sexual intimacy is key; adapting a flexible sexual relationship 
  • Creating 

So remember, 

  • Your sexual experience MAY change as you gets older 

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COL670: WGO: October 2022

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of October. With spooky season completed and the holidays approaching, catch up with the guys as they speak on their shenanigans. From work time to downtime, listen as the cubs share their work woes, travel fun and health blows.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: “To Boldly Go” & New Project Blues
  • Damon: Birthday Week Shenanigans
  • Gary: The Health Rollercoaster

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  • @rami19795
  • @huzhihao520
  • @Prothope
  • @EricCru62676754
  • @grizguy619
  • @Bluebox715
  • @rhinodog121
  • @AlexLikesD
  • @justabearinsp

YouTube Subscribers:

  • HYPER INSANITY

Facebook Follows & Likes:

  • Dale Brewster
  • Sameh Al Masre
  • Frank van Campenhout
  • Carlos Matel
  • Sahan Navod
  • Andy Clarke
  • Christian Ranguinotte
  • Gerardo Carmenate
  • Angelo Magallon
  • Tony Oman
  • Ryan James Tavey
  • Merrill Curtis Zemel

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  • COL667v: LTA… BROS (film) – Oan R.: Hey. Just watched this review. I would say that I agree with everything that was said, however there is one point that is kind of glossed over. While yes, I agree with Gary that the main character is a pit of an arse at times, I don’t believe he does it to be mean, he’s just very passionate and opinionated. While he does have a very abrasive personality, there was one person who was attracted to him and accepted him for who he was, or at least seemed like he did up until the holiday dinner with the family. Yes I found the scene cringey, but maybe not for the reasons Gary did, as I feel the point of the scene was the boyfriend was not entirely at ease with this person who he supposedly was attracted to when introducing him to family and friends, and told him to tone himself down. This in effect resulted in the dinner scene going the way it did. I would say this is an important point made, as acceptance of who people are is a major theme in LGBTQ+ culture, and if you can’t really get that from people who are attracted to you, who will you get it from?

Patreon Updates

  • Welcome our newest Buddy level Patron, Oan R. who joined us 10/2/22!
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G., Michael V., and Oan R.!

Recent Shows

  • COL665: WGO: September 2022
  • COL666: ATNS: Tumblr’s Second Chance?
  • COL667: LTA: BROS [film]
  • COL668: LTAF: Online Trends & ‘Hacks’
  • COL669: LoR: Relationship Anarchy

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https://twitter.com/DudeMeatball/status/1586871730026471425?s=20&t=PLRn2K-7RXmvvDUCLqgOFw

https://twitter.com/PupFerdie/status/1583491184085073920

https://twitter.com/pup_umbra/status/1584942579581603840

https://twitter.com/Tent_Pitcher/status/1587099576040886272

https://twitter.com/quanjiang_/status/1584197116087652360

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COL663: WGO: August 2022

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of August. For this month, the guys discuss working hard, staycations, leather contests and getting older. As summer dies down, the cubs continue to keep things hot and cold (YAY fixed AC).

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Life, The Universe, Everything
  • Damon: Argos & Cincinnati Leather/Wedding Plans
  • Gary: Stress v Health

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Facebook Follows & Likes:

  • เดอะ ฮัค ผู้น่ารัก [Thai: The cute hulk]
  • David Henderson
  • Kenny Franklin
  • Kahector Makilan
  • Claudio Borrell Ferrer
  • Anminas As
  • احمد ابراهيم [Arabic: Ahmed Ibrahim]
  • Greg Aguilar
  • John Caprell
  • James Toney
  • Adam Hackel
  • Paulo Guiseppe
  • Angel Martin
  • Poncho
  • Tengiz Chuluhadze
  • Glenn Cooperman
  • Naty Soto
  • Claude Jones
  • Jared Mullen
  • Stephen Eudy
  • Timothy Strydom
  • Saad Mahsah
  • 2 Bears 1 Van Tour
  • ميدو عمري [Arabic: Mido my age]
  • Roberto Velez Echeverry

Facebook Mention:

  • Tony B: re: COL660: LTAK: The Leather Archives and Museum: Definitely enjoyed being on the show gushing about LA&M. Have taken quite a few people there over the years. Will be back in November most likely. (Assuming the world… ya know.)

Twitter Followers

  • @Tonyjef96741571
  • @yyuan5987
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  • @HenWo95385740
  • @CubsterDan
  • @JeanCarlos9o
  • @sirwilliams08
  • @raff4134
  • @AgnobisR
  • @Vicente26741623
  • @moooox77
  • @aljman1981
  • @ariellopez8919
  • @sadeceisk
  • @Miguel68180309
  • @andrenina44
  • @martinez1105191
  • @Screwdriver4141

Voicemail

  • Voicemail from 8/14/22

Patreon Updates

  • Welcome our newest Cubster level Patron, Daniel C. who joined us 8/1/22!
  • Our apologies for mistakenly skipping recognition of David T. who joined Patreon on 7/10/18. Thank you for being with us for four years now!
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W. and Daniel C.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: J.R., Lloyd G., Michael V, and Zack B.

Recent Shows

  • COL658: WGO: July 2022
  • COL659: LTAS: Monkeypox v Social Media
  • COL660: LTAK: The Leather Archives and Museum
  • COL661: LOR: Queer Platonic Relationships
  • COL662: Jeff’s Decade of Delirious Birthdays

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COL630: Jingle Mingle

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs have a little holiday mixer. With some listeners joining along, the guys play some games and spread a little holiday cheer.

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Jingle Mingle 

The COL hosts have an online year end social. It’s holiday themed games of virtual bingo, this or that, and we find out who’s on the naughty list!

If you’re interested in our Jingle Jingle Bingo virtual game, below are some details/links to play the same game online. Btw, yes Gary misspelled the word ‘bells’ as ‘beels’ in the list that created this specific game. The website myfreebingocards.com allows you to create virtual games with certain limitations but upgrade options for a cost. 

Play virtual bingo free

Share the Virtual Link below with up to 30 friends. They can play virtual bingo on any device or print out their bingo card. Virtual Link: https://mfbc.us/m/yj52w9w

Everyone who follows this link will get one of 30 random bingo cards. It’s possible that two players will get the same bingo card. If you want to make sure everyone gets a different bingo card you can send out these individual links. If you have more than 30 players choose a paid option. Each player will get a link to their own unique bingo card that they cannot change, and we provide a tool to quickly send out individual links by email. For more information check out our Virtual Bingo Guide.

 

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