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COL702: LoR: Sex After 50

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke is back to broach the topic of sex after 50. As one of the hosts is approaching this milestone, Ed addresses and discusses the potential changes to one’s sex drive as they cross that age. From sexual health to sexual desire, listen as the guys boil down what you need to be aware of as you cross over that hill.

Show Topic

Landscape of Relationships: Sex After 50

Welcome to Your 50s!

Lots of people have healthy and active sexual lives at all stages of life. That being said, here are some aspects of your sexuality that MIGHT change.  

Sexual Health 

  • “The World Health Organization defines sexual health as a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being in relation to sexuality; it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity. Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence.”
  • Regular doctors visits; talk to your doctor about your sexual health; bring a list of questions/comments/concerns helps
  • Colonoscopy and prostate cancer screenings
  • Maintain activity levels 

Sexual Desire

  • We aren’t 16 anymore 
  • Medical conditions, lifestyle, mood, hormone levels, medication
  • Spontaneous vs responsive desire 
  • Possible adapt a sexual willingness mindframe

Erectile Dysfunction 

  • Age doesn’t cause ED, but natural aging and illness can impact sexual response
  • ED is a biopsychosocial phenomenon with biological, physical, psychological, behavioral, emotional, and cognitive factors AS WELL AS identity, relationally (interpersonal and socially),  and intimate factors.  
  • Erections are not required for ejaculations or orgasms
  • Talk to your provider.  Again, talk to your provider. 
  • Medication and treatment options

Communication

  • ”Adult sex is interpersonal” – McCarthy and Metz
  • Maintaining sexual intimacy is key; adapting a flexible sexual relationship 
  • Creating 

So remember, 

  • Your sexual experience MAY change as you gets older 

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COLDR: AS6E11: The Charisma Uniqueness Nerve Talent Monologues

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In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon snap their fingers in celebration as the top four..err top five tell their drag-spiration stories. While the All Stars do some monologuing then strut the runway in some fashion oopsies, the guys applaud their actions and give their thoughts on who makes it into the top four (again). Which queen talks their way into the finale and which one is left mumbling?

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Overall Thoughts: The C.U.N.T. Monologues

  • [Damon] – Familiar but Different
  • [Gary] – Different and Still Challenging

Cruise the Runway:

Category/Theme: Oops I Did It Again

  • [Damon] – Odd Category
  • [Gary] – How Did They Get Different Takeaways?

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Ra’jah on Brand
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Ginger’s Attention to Detail
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… I’m a Little Mad Ya’ll…
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Huh…
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COLDR: AS5E05: Snatch Game of Love

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In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon dish the dirt as the queens do some celebrity improv. The classic Snatch Game of Love is back back back again and these All Stars are all about taking risks. Which gurls provide a laugh out loud performance worthy of continuing and which ones are a “swing and a miss”?

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 5

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

“Snatch Game of Love” Improv Challenge

  • [Damon] – Several Missed Swings 
  • [Gary] – What in the…

Stomp the Runway:

Prom Queen Fantasy

  • [Damon] –  Prom? Where?
  • [Gary] – Whose Prom Was This??

Lip Sync for Your Legacy:

  • Bottom Two:  Everyone!
  • The Top Queen is. . . Shea
  • The Lip Sync Assassin is. . . Miss Vanjie Mateo

“Open Your Heart” by Madonna

  • [Damon] – Anyone Else Tired of Her Yet? 
  • [Gary] – Huh…

Shea assassinates and… India sashays away

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

  • [Damon] – Snaps for…Ru & the Judges on point 
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Taking Risks
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… the “Drama” 
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for…  WTF was that gross ass Ru/Jeffrey shit?!? AND Shea… that clock oops
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COLDR: S11E14: Grand Finale

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In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, we’re finally at THE FINALE!! Gary and Damon have crossed the finish line! As all of the season 11 queens return, we watch with bated breath as one queen lip syncs her way to become the next drag superstar!! Find out which queen snatched the crown.

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 11

Entrances:

  • [Damon] – The Queens Came to Slay!
  • [Gary] – This Was Your LAST Impression Dolls

Lip Sync for the Crown Part 1:

  • [Damon] – Reveals Reveals Reveals
  • [Gary] – Was This Even Fair?

Lip Sync for the Crown Part 2:

  • [Damon] – Meh
  • [Gary] – Are They Scared to Stunt?

Miss Congeniality:

  • [Damon] – MEH! LOL
  • [Gary] – Best Winner Yet

Lip Sync for the Crown Part 3:

  • [Damon] – Great Song Choice
  • [Gary] – Too Close to Call?

Final Thoughts:

  • [Damon] – Can We Talk About Yvie’s Dad?
  • [Gary] – Ended Without Drama
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COL394: Gay Card Movies

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col394In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys get together to talk about movies. In particular, gay card movies. The cubs jump off a list posted by Brian Hill of 619bearcast of movies one should watch as a gay man and follow up with some “research” from Chester to determine some must-see gay movies. Did your favorites make the list? Which ones would you add?

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: A Good Thanksgiving
  • Damon: Back to Work…
  • Chester: Birth-giving, Trip to Columbus
  • Gary: So many movies

Feedback:

Tumblr:

  • TankerTUBBS
  • Lovesexandhumor
  • 1jstjk
  • Batnisse

Urbandictionary with Gary

  • gay card: The mythical figurative membership credential carried by gay men to commemorate the innate knowledge, ability, or sensibility with regard to any subject matter traditionally and generally considered to be the purview of gay men, such as show tunes, color coordination, fashion, hairstyling, interior decoration, or knowing whether any particular man in the vicinity is gay without requiring him to present his gay card.
    • I haven’t seen Rent yet and I can’t make quiche, so take away my gay card.

Weekly Topic

What are your Gay Card movies?

Facebook Post…
Brian Hill watching Mommie Dearest at PECS BAR.
November 22 at 10:55pm · San Diego, CA ·
Putting a list of required Gay Card viewing for youngsters who need schoolin’.

Care to add some???
(h/t to Alonso Duralde who already made a list of 101 in book form)

According to Chester’s poll:
64 Nominations
1st – The Birdcage (12 Votes)
2nd (tied) – Priscilla: Queen of the Desert, To Wong Foo (11 Votes)
3rd (tied) – Steel Magnolias, The Wizard of Oz (7 Votes)

  • After Stonewall
  • All About Eve
  • And the Band Played on
  • Auntie Mame
  • Beaches
  • Bear Cub
  • 20 Centimeters
  • Another Gay Movie
  • Beautiful Thing
  • Before Stonewall/After Stonewall
  • Big Eden
  • Boys Don’t Cry
  • Brokeback Mountain
  • Burlesque
  • But I’m a Cheerleader
  • Cabaret
  • Clueless
  • Connie & Carla
  • Drop Dead Gorgeous
  • Fight Club
  • First Wives Club
  • Fried Green Tomatoes
  • Frozen
  • Heathers
  • Hellbent
  • In & Out
  • Jeffrey
  • Kinky Boots
  • Latter Days
  • Mamma Mia!
  • Maurice
  • Mean Girls
  • Milk
  • Mommie Dearest
  • Moulin Rouge
  • Noah’s Ark
  • Paris Is Burning
  • Pink Flamingos
  • Polyester
  • Priscilla: Queen of the Desert
  • Querelle
  • Rebecca
  • Rent
  • Rocky Horror Picture Show
  • Some Like it Hot
  • Sordid Lives
  • Southern Baptist
  • Steel Magnolias
  • Strictly Ballroom
  • The Birdcage
  • The Boys In The Band
  • The Celluloid Closet
  • The Devil Wears Prada
  • The Ritz
  • The Skinny
  • The Wizard of Oz
  • The Women
  • To Wong Foo: Thanks For Everything, Julie Newmar
  • Torchsong Trilogy
  • Trick
  • Victoria Victoria
  • Whatever Happened to Baby Jane
  • Xanadu
  • You Should Meet My Son

Cooldown Topics

I’ll Tumbl For You:

Links:

  • Jeff: A Slew of Windows 10 Apps
  • Chester: Pup Trash

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