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COL720: WGO: November 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of November. As the guys end the month of thanks, they find themselves with not a lot to be thankful for. It’s been a month of ups and downs, so listen in as the cubs share their goings-ons as we close out on the year.

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  • COL719 comments and more: Hey Guys, I hate to be complaining, but am sending this email in case if you are unaware. I downloaded COL 719 and sadly could not hear Jeff speak at all. I could hear Gary and background music.  I went to look at youtube today and it seems to be operating the same way. I’ve listened to quite a few podcasts where Jeff’s volume was very low and hard to hear, while all the other guys were ok.  COL 719 is the first that I recall not hearing Jeff at all. Just wanted to let you know. – MTNB
  • Advice: Hi I’m ace(he/him) and only recently started watching the podcast and found it interesting. I’m a trans guy living in the south and I’m still pre-transition and not out to everyone (mainly cause of fear of judgement). so any advice on how to let people know without saying it straight up – AR

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Patreon Updates

  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Hadrian, Lloyd G. and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL718: WGO: October ‘23
  • COL719: LTA…Adulting

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COL717: LoR: Healing Our Queer Inner Child

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke joins the cubs again to discuss the psychological concept of the inner child. Initiating from a conversation about Bluey (who knew?), the idea of finding connections to your inner child to heal from the potential harm caused by trauma comes to the forefront in this installment. Listen in as Ed leads the guys on ways to cope with and celebrate with their inner child to bring about healing and growth.

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Landscape of Relationships: Healing Our Queer Inner Child

Our Inner Child is a self-state part of us that is still experiencing and processing emotions, thoughts, and memories from that time but also is playful, spontaneous, and creative. Erik Erikson’s stages of development suggests that we have MULTIPLE inner children/adolescent/emerging adults within us.  

Inner Child is a common topic in therapy 

  • Writing letters to your childhood self
  • Engaging in playful, creative, and spontaneous behaviors 
  • Mindfulness or meditation 

Current topic re: Inner Child “Bluey”

Queer Authenticity 

“Queer people don’t grow up as themselves, we grow up playing  a version of ourselves that sacrifices authenticity to minimize humiliation and prejudice.  The massive task of our adult lives is to unpick which parts of ourselves that are truly us and which parts we created to protect us.” -Alexander Leon

How can we heal our queer inner child?

  • First, talk to a therapist
  • Start asking yourself what you needed growing up and do that
  • Edward’s Disney adventure
  • Music
  • Concerts
  • Playing games
  • Watching cartoons
  • ….get creative!
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COL713: WGO: September 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of September. As the cubs finish the third quarter of the year, they find themselves busy. From work to traveling to work travels, listen in as the guys catch you up on their first fall month.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Down Then Up
  • Damon: Cabin Trip & Future Plans
  • Gary: ½ Work Travel, ½ Misc

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YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COL706: Nerd Culture: Then vs Now – @MrRee-px1n: We nerd hard!️ Weekly Magic the gathering games since 97, geocaching, & bear hunting.
  • Re: COL707: LTAS: Fave Porn Tropes – @jordan3636: Does a cub not refer to a child? 

Voicemail

  • Sep 5, 4:49 PM – Hi. I was just calling to find out if y’all have ever done a podcast about. Skeleton Crew or demon doctor they’re creations of Joshua R Pangborn that are really bear friendly and big guy friendly. They’re awesome. And I just thought maybe a lot of the folks listening to your podcast might be interested in finding out about it, how to watch it and things of that nature. Just a suggestion. Thank you so much, bye-bye. 

Patreon Updates

  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G. and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL709: WGO: August ‘23
  • COL710: LoR: Selfcare
  • COL711: LTAS: Tips for Better Selfies
  • COL712: LTAF: State Fairs ’23 Part 3

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COL677: WGO: December 2022

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of December. For some it’s the same old, same old; for others, it’s a damn trainwreck. Listen in as the guys gift you with their holiday goings-on for the last month of 2022.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Same Ole, Same Ole
  • Damon: WTF December!
  • Gary: That Was Quick [He Said]

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Patreon Updates

  • So about that oops… aka the first COL677 not released.
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G., Michael V., and Oan R.!

Recent Shows

  • COL674: WGO: November 2022
  • COL675: Our Fave Things ‘22
  • COL676: Where do we go next? [Twitter issues]

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COL663: WGO: August 2022

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of August. For this month, the guys discuss working hard, staycations, leather contests and getting older. As summer dies down, the cubs continue to keep things hot and cold (YAY fixed AC).

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Life, The Universe, Everything
  • Damon: Argos & Cincinnati Leather/Wedding Plans
  • Gary: Stress v Health

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  • Anminas As
  • احمد ابراهيم [Arabic: Ahmed Ibrahim]
  • Greg Aguilar
  • John Caprell
  • James Toney
  • Adam Hackel
  • Paulo Guiseppe
  • Angel Martin
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  • Glenn Cooperman
  • Naty Soto
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  • Stephen Eudy
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  • Saad Mahsah
  • 2 Bears 1 Van Tour
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  • Roberto Velez Echeverry

Facebook Mention:

  • Tony B: re: COL660: LTAK: The Leather Archives and Museum: Definitely enjoyed being on the show gushing about LA&M. Have taken quite a few people there over the years. Will be back in November most likely. (Assuming the world… ya know.)

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Voicemail

  • Voicemail from 8/14/22

Patreon Updates

  • Welcome our newest Cubster level Patron, Daniel C. who joined us 8/1/22!
  • Our apologies for mistakenly skipping recognition of David T. who joined Patreon on 7/10/18. Thank you for being with us for four years now!
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W. and Daniel C.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: J.R., Lloyd G., Michael V, and Zack B.

Recent Shows

  • COL658: WGO: July 2022
  • COL659: LTAS: Monkeypox v Social Media
  • COL660: LTAK: The Leather Archives and Museum
  • COL661: LOR: Queer Platonic Relationships
  • COL662: Jeff’s Decade of Delirious Birthdays

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