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COL551: Sex Needs vs COVID-19

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Edward Angelini-Cooke of EAC Therapy and COL’s resident sex therapist. For this episode, the cubs acknowledge their thirst due to many states’ social distancing regulations during the COVID-19 pandemic. Because of this, we bring in the good doc to discuss the sexual needs during this crisis. We all have needs and need to find ways to address them safely.

Show Topic

COVID-19 isn’t going away. And now more than ever we’re facing challenges with having our sexual needs met. What’s a person to do?

This is an extended traumatic experience….which means that people are going to have traumatic reactions to this.  Here are some common traumatic reactions and ways to address them sexually:

IMPORTANT: Our reactions to this may be different therefore we may have different sexual libidos during this time (that is normal).

Overview:

The 5 Love Languages

    • Phone Sex 
    • Video sex
  • Looking into the future 
    • Research is seeing a decrease in STI rates
      • Decrease access to testing sites
    • Re-entry 
      • Sexual risk taking 

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COLDR: S11E12: Queens Everywhere

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In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon are joined by extra special guest Smashy to smash through the latest episode of drag race. As we make that final turn into the top 4, the guys share their thoughts on the classic RuPaul music video challenge. Which queens rap and dance their way into the finale and who falls short? Plus, the guys get really shady and spill the T on their feelings about the queens everywhere!!

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 11

Maxi Challenge Part 1:

  • [Smashy] – Brooke Took This Too Seriously
  • [Damon] – Predictable Outcome
  • [Gary] – Todrick Keeps Is Real

Maxi Challenge Part 2:

  • [Smashy] – Let’s talk Branjie
  • [Damon] – There is No Perfection
  • [Gary] – A Real Recording Session?

Maxi Challenge Part 3:

  • [Smashy] – Lightning Doesn’t Strike Twice, Ru
  • [Damon] – I’m Not a Choreographer, But…
  • [Gary] – One ‘Take ’Is Riiiight

Stomp the Runway:

  • [Smashy] – Memories of Season 8
  • [Damon] – Three Titties!!
  • [Gary] – Umm…. What Was the Category?

Let It All Hang Out Hunty:

  • [Smashy] – Too Late to Rupaulogize
  • [Damon] – Loved the Coming Out Stories
  • [Gary] – Zzzzzz….

Lip Sync for Your Life:

  • [Smashy] – What Happened to the Invisible Hand?
  • [Damon] – Good Lipsync, but Umm…
  • [Gary] – Meh Part 2

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Smashy] – Snaps for…  A’Keria, That’s Truly America’s Ass
  • [Damon] – Snaps for…This is BEST Drag
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… YVIE!
  • [Smashy] – Eyerolls for…  Silky at the Mirror (Face Turn 2: Electric Boogaloo)
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for…The Top 4  
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… PIT STAINS!

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COL435: SquareBears

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys interview the handsome Brian Coffey aka SquareBears. The cubs talk about his comic series on Instagram, his inspirations and aspirations, and get a little personal. All this plus Gary’s interesting backdrop, szechuan sauce and Sailor Rangers.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Things and stuff.
  • Damon: Sickness, comics, and flogging
  • Chester: hitting the gym hard (in more ways than one)
  • Gary: Runaway Roadtrip
  • Brian: Just wrapping up NYCC and working on Inktober, which is a daily drawing challenge for the month of October

Did I Do That?

  • Chester:  Did my work do that?

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  • CurvesAndCrevices: in re: Episode 433: Quickfire Questions:
    Loved 433 – such fun! (Yes, I’m a little behind…) – I am a tall guy and would happily pretzel-up any way necessary for Gary. – I’m totally with you on burritos (Robot or Not?: 102: Sandwiches https://overcast.fm/+Ep2XiNkWo) – Chester’s sign-offs are fast becoming one of my favourite parts of the show. You guys are awesome!
  • Rotundaplomb said: in re: to Jeff’s 15 day regrowth of his beard…: Handsome Bear is Handsome

Weekly Topic

SquareBears

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COL422: LTAS: Playspace Etiquette

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex! For this topic, we start the discussion about playspace etiquette. Listen in as we give the dos and don’ts about your favorite back bar space, dark room, bathhouse, frolic and mingle rooms. So, should you enter a playroom chatting on your cellphone while eating a plate of nachos?

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Back in Action/W Bear
  • Damon: Glamping Trip
  • Chester: Apt Approved, packing, and Evan’s first drive-in
  • Gary: July is here!

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  • Ches Clark SHOW NOTE [re: COL421]: I realized after the fact that I didn’t get in the whole story about my birthday dinner. (I think I cut myself off because I felt like I was monopolizing and rambling on.) That being said, I wanted to make a small addendum, especially given that I was giving someone who wasn’t present to defend himself a bit of a hard time. Brady *did* sincerely apologize for initiating the song and spectacle debacle as part of owning up to it, and had no idea beforehand that I was so vehemently opposed to that sort of public display. He truly did feel terrible about it afterward, but I was just in no mood to hear it at the time. He was just trying to be playful and funny, and so for those who might be worried about him getting “two black marks in my little book,” have no fear–most of that accounting business is tongue-in-cheek. Brady and I are very much okay with each other. Cheers!
  • Re: COL421: Greg Ballard I would love to do a co host spot someday. Love this channel! Watching right now!

 

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  • Rotundaplomb mentioned us in a comment and asked…
    • I’m looking for some movie recommendations! I’m after a movie featuring the bear/chub community. Romantic, drama, comedy – all work. Not looking for a porn flick but sex scenes are fine. I’ve heard BearCity might be a good place to start. What are some others? Maybe some ideas on the next @cubsoutloud? Thanks Tumblr folks!
  • Rotundaplomb in re: to COL420: State of the Community 2017
    • Wish I could have stayed for more of the live stream. You miss so many of Gary’s faces on the podcast version. Great list of some Pride documentaries to watch – check the show notes.
  • FirstRonin in re: to COLSP06: Daddy’s Day Storytime 2017 directed to Hadrian…
    • I just want to say that you have an amazing voice! No matter what you’re reading or saying, you make me melt a little.
  • NE-Plus-Ultra-Bears in re: to COLSP06: Daddy’s Day Storytime 2017
    • Now that’s what I call a late Sunday night delight!!

Weekly Topic

Article from Bear World Magazine website interview re: the W Bear app

Let’s Talk About Sex: Playspace Etiquette

  • You may/will be seen/watched – not possible to be invisible
  • Always be respectful
  • Consent needs to be given, whether subtle or pronounced
  • You know what is best for yourself, not anyone else
  • Keep safety in mind, yours and everyone else’s
  • Be courteous to others in the space
  • Prepare yourself; mentally and physically

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