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COL607: What’s Going On – June 2021

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of June. From celebrating pride to celebrating love, the cubs get us up to date on the month of marriage and LGBTQIA+ festivities. As the world begins to return to a sense of normalcy after COVID, listen in as the guys divulge their summer fun plans.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Role Shift/One brings shadow, one brings light
  • Damon: Anniversary Love/Gaming Routine/CMC Pride
  • Gary: The ‘race’ to ‘normal’

Urbandictionary

Gouinage – French term meaning having sex without penetration. Usually just achieving orgasm during foreplay, but can also involve masturbation and oral sex. Formerly used only with lesbians but can also be applied to gay sex, obviously.

I was with a guy yesterday that didn’t want any penetration, was only into gouinage!

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Recent Shows

  • COL603: WGO – May 2021 
  • COL604: Landscape of Relationships: Apologies
  • COL605: ATNS: 2021 LGBTQIA Pride – Parts 1: Corporations
  • COL606: ATNS: 2021 LGBTQIA Pride – Parts 2: Kink

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COL580: LTAS: Sides

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, Let’s Talk About Sex!  The guys are joined by resident Sex Therapist Edward Angelini-Cooke to discuss “sides”. You know of tops, bottoms, and versatiles; but do you know about sides? Listen in as the cubs define this role in the MSM community and what it means in the sexual spectrum.

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Sides 

  • Definition?

Joe Kort developed the term in 2013 after not engaging in anal intercourse and feeling frustrated answering the “top or bottom” question.  “Can I be a side?”

A side is typically a man who has sex with another man (MSM) who does not engage in anal intercourse or penetration as it is not part of their erotic orientation.  Erotic orientation reflects your sexual fantasies, desires, and sexual behaviors.  

Self-labels (labels used to describe anal sex behaviors….or does it):

  • Top 
  • Bottom 
  • Versatile 
    • What if you don’t fit into any of those groups?  shame…guilt….FOMO…et al. 
  • Sides 

Articles:

Videos: Barry Birkholz

Book: Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment 

Podcast: Smart Sex, Smart Love: Episode 50 Side Guys

  • Awareness?
    • Side Guys Facebook Group  (currently 323 members)
    • Many different presentations of sides 
    • Sex is not just penetration 
    • Navigating conversations about being a “side” 
    • Inclusive language verse exclusive language 
  • Acceptance?

Backlash from gay community…

  • Interest?
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COL554: HNU: COVID-19 & Semen

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Hostful New Update. As has been discussed in recent weeks, the cubs again are discussing the COVID-19 pandemic. This time around, they come together after recent reports indicate that the coronavirus can be found in semen. The guys review the information and examine what this could mean for those who enjoy the occasional bukkake.

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COVID-19 has stuck around and recently a small study out of China reported that SARS-CoV-2 was found in the semen of men diagnosed with COVID-19. What does this mean for ICS [Individuals having Contact with Semen]?

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COL516: LTAS: What Porn Taught Us – Part One

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex. In this multi-part series, the cubs are joined by sex-pert extraordinaire Hadrian to discuss what porn has taught us. For part one, the guys discuss their first access to porn from dirty magazines and VHS tapes to the burgeoning dial-up images and stories on the internet. How did these introductions into the spank bank of their youths change their minds about real sex? What did this do to their brains?

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Let’s Talk About Sex Series: What Porn Taught Us – Part One

  • What has porn do to our brains and hormones so far?

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