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COL732: WGO: February 2024

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of February. As winter draws to a close and love is in the air, listen in as the cubs talk about bear runs and going up, down and back again for more. The guys bring you up to speed as they continue their training on the skills.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: The Once and Future Trainer
  • Damon: NABW 2024 / 20 V-Days
  • Gary: Up, Down, and Back Again

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Patreon Updates

  • Happy 6 Year Anniversary to Cubster level Patron Charles! They joined 3/4/18 and we thank them for six years of dedication and support.
  • Happy 2 Year Anniversary to Buddy level Patron Michael! They joined 02/11/22 and we thank them for their continuous support. 
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, and Michael Q
    • plus our Buddies: Hadrian, Lloyd G. and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL728: WGO: January ‘24
  • COL729: LTA… The Love Bug
  • COL730: LoR: Tolerance vs Acceptance
  • COL731: Bears in the Future

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COL729: LTA… The Love Bug

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About… For this episode, the guys talk about love–exciting and new. From feeling romantic vibes to just feeling randy, find out how the cubs feel about finding love, being in love, and what love means to them.

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LTA… The Love Bug

When it comes to the romantic side of our hosts, what do they feel describes them as being in love? Are there specific feelings, actions, behaviors that we universally feel show love for others? Have we ever been ‘bitten by the love bug’? Did we get over the itch?

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COL636: LoR: Love Languages

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined once again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. In this episode, the guys show how they feel the love within the five love languages. From learning what the languages are to sharing their results, listen in as the guys gift us some touching acts of quality words to help understand how these languages affirm the love and affection one can feel for their loved ones. In addition, learn more about more recent developments in the love languages from neurodivergent to kink play dynamics.

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Landscape of Relationships: Love Languages

Love Languages (Gary Chapman):

  1. Words of Affirmation 
  2. Quality Time
  3. Acts of Service 
  4. Gifts
  5. Physical Touch 

The 5 Love Languages (according to Britney, Bitch!):

  • Physical Touch: My loneliness is killing me
  • Words of Affirmation: I must confess I still believe
  • Quality Time: When I’m not with you I lose my mind
  • Give Giving: Give me a sign
  • Acts of Service: Hit me baby one more time

The 5 Neurodivergent Love Languages:

  • Infodumping
  • Parallel Play
  • Support Swapping
  • Please Crush My Soul Back into My Body
  • “I found this cool rock/button/leaf/etc and thought you would like it”

Comparison of Results:

Gary Chapman, PhD, 1992, The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts 

Fear not: John Gottman and the Gottman approach, which I reference often, is a good overlap with the 5 languages of love….and allows some flexibility with the concepts.

BDSM and Love Languages  

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COL593: LTAF: Sexy

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Food. For this episode, the guys get sexy with foods that are supposed to put you in the mood. From chocolate and strawberries to celery and beets, find out which foods are aphrodisiacs or are just boosting chemicals to make you last longer.

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Let’s Talk About Food: Sexy Edition 

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COL590: HAH: The Event

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by the delightfully twisted Paul Lanner! The cubs catch up with Paul and his updates to the Haunters Against Hate organization in preparation for its first large scale event. From fellow haunters to workshops and more, Paul shares the details of this inaugural fundraiser.

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Paul Lanner of Haunters Against Hate returns to the podcast [see COL483] to talk about the newest items of his endeavors. One of them is the announcement of ‘The Event’ where HAH is creating a haunt convention in Louisville, KY Friday July 30th thru Sunday Aug 1st, 2021!

 

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