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COL621: LoR: Creating Your Party

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. In this episode, we are talking about Creating Your Party. Just like in multi-player gaming, real life can have better outcomes when we select a team of skilled people by our side.

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Landscape of Relationships: Creating Your Party

Charlie T 

“How about parental/in-law relationships? Times where lines were crossed (and boundaries should’ve been set), or picking chosen family that’s actually healthy for you (vs just spoiling yourself)? (honestly I’m out of ideas)”

Tommy H

“Maybe about when it’s time to end a long relationship. Some early advice I got was not to talk about breaking up or divorcing until you were actually ready to do it”

Social Capital 

Pierre Bourdieu (French Sociologist)

Social capital is the sum of the resources, actual or virtual, that accrue to an individual or a group by virtue of possessing a durable network of more or less institutionalized relationships of mutual acquaintance and recognition. 

Robert Putman, political scientist, defined social capital as “Connections among individuals — social networks and the norms of reciprocity and trustworthiness that arise from them.” 

Queer Social Capital and Chosen Families 

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COL607: What’s Going On – June 2021

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of June. From celebrating pride to celebrating love, the cubs get us up to date on the month of marriage and LGBTQIA+ festivities. As the world begins to return to a sense of normalcy after COVID, listen in as the guys divulge their summer fun plans.

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  • Jeff: Role Shift/One brings shadow, one brings light
  • Damon: Anniversary Love/Gaming Routine/CMC Pride
  • Gary: The ‘race’ to ‘normal’

Urbandictionary

Gouinage – French term meaning having sex without penetration. Usually just achieving orgasm during foreplay, but can also involve masturbation and oral sex. Formerly used only with lesbians but can also be applied to gay sex, obviously.

I was with a guy yesterday that didn’t want any penetration, was only into gouinage!

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COL512: What is… PRIDE?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys present their second installment of the “What is…” series. In honor of the 50th Anniversary of the Stonewall riots, the guys break down Pride, this thing we do in June. From its beginnings as an activist movement to the festivals and parades, listen as the cubs talk about what Pride has become.

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What is…PRIDE?

Discussion of what ‘PRIDE’ means in 2019. It’s been nearly 50 years since the Stonewall Riots, one of the events that launched the modern LGBTQ rights movement. Is pride about advocacy? What of activism? And what if you’re not proud?

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COL371: HNU: State of the Community 2016

COL371In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by special guests from across the pond, Bruce and Shutter, to speak on the state of our community. In a year of highlights and lowlights to the LGBT community, the cubs gather together to share their perspectives on US marriage equality, the Orlando shooting, and the UK’s recent vote to potentially leave the EU. It’s a Hostful New Update special edition.

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  • Jeff: Welcome to Quarter End.
  • Damon: Pride and OMGKC
  • Gary: Holy Rainbows Batman
  • Bruce: Traveling for work (Austria, Switzerland), Alton Towers
  • Chester: Tidal Wave, Men of the Den, came back to England for a few months

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Hi again, cubs!

First, I would like to thank you for giving me a shout out in your last episode. I am glad my email was able to clarify some of your questions and I hope your episode was able to answer other people’s questions as well. Second, I was gladly surprised to receive a public invitation to your podcast! I’d be happy to try it out as I have never been invited to a podcast before. I am going to be moving to Albuquerque, NM this Friday and will not have internet at home for a few days… or many (if you have comcast you may know what I mean). However, let me know how you’d like to start this.

Best,

Francisco Salgado-Garcia (aka Cisco)

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  • LGBTQIA status today – one year ago on June 26th, 2015 the US Supreme Court made Marriage Equality a reality.
  • June 12th, 2016 – Pulse Orlando

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Rex Rivers:

I will not be silenced by fear.

The father of Omar Mateen, the suspect who shot and killed more than 50 people at Orlando’s gay nightclub Pulse, said that his son didn’t like it when he saw two men kissing recently in Miami.

Go out and kiss. In public. Make seeing a kiss a common thing. Take away it’s “shock” value. Do it for those who died, and those who won’t because you had the courage to express your love.

  • UK referendum decision to leave the European Union and its impact on the global society

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