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COLDR: S16E08: Booked & Blessed, LipSync Smackdown Reunion, Finale

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon return along with the queens as this season takes its final lap around the track. From a top 4 to a top 3 to all 16 queens reuniting, it’s bound to be a book you’ll never wanna put down. Listen in as the guys critique and we find out which queen takes the ultimate crown. The blessing of Ru is almost upon us again.

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Put the Pedal to the Metal:

  • Serve(s):  
    • [Damon] – An Actual Top 3
    • [Gary] – AQUA BOOGIE!
  • Swerve(s): 
    • [Damon] – “Deserved to Win” 
    • [Gary] – Plane’s Character vs Person
  • Nerve(s): 
    • [Damon] – Mhiya’s 65% / MF Sasha Colby!
    • [Gary] – Mirror Chit Chat Shade-arama & Megami Mania

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • Snaps for… 
    • [Damon] – Megami Triumphant
    • [Gary] – Motha’s Photo Shoot Advice
  • Eyerolls for… 
    • [Damon] – Get Over Her, Plane!
    • [Gary] – The Editing Shade w/ Amanda v Plane
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COL625: LTAK: Gear – Part 4

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another installment of Let’s Talk About Kink. The guys are again joined by Tony aka Cubziz to discuss gear. In this fourth part, the guys discuss headspace and how it can relate to gear. From placing you in the proper role to play to enhancing your personal play, learn more on what headspace is and where it can come from.

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Let’s Talk About Kink: Gear – Part 4

We’re joined one again by kinky boy Tony aka Cubziz for a chat about what is headspace and how ‘gear’ adds we see and experience when it comes to leather/BDSM/kink. Previously we discussed…

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COL617: LoR: Struggle Bus

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. In this episode, the cubs take a ride on the struggle bus. Discussing conflict and conflict resolution, listen and learn along with the guys as they reveal the common pitfalls and potential solutions to this common problem.

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Landscape of Relationships: Struggle Bus

Four Horsemen 

  • Stonewalling
  • Criticism
  • Defensiveness
  • Contempt

Antidotes

  • Psychological Self-soothing [for Stonewalling]
  • Gentle Start Up [for Criticism]
  • Take Responsibility [for Defensiveness] – it’s okay to be wrong, make mistakes, own our limits, be vulnerable
  • Appreciation [for Contempt] – consider a ratio with 5 for 1 [5 appreciative thoughts for 1 contempt]

The Conflict BluePrint 

  • Current Conflicts
  • Attachment Injuries
  • Gridlock Issues 
    • Conflict is ongoing and recurring
    • 69% of conflicts are unsolvable
    • Utilize conversation/discussion to unearth the underlying source/cause

Resources:

The Marriage Minute – email newsletter signup site

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert – Amazon ordering info

Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love – Amazon ordering info

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COLDR: S13E05: The Bag Ball

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, LET’S HAVE A BALL! Gary and Damon return as the queens pull 36 looks out of their bags and onto the runway. Listen in as the guys critique the looks and also deal with the MAJOR DRAMA FOR YOUR MOMMA! This time around, the tagline is true: “If you ain’t watching Untucked, you’re only getting half the story!” As the drama heats up, find out which queen goes out with the trash.

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 13

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Overall Thoughts

  • [Damon] – So Much Runway
  • [Gary] – Outfits, Outfits, Outfits and DRAW-MAW

Stomp the Runway:

Category/Theme – The Bag Ball: Mixed Bag, Money Bags, Bag Ball Eleganza

  • [Damon] – The Underdogs
  • [Gary] – Thirty Six Runway Presentations

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… The Bette Callback 
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Queens Delivering Completed Concepts
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Stop Showing Her/SHUT UP!!!
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for…  Insecure Drama
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COLDR: S12E10: Superfan Makeover

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, IT’S MAKEOVER TIME!! Gary and Damon review the 10th episode of this season and it’s a twist on a classic challenge. As the queens are charged with bringing some super fans into their drag families, the guys get charged on their critiques. As we are nearing the final laps, do the gurls have it in them to stay on track?

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 12

  • 12 Seasons – 153 Queens

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Maxi Challenge – SuperFan Makeovers

  • [Damon] – Cute Change Up!
  • [Gary] – For once, a fair matchup?

Stomp the Runway:

Category is. . . Family Resemblance

  • [Damon] – Ummmm……
  • [Gary] – Typical Outcomes and Wonderful Weirdos

Lip Sync for Your Life:

Bottom Two – Heidi Aphrodite and Jackie Cox

“Kill the Lights” by Alex Newell

  • [Damon] – Too Late and Unnecessary
  • [Gary] – One episode too late?

Shantay Heidi stays, while Jackie also stays

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Opal Methyd
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Heidi’s Love and Crystal’s Choices
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Sherry Pie’s Choices
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Heidi’s Decision