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COL539: What is. . . Partying?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys continue their “What is…” series with an episode on parties. From dinner engagements to orgies, the cubs define partying in the general sense, determine whether bears party differently, and discuss the issues of PnP.

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What is. . . Partying?

  • Do Bears Party Differently?
  • Social vs Private Events
  • PnP anybody?  
    • NOT to be confused with Plug and Play
    • Also called ‘chemsex’ or ‘wired play’
    • Usually means ‘party and play’ 
    • ‘Party’ means to take illegal/recreational drugs such as meth/speed/tina/ice as well as Ketamine/K/Special K, cocaine, G/Gina/GHB GBL/Liquid E/Liquid Ecstasy, or ecstacy
    • ‘Play’ means to engage in high-risk sex activities, including unprotected sex or group sex

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COL529: LTAS: Incels

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex. The guys are joined by Drew to learn more about Incels-or involuntary celibates. From its beginnings as a website to an online subculture and involvement in some criminal activity, the guys dissect this unfamiliar subject.

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LTAS: Incels

  • Incels, a portmanteau of “involuntary celibates”, are members of an online subculture who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom.
  • For more info, check out the Wikipedia post re: Inceldom

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COL520: LTAS: What Porn Taught Us – Part Two

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex. In this multi-part series, the cubs are joined by sex-pert extraordinaire Hadrian to discuss what porn has taught us. For part two, the guys dig a little deeper into their porn stashes and discuss how porn may affect their self-image. From body positive onlyfan accounts to trying to find yourself in the porn you see, the cubs delve into what porn has done to their confidence.

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Let’s Talk About Sex Series: What Porn Taught Us – Part Two

What did porn do to our self image and confidence?

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COL517: What is…Self-Hatred?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys present their next installment of the “What is…” series. After COL508, where the cubs talked about self-love, this time they’re talking about the opposite: self-hatred.  What does self-hate involve? Can you truly love yourself and still knock other people down?

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What is…Self-Hatred?

  • Discussion of what ‘Self-Hatred’ encompasses. Does the LGB community truly hate itself? Are our own micro aggressions ways of inflicting self-hatred? Can we talk about ‘love’ and still beat ourselves and others down? And what if you just don’t care? Is that self-hatred?

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COL425: Dear Gay Men

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs (sans Chester) take some time to review a recent op-ed article addressing the use of “chubby” in the gay male lexicon. The guys give their thoughts on the issue of using certain words to describe our brethren of size. Also, Maxine Waters doesn’t have time for bullshit, road head, and eye color.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Money Makes the World Go Round
  • Damon: Some time off

Chester’s on the road relocating from the north central plains to the heartland of Ohio

  • Gary: It ends!

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