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COL680: LoR: Parasocial Interactions

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. The cubs are once again joined by Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke for this insightful look into one-sided parasocial interactions. From celebrities to social media influencers, learn how these types of relationships are formed without the others’ knowledge and also the positive and negative impacts they can have on the person creating it. Please like, comment and subscribe to learn more.

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Landscape of Relationships: Parasocial Interactions

Parasocial relationships are one-sided relationships where one person invests lots of time, energy, interest, and sometimes money where the other person is completely unaware of the other person’s existence.  Parasocial relationships are most common with celebrities, organizations, television stars, and social media.  These relationships are created through parasocial interactions (PSI) through mediated encounters with performers through mass media.

Social media offers an added layer of interaction for these relationships to intensify through likes, comments, and direct messaging.  

Alief – def. knowing something isn’t real but feeling like it is

Positive Outcomes of Parasocial Relationships

*Identity Formation 

  • performers can offer autonomy in relationships where they can receive total acceptance outside of parents/family.  
  • provide a secure relationship without the fear of rejection.
  • feeling a part of a group 
  • empathy

*Learning

  • Bandura’s Social Learning Theory says that social behavior is learning and imitating the behaviors of others. 
  • Shows like Mr. Rogers Neighborhood, Sesame Street, Dora the Explorer, Blue’s Clues, and more recently Bluey all offer kids opportunities to learn through identification with these characters.  

Negative Outcomes of Parasocial Relationships 

*Body Image 

  • research has indicated a negative relationship between parasocial relationships and body image, as well as self-comparison, social comparison with characters increases negative body image 
  • interestingly among men, having a PSR with a superhero is likely to protect body image, where not having a PSR with a superhero is likely to hurt body image 
  • the usage of filters in social media (like airbrushing in print media) has greatly increased, giving a false reality of performers.

*Aggression 

  • more aggressive viewers were more likely to identify with aggressive characters and create PSR with them. 

*General 

  • anxiety media views are more likely to be more invested in parasocial relationships 
  • parasocial relationships are one-sided and different traditional friendships
  • the whole hegemonic masculinity thing
  • parasocial breakups and grief “what happens when they ‘betray’ you or they die?” Research indicated this follows the patterns of a relationship breakup
  • can create bias in reality 

Topics of PSR

  • Taylor Swift “Swifties”, Lizzo “Lizzbeans”
  • Twitter/Only Fans
  • Reality TV Stars 
  • Vloggers/Podcast hosts 
  • Fictional Characters 
  • Tiktok 
  • Politicians

Be mindful of the media you are consuming and how that translates into your other relationships and the real world.

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COLDR: AS7E04: Legendary Legends Looks & Santa’s School for Girls

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon return to the legends as the All-Stars keep going and going and going. From fashion reimagings to a Mean Girls Christmas Horror extravaganza, listen in as the guys give their slays and throwaways. As they appear to be the only ones actually critiquing the All Winners, let them ho-ho holler and give their opinions on where the queens are going as we inch ever so closer to the finale.

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 7 Wikipedia

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

  • [Damon] – Serve: FINALLY A GOOD DIRECTOR , Swerve: Where’s the critique?, Nerve: Trinity’s Tribute
  • [Gary] – Serves: Jaida’s Tribute Lewk & Shea’s Knitty Lewk, Swerve: Viv’s Tribute, Nerves: Knitty Knitty Bang Bang & SHE-three-pe-oh!

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Little Booty Jaida  
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Ru Crackup/Vivienne
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Why Did They Win?  
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Downfall of Perfection, Not Calling Out Bullshit aka That Craptastic Lip Sync
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COLDR: S13E16: RPDR Grand Finale

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon have reached the end of Season 13 as they recap the Grand Finale!! In this hybrid pandemic-fueled finale, listen in as the guys spill the tea as the top 4 sashay, shimmy, and slay their way to the crown. With sickening looks and legendary lipsyncs, which queen has all the charisma, uniqueness, nerve, and talent to snatch the crown?

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 13

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Overall Thoughts – Hybrid Version 2021

  • [Damon] – I’m Not Sure How I Feel…
  • [Gary] – Familiar Yet Awkward

Stomp the Runway:

Category/Theme – Black & White, Red All Over, & Grande Finale Eleganza Extravaganza

  • [Damon] – Where Did They Get the Coint?
  • [Gary] – Everybody Was Serving [mostly]

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… The Tribute to Chi Chi
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Olay Body-ody-ody
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… The Opening Number 
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Weirdness on Display
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COL406: All T, No Shade: Racism

In this episode Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by two CA pups, Pup Beacon and Pup Yoshi, to do another “All T, No Shade” episode. This time around, the topic is the sensitive subject of racism and the gay community. In this first part, we dig deep into the subject of preference versus prejudice and the issue with “No blacks, no asians” that is seen in online profiles. Get ready for a very thought provoking discussion.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Getting back into Raiding .  . . and farming?
  • Damon: Best Laid Plans..
  • Chester: Birthday party for Pugsley!
  • Gary: Brain Break Roadtrip
  • Beacon: MAL a couple months ago, CLAW next month
  • Yoshi: Recently became an ONYX member, Japan vacation

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    • Re: COL398: Bud Sex – Catching up on some missed episodes; this one was SO educational! I’ve clearly missed out on a lot in life. ? Thanks guys!
    • Re: COL404: Show Topic Not Found – I’m with Damon, back hair is sexy

Weekly Topic

All T, No Shade: Racism

To Be Continued

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COL363: HNU: The Bear “Community”?

HostfulNewsUpdateIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Hostful News Update. This time around, the cubs tackle some difficult topics. First, we discuss the recent passing of Prince and then move on to two articles regarding the bear community and its issues. Also, we are briefly joined by a special guest to offer his recent experience on the latter matter.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: I was wrong! *squee*
  • Damon: Home Alone
  • Gary: Allergies or Ick

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  • Chester Beltowski‎: CLAW trip starts… Right… Meow! I have to make several stops before i get to Cleveland on Wednesday. Either way, 14 hours on the road means I get to get caught up on‪ #‎CubsOutLoud‬.
  • Chester Beltowski‎: (I took a short break to play some Prince but we’re back to the shows…) Gary, Hadrian did that to me at TBRU. I walked up to say “hi” and he said he was about to go get some food and he invited me to come with. I guess the trick is to approach him when he’s looking famished?

Urbandictionary with Gary:

  • DramatitisA harmful disease in which the world is suffering from. It’s when you have to much drama in your life and are always starting it and always in it.
    Wow, She is really suffering from dramatitis!

Weekly Topic

Hostful News Update

Cooldown Topics

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