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COL421: Couples Age Differences

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  we are joined by Ches to talk about intergenerational relationships: the good, the bad, and the uncomfortable. We get it on with the May-December, throw down with All the Young Dudes, dust off our Silver Daddy/Santa fantasies, and talk about how cubs and Daddy bears make age-gaps in relationships work.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Down, Repeat, Computer Down!
  • Damon: Part of an panel
  • Chester: It’s been a hell of a month!
  • Gary: Guess who’s back in the house?
  • Ches: Pride; Birthday; Welcome baby Finnian!

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  • Andrew Ealy ordered a COL T-Shirt and sent us a photo with the message “How YOU doin’ !!! Got my new COL shirt today!”

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  • @dftbapaul in re: to
    • COLSP06: Daddy’s Day Storytime
      • “Whew that was sexy. Blushing at work
      • In a reply to @fyzzgiggidy
        • Btw a good way to get more info is to go to the @cubsoutloud podcast and use the search feature and look up the ltak (let’s talk about kink)
    • Missing COLDR tweets.

Weekly Topic

Relationships with Age Spans between the Partners

  • Age is a number… Generational Gaps no longer defined
  • Values, Morals, and Ethics.
    • Values: Are having an emotional investment (either for or against something)
    • Morals: Are your ideas of what is right and what is wrong
    • Ethics: Are a set of rules which are explicitly adopted by a group of people
  • Age, Maturity, Life Experiences
    • Older Age =/= Mature, just as Younger Age =/= immature
  • Friends and Family Reactions/Acceptance
  • Challenges
    • Lack of life experiences can be frustrating
    • Facing down the question of mortality
  • Advantages
    • Experiencing new things together
      • Sharing our favorite things
        • music, movies, Gaming/TTG
      • Seeing things “new” again
      • The ability to help teach

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COLDR: S9E03 & S9E04: Good Morning, Princesses!

It’s T time again, bitches! Chester, Gary, and Damon wake up to dish on the naughty going ons as they catch up on RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 9. The guys “struggle” through  some pretty princesses, some talk show hijinks and some revealing negligee. Which princesses will say good night?

Weekly Topic

We’re back and it’s a new season. Let’s discuss.

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 9 Episodes 3 & 4

First Impressions:

  • [Gary] – Talent Lacking Princesses to Snoozy Bedroom Attire
  • [Damon] – What’s with all the Valentina hate?
  • [Chester] –  Competition is showing its colors

Thoughts on These Episodes:

  • [Gary] – Personalities Come Forward
  • [Damon] – Creativity and Improv/Script, plus I’m going to say it again…
  • [Chester] – Where’s mini-challenge, walkth-Ru?

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary] – Kai kais, Speeches, & Disrespect
  • [Damon] – Perspective is Important
  • [Chester] – No alliances, but definite clashing of minds

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Takeaways:

  • [Gary] – Trinity is here to win & Is Aja growing?
  • [Damon] – Loving the Judges
  • [Chester] – Top contenders starting to emerge

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… CuCu IS Explained! & Queens Being Lovingly Real
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Attitude, Attitude, Attitude
  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Sasha & Shea in “Good Morning Bitches”
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Kimora’s “struggle”/Charlie
  • [Chester] –  Snaps for… Trinity, may I call your ass Jiggly?
  • [Chester] – Eyerolls for… Queens who don’t do ______

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary] – There’s a dark horse in the race
  • [Damon] – Are you safe or are you coasting?
  • [Chester] – Keeping a close eye on Trinity and Aja. T on Charlie

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COL397: 2016 Year in Review: It Gave No Fucks

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s the first of the year 2017 and the guys take some time to look back at 2016 and the clusterfuckery that it was. But, it wasn’t all bad, was it? Listen in the cubs give their personal opinions of 2016, from the highs and the lows (and the even lowers).

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: It froze!
  • Damon: Didn’t Get Sick/Holiday Parties/Potluck
  • Chester: End of MWBF/Roadtrip
  • Gary: Moving forward

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  • Bill Sattler
  • Cody Daigle-Orians

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  • Miss Tammy: So many faces I LOVE!

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  • Sigma Wolf
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  • Re: COL395: Bear Run Hints and Tips: Greg Hope: Thanks for having us on guys!

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  • Woof

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  • tgemini:
    • “What is the most embarrassing story you have about somebody else on the podcast? :)”  I did ask him to clarify if he meant what we think might be an embarrassing story of the others, or what we know about/are a witness to.”

Weekly Topic

2016 has come to an end. Celebration, sweet sorrow, bitter pill swallowed?

George Michael – This Kind Of Love (HD) (Unreleased Song)

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  • Damon: If/Then-BC/EFA – Take Me or Leave Me w/Idina Menzel

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COL396: OTR: Midwest Bearfest 2016

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, Chester, Damon, and Gary take an hour to sit and chat about their experiences at this year’s Midwest Bearfest run weekend. It’s another COL On The Road show in Indianapolis.

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Cubs Out Loud at Midwest Bearfest 20 ‘Cruising’

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COL378: State of the Podcast

COL378In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined again by Chester aka Shutter to discuss some feedback they’ve received from recent episodes. From marriage equality to men on the DL, listen in as the guys dig into some comments from our fans.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: DIABLO! And glasses.
  • Damon: It’s HOT and Suicide Squad
  • Gary: No Gamping but Bestie Time
  • Chester: Pokemon Go can go fuck itself. Brighton Pride. Personal life is being turned upside down.

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  • Justin Bowman
  • Rick Hunter

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Re: COL376: WYR: International Edition

  • Andrew Ealy: Fun show… Made my long road trip more enjoyable!… FYI… Car over Fridge, Muzzle over Glasses, Book over Song, Tape over Tree, Speeding Tickets over Gas, Clean/Colonic over Dirty Toilet, Light Cold over Dark Warm, Facts over Emotions, Push over Pull, Wonder Woman over Batman,

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Re: COL372: LTAS: THE DL DEAL

  • chubnerdchaser:Really loved this episode! As someone who is one of the (mostly) D/L guys, it was good to hear more from the other side of the coin. Also really glad you touched on the type of D/L guys who aren’t “out” about being into chubs or bears, even if they’re otherwise out as gay. It’s one of my pet peeves! Keep up the great work!

Re: COL374: OTR: BEAR ORIGINS

  • chubnerdchaser: Highly recommend listening to at least 374 if you’re not a regular listener. It’s really good. I laughed, I cried, I got a semi. Thanks for recording it!

Weekly Topic

State of the Podcast

New comment on your post “COL371: HNU: State of the Community2016″ From Jay

Email feedback from listener RJ:

Hello guys its RJ i thought it was easier to send an email rather than leave a very lengthy message in the comments section, first off one of my earliest experiences with a guy was the DL

Richard and I both worked at Meijer and as time went on we developed a relationship of sorts..which included messing around at work (how we were never caught is an honest to god miracle..LOL) then as time went on we would see each other outside of work once neither of us worked there he was of course married and neglected which his how and why things happened between us (btw even though he is still single we still mess around)

next up is Robert…I actually poached him from another mostly straight fuck buddy and Robert and I still mess around though once i did see him out in public and did not approach him as he was with his daughters girlfriend at the time and did not want to make things odd for him.

Oh i have also managed to play around currently with a guy from Chaturbate..hes married but has a really high sex drive for a man in his mid to late 50s…LOL

And you also asked if there were ever any guys we have hooked up with that were kind of odd or secretive about playing with them…actually Gary there are guys and mutual friends between us i have played with and that have asked for discretion..not sure if its due to me being more effeminate or what but its all about having a good time.

BTW..you had asked me about some show ideas Gary..i was thinking about dating deal breakers…or perhaps how apps are almost eliminating traditional dating..

Stalkers was another show topic i suggested

Thanks guys take care and keep up the good work

RJ

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