sondheim | Cubs Out Loud – The Bear Podcast of Indeterminate Length

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of April. With April showers and snow and all the weather in between, listen in as the cubs indulge you with their going-ons as we reach the end of the first third of the year.

What’s Going On?

Jeff: RTO
Damon: CPAP and Cabaret
Gary: Spring and Malaise

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5/1/22 01:24am – Hey Damon! Thanks for the shout out! I am doing less porn, but did 3 recently for Bearfilms this past November. I can’t believe that I will be 59 this year and still going through the motions. Thank you for mentioning me and glad you enjoy this old daddy bear! Sincerely, Steve Sommers

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Jeff: Shower After Work

https://twitter.com/FieryBiscuts/status/1520624456850456578?s=20&t=qigxyhZx7UatWOGwDpRrwQ

Damon: Public Play Camera 1 / Public Play Camera 2

https://twitter.com/sk1nandearth/status/1517125856312840195

https://twitter.com/sk1nandearth/status/1520007741074460672

Gary: Hack Dat, How You Werk a Pole

https://twitter.com/hausofdecline/status/1520113321676050432?s=20&t=b8YTaVLDUQLxpuBz8KVbJg

https://twitter.com/dojodaddii/status/1517100750224203776?s=20&t=b8YTaVLDUQLxpuBz8KVbJg

Links:

Jeff: In The Balance UNOFFICIAL FULL lyrics (Final Fantasy XIV Aglaia Nald’thal Raid Boss), Music Producer Reacts: In The Balance (FFXIV Nald’thal Theme)

Gary: Netflix: Russian Doll – Season 2, Disney+: Marvel Studio’s Moon Knight,

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Show Topic

Landscape of Relationships: In-Laws

Lots of research and media about how in-law relationships are really difficult. That may be the case as some research out there says 3 out of 4 couples have difficult relationships with heterosexual in-laws. Is that the case with same-sex relationships?

Every family is different with a different rulebook that has been in creation for possibly generations.

Possibility for conflictual interactions, difficult pasts, and crunchy presents.

BOUNDARIES!!!!!

Know your values
Stay true to you.

Brene Brown’s BRAVING…specifically the Generosity part.

Keep those conflict skills in check.

LGBT in-laws (2019) 400 interviews from children in law who identified as gay or lesbian. Describe relationship with same sex in law parent.

Many of those interviewed struggled with acceptance by one or both of their parents-in-law.

Relationships usually improved with time

While parents-in-law became increasingly accepting, there was often someone else in the family who was not accepting

Acceptance by the mothers-in-law, according to the daughters-in-law, came as more of their friends and social circle either had children who were lesbian or gay, or their friends and social circle became more socially aware.

Feelings of ambivalence toward family members are typical.

Be the subject of your life, not the object.

You become an adult child the moment you set boundaries with your family (and in-laws).

What do YOU want to do with your partner in relation to each other’s families?