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COL680: LoR: Parasocial Interactions

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. The cubs are once again joined by Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke for this insightful look into one-sided parasocial interactions. From celebrities to social media influencers, learn how these types of relationships are formed without the others’ knowledge and also the positive and negative impacts they can have on the person creating it. Please like, comment and subscribe to learn more.

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Landscape of Relationships: Parasocial Interactions

Parasocial relationships are one-sided relationships where one person invests lots of time, energy, interest, and sometimes money where the other person is completely unaware of the other person’s existence.  Parasocial relationships are most common with celebrities, organizations, television stars, and social media.  These relationships are created through parasocial interactions (PSI) through mediated encounters with performers through mass media.

Social media offers an added layer of interaction for these relationships to intensify through likes, comments, and direct messaging.  

Alief – def. knowing something isn’t real but feeling like it is

Positive Outcomes of Parasocial Relationships

*Identity Formation 

  • performers can offer autonomy in relationships where they can receive total acceptance outside of parents/family.  
  • provide a secure relationship without the fear of rejection.
  • feeling a part of a group 
  • empathy

*Learning

  • Bandura’s Social Learning Theory says that social behavior is learning and imitating the behaviors of others. 
  • Shows like Mr. Rogers Neighborhood, Sesame Street, Dora the Explorer, Blue’s Clues, and more recently Bluey all offer kids opportunities to learn through identification with these characters.  

Negative Outcomes of Parasocial Relationships 

*Body Image 

  • research has indicated a negative relationship between parasocial relationships and body image, as well as self-comparison, social comparison with characters increases negative body image 
  • interestingly among men, having a PSR with a superhero is likely to protect body image, where not having a PSR with a superhero is likely to hurt body image 
  • the usage of filters in social media (like airbrushing in print media) has greatly increased, giving a false reality of performers.

*Aggression 

  • more aggressive viewers were more likely to identify with aggressive characters and create PSR with them. 

*General 

  • anxiety media views are more likely to be more invested in parasocial relationships 
  • parasocial relationships are one-sided and different traditional friendships
  • the whole hegemonic masculinity thing
  • parasocial breakups and grief “what happens when they ‘betray’ you or they die?” Research indicated this follows the patterns of a relationship breakup
  • can create bias in reality 

Topics of PSR

  • Taylor Swift “Swifties”, Lizzo “Lizzbeans”
  • Twitter/Only Fans
  • Reality TV Stars 
  • Vloggers/Podcast hosts 
  • Fictional Characters 
  • Tiktok 
  • Politicians

Be mindful of the media you are consuming and how that translates into your other relationships and the real world.

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COLDR: AS7E04: Legendary Legends Looks & Santa’s School for Girls

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon return to the legends as the All-Stars keep going and going and going. From fashion reimagings to a Mean Girls Christmas Horror extravaganza, listen in as the guys give their slays and throwaways. As they appear to be the only ones actually critiquing the All Winners, let them ho-ho holler and give their opinions on where the queens are going as we inch ever so closer to the finale.

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 7 Wikipedia

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

  • [Damon] – Serve: FINALLY A GOOD DIRECTOR , Swerve: Where’s the critique?, Nerve: Trinity’s Tribute
  • [Gary] – Serves: Jaida’s Tribute Lewk & Shea’s Knitty Lewk, Swerve: Viv’s Tribute, Nerves: Knitty Knitty Bang Bang & SHE-three-pe-oh!

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Little Booty Jaida  
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Ru Crackup/Vivienne
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Why Did They Win?  
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Downfall of Perfection, Not Calling Out Bullshit aka That Craptastic Lip Sync
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COLDR: AS4E06: LaLaPaRUza

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, it’s a lip sync extravaganza as the eliminated queens return and get a chance to get back into the competition. Gary and Damon give us the lowdown on the LaLaPaRUza challenge. Who lip syncs their way back into the race for the All Stars Hall of Fame?

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 4

LalapaRuza Lip Sync Challenge:

  • [Damon] – Not as Gagged…
  • [Gary] – Predictable?

Runway:

  • [Damon] – Who’s Ready to Get Leotard-ed?
  • [Gary] – Functional vs Fashion

Lip Sync for Your Legacy:

  • [Damon] – Turn it Out or Fall
  • [Gary] – Was it what we wanted?

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Trinity’s heart/”Hold up…”
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Fantasy Island…
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Serving Looks
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Valentina’s confirmed delusion ruvealed

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COLDR: AS4E02: Super Girl Groups, Henny

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon are serving all the drama, henny! Listen as the guys belt out their feelings as the All Stars form gurl groups and strut their stuff on some eleganza after dark. Plus, we spill some real tea on one of the queens. Which queen gets the platinum record and whose is the bargain bin?

Gia Gunn Gaggery:

  • [Damon] – Save the Drama for After Mama Ru
  • [Gary] – Dishing Up Drama

Girl Groups Challenge:

  • [Damon] – Music is Hard?
  • [Gary] – Teamwork versus Individuality

Runway:

  • [Damon] – Better Looks
  • [Gary] – Grand vs Grunt  [Manila/Naomi vs Monique/Farrah]

Lip Sync for Your Legacy:

  • [Damon] – The Story Told Itself
  • [Gary] – Obvious from the Start

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Manila’s Runway Look
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Gia’s “Apology”
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Being a Star
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Delusions of Grandeur

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COLDR: AS3E03: The Bitchelor

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, the guys grab their eggplants in this week’s improv dating and wigs, wigs and wigs challenge. Who gives us a beehive five and who needs a wig revival? Does Milk do a body good or are has it spoiled? Oh, and YouTube created some drama cutting short the show due to some testicle difficulties.

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Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars 3

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Damon] – Denial is not just a river in Egypt
  • [Gary] – It’s Just Drag Baby
  • [Chester] – Not RuPaul’s Best Friend Race!

Snaps / Eyerolls

  • [Gary] – Snaps for . . . Kennedy Stepping Her Pussy Up
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for . . . Milk’s Delusion
  • [Chester] – Snaps for… Ben’s 3-Peat
  • [Chester] – Eyerolls for… Kennedy’s Teeth/Hair
  • [Damon] – Snaps for…Chi Chi’s runway look
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for…Chi Chi/Trixie’s doubts

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Chester] – Are the tops emerging?
  • [Damon] – Heavy is the crown…
  • [Gary] – MOAR twists!!

Fantasy League.
Wagon Wheel Watusi

Drag Race Bingo

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