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COLDR: AS7E06: Drag Race Gives Back Variety Extravaganza & Lip Sync LaLaPaRuza Smackdown

August 2, 2022 boxtech Leave a comment

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon wrap up the All Stars All Winners season! As the legends show off their Charisma, Uniqueness, Nerve and especially Talent in a variety show eleganza AND a lip sync smackdown for the queen, find out which gurl is crowned the QUEEN OF ALL QUEENS. Listen in as the guys share their thoughts as we finally reach the end of this legendary journey.

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 7 Wikipedia

14 Seasons – 180 Queens
Fan Wiki RPDRAS S7

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

[Damon] – Serve: All that BASS!!, Swerve: Breaking the Tie, Nerve: Ru’s Finale Performance/Dream
[Gary] – Serve: JAIDA BEADING, Yvie’s Camp Cake,

Swerve: Monét, Monét, Monét…ugh, Viv’s blush and final runway choice,

Nerve: Mama Ru Murdered a Muppet, Raja runway

Snaps & Eyerolls:

[Damon] – Snaps for… JAIDA ESSENCE HALL!
[Gary] – Snaps for… Soul Train silliness w/ Trinity’s Wig Stunt
[Damon] – Eyerolls for… I have nothing…
[Gary] – Eyerolls for… “New Titles” from the Judges and Production Picks plus that Music Video ‘nightmare’

Crown It:

[Damon] – Lowered Expectations
[Gary] – Well… that happened, an interesting Untucked, and Our Prediction on the Final Showdown

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COL561: LTAS: Asking and Receiving

July 21, 2020 boxtech Leave a comment

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex! For this episode, the guys are joined again by COL Sex Therapist Edward Angelini-Cooke to discuss the concept of asking and receiving. As we explore romantic relationships, the cubs review negotiations, consent, and getting your needs met and fulfilled. Also sandwiches, pizzas, and tea and what they mean in the grand scheme of things (Don’t worry Gary, there’s no food play involved).

Show Topic

Let’s Talk About Sex – Asking and Receiving

Why is it so hard to ask for something during sex?
Are you being rude if you don’t show appreciation for the other participant during sex?
What do you do if you wanted a blow job but they aren’t doing that thing that you really like when you are getting a blowjob? You know that thing…

The Good Touch Games….Drenched Fur….Gabe and Edward

Consent

“An agreement between two parties who are about to engage in sexual activity”-RAINN
Consent is just as much about no as it is about yes.
Consent is about both parties getting what they want
Consent Tea Video

Asking

- We have to know what we want or what we don’t want in order to ask for and/or decline something.
- Sex needs a new methaphor other than baseball/sports….what about pizza?

- Asking leads to intimacy

Receiving

Periodic Checking in (Verbal and non-verbal)
- Sometimes you are speechless so a nod of appreciation is good (see Daddy Will Angel for reference…Daddy Will Angel, Liam Angel, and Brad Kalvo)
How to receive (Compliment Sandwich)
Show appreciation
Room for improvement
Show appreciation again
Repeat till orgasm (if that is what you want on your pizza)

NPR Safe Sex Communication Skills and COVID-19 Social Bubbles

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COLDR: S12E07: Madonna: The Unauthorized Rusical

April 19, 2020 boxtech Leave a comment

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon are joined by extra special guest host Q! For this episode, it’s time to celebrate the Madgesty herself as the queens sing, dance and get the looks of MADONNA. From Miss Ciccone’s early days to her erotica, Vogue fantasies, hippie and on to Forever, the guys spill the tea on the queens performances as the big M. It’s a lot of material, girl, so the guys have a lot to say. Don’t tell them to stop until the rays of light hit your window.