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COL629: It’s the Holiday Season

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys get more festive as the holidays approach. Getting together, they go through some of the celebrations that happen during this time of the year. While there is a focus on one particular holiday (Christmas), there are at least seven spiritual holidays of note going on right now. How many do the cubs know about? Listen and learn as the guys spread the holiday cheer of many holidays to come.

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It’s the Holiday Season 

The so-called culture wars here in the U.S. of recent years have brought to light the inward focus of some faith communities amongst many that celebrate at this time of year. While there is a focus on one particular celebration/date, in roughly one month and a half there are seven spiritual holidays of note. How many do our hosts know about? Do you celebrate some or any of them? 

Hanukkah: November 28/December 6 – also known as Chanukah or the Festival of Lights, it is a Jewish festival that lasts for eight days and nights. Hebrew for “dedication” – based on the story of the menorah in the Second Temple of Jerusalem In the Hebrew calendar, Hanukkah starts on the 25th of Kislev, which corresponds to the time frame between late November and December in the Gregorian Calendar. 

Las Posadas: December 16-24 – celebrated throughout Mexico and Central America, is Spanish for “The Inns.” This nine-day festival lasts for a nine-day interval (called the novena) during the Christmas season, which represents the nine-month pregnancy while honoring the journey of Mary and Joseph from Nazareth to Bethlehem in search of lodging.

Winter Solstice/Yule/Christmastide: December 21 – Pagan celebration of the darkest day of the year, originally called Yule, is one of the oldest recorded winter holidays in history. Historically, celebrated by feeding a large oak tree into the fireplace. The tree would be cut down on the Winter Solstice and the yule log would be slowly pushed into the flames over the 12 days of Christmas.

Soyal: December 22 – Zuni and Hopi Native American tribes in the southern U.S. honor the Winter Solstice on Tuesday, December 22 with a ceremony to lure back the sun god, who is believed to have traveled away from the tribes during the winter. It also marks a new cycle of the Wheel of the Year.

Christmas: December 25 – These days it’s easy to mistake Christmas as the two months of the year where everyone airs their hot takes on Hallmark movies, consumerism, ugly sweaters, Black Friday, how early is too early to put a tree, and holiday ads that dare to evolve with the times. Christmas in America is also a trillion-dollar industry, with $10.8 billion spent on Cyber Monday alone in 2020. Between the baking, the decorating, the holiday movies, and gifts, Americans will shell out about $1,500 per household. It’s the most wonderful – and expensive – time of the year.

Kwanzaa: December 26-January 1 – Created in 1966 by Dr. Maulana Karenga, professor and chairman of Black Studies at CSU, Long Beach, Kwanzaa – which stems from a Swahili phrase meaning “first fruits” – honors African-American culture. Each of Kwanzaa’s seven nights involves a candle-lighting ceremony during which attendees light a candle representing one of Kwanzaa’s seven principles: unity, self-determination, collective work & responsibility, cooperative economics, purpose, creativity, and faith.

Epiphany: January 6 – Feast of Epiphany, most commonly known as Three Kings’ Day, happens twelve days after Christmas, on January 6th. It is a Catholic observance and a day for commemorating the visit that the Three Wise Men paid to Baby Jesus.

Orthodox Christmas: January 7 – Orthodox Christians in the United States celebrate Christmas a little bit later than everyone else, on January 7. This date falls on December 25 in the Julian Calendar, which existed before the Gregorian Calendar. Orthodox Christmas also celebrates the birth of Jesus Christ, the son of God. This holiday differs from Christmas Day because it does not observe Pagan traditions, like waiting for gifts from Santa Claus and decorating a tree, instead it focuses on religious customs.

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COL596: What’s Going On – March 2021

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of March. As the cubs spring forward, listen in as they share their goings-on: from new video games to new jobs. Plus, don’t fuck with Gary and his viewing of Drag Race!

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: The Adventures of Elagos, The Warrior of Light
  • Damon: Similar
  • Gary: Slowly Improving &  Step Up Your Online Customer Service

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      • Bobby Miller: “Totally enjoy the podcast thks guys”

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COL514: Trans Bear Listener

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys review some recent feedback from one of their newest audience members. This trans bear listener addresses some concerns after reviewing some of our past episodes and the comments we made. As Pride Month comes to a close, listen as the guys discuss these concerns and discuss their growth as they try to become allies to the transgender community.

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Trans Bear Listener – we talk about an email we received earlier this summer, how we feel when it comes to being an ally to trans individuals, and owning where we are today.

Hello,

New listener here, and I’d like to start off by saying sorry if this message is kinda long and rambling, I’m sure I’m mostly gonna stream of consciousness write it.

I listened to all your most recent episodes that are accessable via Google Podcasts; then I thought I should Google your podcast + Transgender, because I’ve had a couple experiences of enjoying a Thing ™️, only to find out that the people that produce it have said some really offensive stuff about trans folks. So I happy to discover that you had some episodes tagged as transgender on your site, so I could listen and get the tea. I listened to a few of them, but then for some reason your website stopped playing them, unclear if it was my phone or your site, or what, but I think I heard all the important bits.

I don’t want this to come across as a dressing down or anything like that, I really just want to educate. Mostly I wanna call back to some stuff I heard in COL388: Entourage Feedback, and COL474/475: Bear World Weekend, as well as share some of my own stories.

Most of what you guys said in 388 was on the better side of things I’ve heard, but one of the things that stood out to me was the use of the term “female genitalia”, obviously I don’t speak for all of the trans community, but one thing that holds true for me, and most trans people I know would prefer if you didn’t say things like that. To put it in the slogan-y terms, “it’s not female genitalia, I’m a man and it’s mine”, a better way to talk about it would be someone who has not had surgery, or someone with their original parts. And like tips and hints for guys who are interested in trans guys, even though you guys basically said you aren’t, just ask what he wants his junk called; obviously there’s like the most famous trans man  porn star who calls himself “a man with a pussy” but I know if you use that term with me it’s gonna be an instant turn off, I don’t want feminine terms for myself, it instantly makes me feel unsexy, but some trans guys will be totally fine with it, so best just to all whoever you’re with.

The other thing that stuck out to me in that episode was someone, sorry I don’t recall who, said they couldn’t even picture playing with a trans guy who had had bottom surgery, even if they were attracted to him, and that personally I don’t get. I haven’t had surgery, I don’t ever want to force anyone to have sex with me who doesn’t want to, and like as long as someone doesn’t go out of their way to be a fuck-stick, to call me disgusting or tell me that I’m not allowed in gay spaces or anything like that, it’s ok with me that someone may not be interested because if the equipment I’ve got. But if someone would have sex with the exact same cis dude but wouldn’t with that guys who has had bottom surgery I’m not understanding, since there are definitely trans guys that you can’t tell at all, at least until they cum.

In the episodes 474/475 it was neat to hear about the gender neutral contests, it sounded like it would also be acceptable for a trans man to compete in the Mr. Best contest, but I wanted to verify because having Cub be gender neutral is great, but the idea of mandating that trans men couldn’t compete in Mr. Bear or trans women couldn’t compete in Ms. Bear sounds bad. But also that’s not what it sounded like was happening, it just sounded like the trans man happened to be competing for Cub not that he wasn’t allowed to compete for Mr. Bear.

Anyhow, I was wondering if you’d ever thought about/sought out a trans bear to have as a guest on your show to talk about any of that?

Also in episode 388 it got brought up how important cock is to some of you. Again, that’s fine, so long as someone isn’t a total asshole to me I’m not gonna be upset over that being the case but I do have some interesting stories to tell over that. I’m a big big bear chub, or rather should probably say a big chubby pocket bear, pretty hairy, bearded, 5’7, over 300 pounds. So I know the types of guys I attract (and the types I’m into) but quite a few times I’ve had people who’ve thought they were like that and then realized when they met me, “oh having a cock isn’t nearly as important as I might have thought it was.” That’s happened many times on growlr, and Tumblr (R.I.P.) but more interestingly has happened in the midst of a hook up quite a few times. I would be playing with a hot bear who is definitely into me, but his husband/boyfriend/partner wouldn’t really be interested due to me being trans, but then in middle of fucking me he’d like shout to the other room “hon, you gotta come try this!” or boyfriend would lean in to check in on us and change his tune in being interested real quick. So again, no shade if it’s not your thing, but sometimes stuff can surprise people when they come face to face with a situation.

Cheers, 

Trans Bear

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COL460: Disney Madness

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys get into the maddening of last month, but use a different format. The cubs combine their love of Disney movies and the thrill of competition and bring together a bracket to pick the overall winner. Which movie is the champion of the Disney shootout?

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: QE Can Get Boring
  • Damon: Taxes & CMC
  • Chester: Ready Player One/Phone Issues
  • Gary: Emergency Meds Ride-along

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Disney/Pixar Movie Bracket Challenge via Matt Herrick in honor of March Madness.

COL Final Bracket

64 Movies in 4 categories:

  • Silver & Gold Era
  • Renaissance
  • Modern
  • Pixar

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