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COL527: What’s Going On – August/September 2019

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On episode for the months of August and September. It’s been a while, so we’re checking in on the cubs to see how they’re doing. From work changes to the mundane schedule, the guys share their highs and lows for the past couple of months. Also, we share your feedback on some of our recent episodes, titillate you with some tweets, and give you some fun shows to watch.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Back in the sunlight, Fuck you allergies
  • Damon: Cincy Leather, Work (Non)Fun, & Gaming
  • Gary: Work, Dad, Sleep, Repeat

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Facebook Share:

  • Sept 17th – Aron Moberg shared out COL525: What is…Confidence? Episode post

Facebook Likes:

  • Anwar Lordsire
  • Stephen Buzz Foster
  • Ronnie Kassis
  • Bruce Gohr

Facebook Comment/Post:

  • Re: COL522: Trans Bear Interview – Charles S. Scott Great episode! 🐻🐻🐻🐻🐻
  • Re: COL519: What’s Going On – July 2019 – Michael Quinichett Lmt If reference to my phone call into COL, this is what I meant when I said I “get on top of the client.” 😘😂

Instagram Followers: 

  • ascohn
  • toadberg
  • msd_1802
  • issac.benjamin.14
  • demondoctortheseries

Instagram Comments: 

  • Oan_ragnari It’s so beautiful. – Oan’s COL chili bowl pics!
  • Re: COL516: LTAS: What Porn Taught Us – Part One – hauntcub: I wonder what a daddy cub could contribute?

YouTube Subscribers:

  • Lovel Trahan

YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COL429: Power Hour 5: Drunk Cubs, The Next Birthday Bash – Oan R. Tacos and enchiladas. And more shirtless Gary.
  • Re: COL523: Power Hour 7: Jeff’s Birthday Basharino – Oan R. I’m scared. Drunk me is on the internet. Lol. For the record, I was good on shots until I reached the minute of my birthday. Then started skipping. (I also might’ve been trying to hold some of it down)

Email:

  • Name: Henry    Message: Hi, guys. Still enjoying your podcast after all these years. (Although the one about trans acceptance did seem to go on & on and got on my nerves. Not sure if that’s because I’m personally uncomfortable with the subect, or just due to my habitual short attention span.)   Anyhoo (to quote Damon), your call in COL515 for suggestions of topics for future shows made me think of one. Wonder what it was. In the time it took to seek out your website, go to Contact Us, fill in the top of this form, and type the preceding two paragraphs, it completely slipped my mind. [sigh] Age takes its toll…  

Oh yeah, that’s it! You jokingly mentioned being together in a home, 50 years from now, and still putting out the podcast. It immediately brought to mind the subject of retirement homes for gay men, something that has been on my mind as I have aged. I have found none in the Atlanta area, and I wonder if they exist in other locales. If so, perhaps you could bring in a representative from one (a resident would be great) to talk about the concept, the demand, the challenges & rewards of getting them up & running, the general atmosphere in such a place, and whatever else y’all and the guest might think appropriate. None of us is getting younger, and “what do I do now?” is a question that increasingly comes up.  Thanx for considering this. And keep on ‘castin’! Henry

  • Name: Mark     Message: Thanks again for restoring a button to download the podcasts. Could you do that for episodes 512-516? Thanks! UrsusMajr (Mark)

Voicemail

  • Oan: Re: What is … Self Love? And What is … Self Hate?

Twitter Followers: 

  • @GuyBeefy
  • @pupsm0ke
  • @TheReal07349630
  • @chub4me
  • @lbesthatlights1
  • @baerlover1
  • @frank60442046
  • @DavidCo79920899
  • @swissadultbaby
  • @CitiesCub

Twitter Comment:

  • re: COL521: What is…Respect? – @GBearTrekkie65: Replying to @cubsoutloud: Is the clothing optional gay campground mentioned in the episode The Woods Campground in Lehighton, PA?

Recent Shows

  • COL519: What’s Going On – July 2019
  • COL520: LTAS: What Porn Taught Us – Part Two
  • COL521: What is. . . Respect?
  • COL522: Trans Bear Listener Interview
  • COL523: Power Hour 7: Jeff’s Birthday Basharino
  • COL524: LTAS: What Porn Taught Us – Part Three
  • COL525: What is. . . Confidence?
  • COL526: LTAK: From Yuk to Yum

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https://twitter.com/bearberly/status/1176478259837583360

https://twitter.com/rbakesporn/status/1176200619721445377

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COL519: What’s Going On – July 2019

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On episode for the month of July. The cubs are all busy with their work, but what else did July have in store? From the same old to some new adventures, catch up with the guys after a steamy midsummer.  Also, more porn talk, binge watching series, and just how much weight a massage table can hold.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Same Ole, Same Ole
  • Damon: Busy Work/Look Around CMC
  • Gary: The Ride Continues

Facebook Likes:

  • Chris Evans-Behr

Instagram Followers: 

  • Ohheyimmatt
  • 1luan40

Instagram Comments: 

  • Re: COL516: LTAS: What Porn Taught Us – Part 1: hauntcub commented: I wonder what a daddy cub could contribute? 😎😁

YouTube Subscribers:

  • Lovel Trahan

YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COL516: LTAS: What Porn Taught Us – Part One: 
      • EscapePod42: “I know it’s your not your guys fault but a lot of us aren’t getting notifications and stuff”
      • AL-Teronn Robinson: “What bugs me about porn was the lack of diversity in bear porn even now it’s still very little diversity.”

Voicemail

  • Hey guys, this is Q. I am calling because in reference to your last podcast the fantasies episode and specifically with Gary asking about massage tables and the weights or at least the like what is the weight limit of typical professional massage table? So. Four hundred pounds is typically the least amount of weight that a professional massage table can hold the table of I have has a working weight of six hundred and fifty pounds and I’m actually in about a month or so going to purchase the table that has a working wait fifteen hundred pounds because I do a lot of work on the table where I’m actually on top of my client myself. So I weigh 250, you know, they weigh 300 that’s 550 pounds and some doing a lot of work on the table. I need to make sure that it’s not going to squeak or do any of those, you know, making those weird or break or any of those things. So 1500 pounds is probably the maximum amount. I’ve heard of a table having a professional portable table. But yeah, so there you go. There’s your information. Thanks guys. Love the podcast.. 

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  • @NigelFarmer11
  • @CdzinhaG
  • @BearMcs
  • @davidwilburn
  • @Jeepcub67
  • @SamKenaan
  • @betocanhoto

Recent Shows

  • COL515: What’s Going On – June 2019
  • COL516: LTAS: What Porn Taught Us – Part One
  • COL517: What is. . . Self Hate?
  • COL518: Favorite Fantasies 

Email:

Thanks for the episode! Sorry I’ve been busy lately and just got to the episode this morning! I hadn’t even realized you’d posted a whole episode reply or I would’ve carved out the time to listen to it already.

First off I would say sorry, I knew when I sent it one of the episodes I was referencing was quite old, and you may have grown in opinions since it was recorded, but since I was taking time to send the email I wanted to hit on all my thoughts, just in case.

I’ve attached a good picture of someone who has received bottom surgery. It’s not me, I have all my original parts, haven’t had surgery. If you’re wanting other pictures for reference I’d honestly recommend watching porn with trans guys (though often if they’ve had bottom surgery it’s kinda like playing Where’s Waldo since it can be difficult to really tell) rather than googling, because on Google you can get some somewhat gruesome pictures taken mid-surgery. And to educate some more on what I meant by you can’t really tell until they cum, basically just that, during sex you would treat it just like a cis man’s penis, only when they orgasm there wouldn’t be liquid cum, just the other tells like moans and body shakes.

I have a lot more thoughts on the episode I’d like to share, but if being on an episode is something that I actually feel up to being able to do I think it’s been more interesting in that format.

I’ve also attached a couple pictures of me (which if you bring up this email you can talk about, but please don’t post anywhere) do you know who you’re talking to.

Thanks, 

P.S. sorry for all the typos in this and my original message, I typed them out on my phone and my autocorrect mangled them a little bit.

P.S.S. Hello, I’ve talked it over with some friends and decided I think it’d be good to come on, if the invitation is still open, and you’re still wanting a chat with a trans bear.

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COL515: What’s Going On – June 2019

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On episode for the month of June. This time around, the guys talk about butt stuff, and dungeons, and sexual positions and more….Wait, is this an episode of Let’s Talk About Kink? Not really.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Night Shift & Dragons
  • Damon: Job News & Colonoscopy & Yesterday
  • Gary: New Stuff is Rough

Feedback:

Facebook Likes:

  • Steven Maxwell
  • สามารถ สมาธาร [Thai – Able to Stream]
  • Anwar Lordsire

Instagram Followers: 

  • bronparty

Twitter Followers: 

  • @jkiykvgi ‏
  • @PardueJeffery ‏
  • @cockeyekink ‏ 
  • @cenlapup ‏
  • @thetalentedpen1 ‏
  • @Lukys3189 ‏
  • @vidaeuorg ‏
  • @RealMenFullBush ‏
  • @Tend2DillyDally ‏

Recent Shows

  • COL511: WTG – May 2019
  • FB215: Black Shirt Friday
  • COL512: What is. . . Pride?
  • COL513: 50 Years From Now
  • COL514: Trans Bear Listener

Blog Post: 

Name: Howard N

Message: Hey guys. Wanted to write an email. Pride month is coming up and I wanted to talk a little bit about it, if I may. Pride can mean a lot of things to a lot of people, and I know the holiday is more specifically concerning lgbt+ persons, but I wanted to say a little bit about what Pride is to me. My coming out is a little different from regular coming outs, with bits being thing that are the same. I remember being so ashamed of who I am, as my background was heavily influenced by the Christian religion. I remember my first boyfriend, and the way he sat on my bed in my college paid apartment room and stated, “I’m not shy”. And the way I walked toward the bed and sat down and being instantly drawn to be felt against his body as he kissed my forehead. Cut forward a bit, I remember being angry with my mother on the phone after the day I had come out to her when she had come down for a visit. I remember feeling like she no longer understood me after years of being close (I was 20 at the time). Cut forward a bit more to a Kohl’s clothing store. I remember my first ex telling me to stop following him around as we were walking around the store. Cut to nights of feeling heartbroken and being taken advantage of. Cut to following relationships with guys and wanting to find somebody like him and me wanting to find someone I felt comfortable with again cause I no longer felt at home under the same roof with my mom. Cut to my self-hate and resentment at myself for getting so emotionally attached to people that I can’t let go, they hang around like ghosts in my head. Cut to the realization that my self-hate was more than just the fact that I was gay. And cut to me learning about Neurodiversity and autism. And how suicide ideation is more common in autistics who mask their neurology to suit the needs of the many. And to me realizing why I have such a hard time with understanding the dynamics of relationships. Being autistic is a lot like being gay in the fact that you don’t want to come out of the closet, even when everybody can tell there’s something different about you, wrong even. All through school I wanted to be like others so bad. I did weird stupid stuff to try and fit in with the social norms. But there’s a constant anxiety, and as you grow older, the anxiety turns into what’s called a mental illness (meaning you can be so afraid to the point of paranoia). This paranoia comes around particularly with people I like because I want so bad for them to like me and am so afraid of losing. Friends have lost connection, romantic relationships go sour…….I don’t want this anymore. I don’t want to be ashamed of who I am, the way I act and think differently from others, the way I react or my stimming (a term for autistics to explain the things they do to cope with stress). I want to stop being afraid of being social and being taken the wrong way. I take Pride in the fact that I am wired differently. (Btw, the symbol for Neurodiversity is a rainbow infinity)

Email:

Gents,

Thank you all for doing this show. I so greatly respect your willingness to be public and open about your learning and growth; it’s not easy. The trans community is so important to me (a close partner is trans, long story), and I’m always so happy to see continued growth in the acceptance and support of our trans siblings. More learning for me too.

Some thoughts that crossed my mind while listening:

  • I think Jeff had a great idea; more trans porn! Lots of learning (up close and personal) to be had with more porn. No harm, lots of education, no one feeling under the microscope.
  • I think a guest on the show to talk more about the trans experience is a great idea. And while I love Hadrian, I feel like despite his breadth of experience (no shade!), it should really be a trans-masculine bear to discuss it in more depth.
  • A podcast recently came out called Two Headed Girl, where a trans-masculine person discusses a lot of issues around their transition. The two hosts are great. Might not be the kind of focused piece that’s helpful but it’s a wonderfully personal show.

Anyway, just random listener thoughts. Thanks again for keeping me company.

Best,

/Chris G

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Author: Patrick B. (bostonareabear) 

Next on COL – episode 3133 (50 years from now in 2069) We will hear Hadrian read from his latest short story titled “Get off my lawn and get into my Craftmatic Adjustable Bed!”

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COL514: Trans Bear Listener

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys review some recent feedback from one of their newest audience members. This trans bear listener addresses some concerns after reviewing some of our past episodes and the comments we made. As Pride Month comes to a close, listen as the guys discuss these concerns and discuss their growth as they try to become allies to the transgender community.

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Trans Bear Listener – we talk about an email we received earlier this summer, how we feel when it comes to being an ally to trans individuals, and owning where we are today.

Hello,

New listener here, and I’d like to start off by saying sorry if this message is kinda long and rambling, I’m sure I’m mostly gonna stream of consciousness write it.

I listened to all your most recent episodes that are accessable via Google Podcasts; then I thought I should Google your podcast + Transgender, because I’ve had a couple experiences of enjoying a Thing ™️, only to find out that the people that produce it have said some really offensive stuff about trans folks. So I happy to discover that you had some episodes tagged as transgender on your site, so I could listen and get the tea. I listened to a few of them, but then for some reason your website stopped playing them, unclear if it was my phone or your site, or what, but I think I heard all the important bits.

I don’t want this to come across as a dressing down or anything like that, I really just want to educate. Mostly I wanna call back to some stuff I heard in COL388: Entourage Feedback, and COL474/475: Bear World Weekend, as well as share some of my own stories.

Most of what you guys said in 388 was on the better side of things I’ve heard, but one of the things that stood out to me was the use of the term “female genitalia”, obviously I don’t speak for all of the trans community, but one thing that holds true for me, and most trans people I know would prefer if you didn’t say things like that. To put it in the slogan-y terms, “it’s not female genitalia, I’m a man and it’s mine”, a better way to talk about it would be someone who has not had surgery, or someone with their original parts. And like tips and hints for guys who are interested in trans guys, even though you guys basically said you aren’t, just ask what he wants his junk called; obviously there’s like the most famous trans man  porn star who calls himself “a man with a pussy” but I know if you use that term with me it’s gonna be an instant turn off, I don’t want feminine terms for myself, it instantly makes me feel unsexy, but some trans guys will be totally fine with it, so best just to all whoever you’re with.

The other thing that stuck out to me in that episode was someone, sorry I don’t recall who, said they couldn’t even picture playing with a trans guy who had had bottom surgery, even if they were attracted to him, and that personally I don’t get. I haven’t had surgery, I don’t ever want to force anyone to have sex with me who doesn’t want to, and like as long as someone doesn’t go out of their way to be a fuck-stick, to call me disgusting or tell me that I’m not allowed in gay spaces or anything like that, it’s ok with me that someone may not be interested because if the equipment I’ve got. But if someone would have sex with the exact same cis dude but wouldn’t with that guys who has had bottom surgery I’m not understanding, since there are definitely trans guys that you can’t tell at all, at least until they cum.

In the episodes 474/475 it was neat to hear about the gender neutral contests, it sounded like it would also be acceptable for a trans man to compete in the Mr. Best contest, but I wanted to verify because having Cub be gender neutral is great, but the idea of mandating that trans men couldn’t compete in Mr. Bear or trans women couldn’t compete in Ms. Bear sounds bad. But also that’s not what it sounded like was happening, it just sounded like the trans man happened to be competing for Cub not that he wasn’t allowed to compete for Mr. Bear.

Anyhow, I was wondering if you’d ever thought about/sought out a trans bear to have as a guest on your show to talk about any of that?

Also in episode 388 it got brought up how important cock is to some of you. Again, that’s fine, so long as someone isn’t a total asshole to me I’m not gonna be upset over that being the case but I do have some interesting stories to tell over that. I’m a big big bear chub, or rather should probably say a big chubby pocket bear, pretty hairy, bearded, 5’7, over 300 pounds. So I know the types of guys I attract (and the types I’m into) but quite a few times I’ve had people who’ve thought they were like that and then realized when they met me, “oh having a cock isn’t nearly as important as I might have thought it was.” That’s happened many times on growlr, and Tumblr (R.I.P.) but more interestingly has happened in the midst of a hook up quite a few times. I would be playing with a hot bear who is definitely into me, but his husband/boyfriend/partner wouldn’t really be interested due to me being trans, but then in middle of fucking me he’d like shout to the other room “hon, you gotta come try this!” or boyfriend would lean in to check in on us and change his tune in being interested real quick. So again, no shade if it’s not your thing, but sometimes stuff can surprise people when they come face to face with a situation.

Cheers, 

Trans Bear

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COL513: 50 Years Later

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys cap off the ending of Pride Month with a look to the future. Stonewall was approximately 50 years ago, so the cubs peer into their crystal balls to imagine what the world will be like in another 50 years. From the good, the bad and the ugly, listen as the guys share their predictions on the status of the GLBTQ+ community as they become bitter old men.

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50 Years From Now

Some might say a lot has happened in the 50 years since the Stonewall Riots; others might say not enough. What if we attempt to shift our gaze into a crystal ball and forecast what may happen in the next 50 years to come?

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