Category Archives: Podcasts

COL733: LTA… Tattoos

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About… This time around, the guys discuss the formerly taboo topic of tattoos. From a rite of passage to a significant body mod, listen in as the cubs give their opinions on the art of tattoos. Is it part of gay ritual or just self expression?

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LTA… Tattoos

From the dawn of time, we’ve marked up our bodies with artwork of varying kinds. Some temporary and others very permanent. The bear community has its own version of different ink styles as tattoos over the decades. But has tattooing become less prominent today? Were there any fads that came and went? 

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COLFB058: Geek Powers Activate! In Form of Fanboy!

Hello, Ladies, Gentlemen and NBs. We’ve got a special treat for you while Damon and Gary have to run away this weekend. But have no fear! Today we’re time traveling back to FIFTEEN YEARS AGO. Yes, you heard that right. Today’s flashback is hot tub time machine to March 18, 2009. It’s the OG hosting crew with Jeff, Tim, JJ, and Griff! Awww, we were just a baby podcast. My how the times have changed, especially Twitter and we’ve grown up too! From green beer to turnoffs and addictions, it’s a flashback to COL Episode 058.

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Topics:

  • Gays Barred From Straight Bars
  • Bear Sniping
  • Manpussy
  • Turn Offs
  • Pot Redux
  • Addictions

What The Phucks:

Picks:

  • Jeff
    • CO-OP
    • The new Totally Rad Show
  • Griff
    • iPhone apps – Griff  (The Following links open iTunes)
    • Amazon
    • Tweetie
    • Boxee Remote
    • Samsung 2333HD
    • Friendfeed
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COL732: WGO: February 2024

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of February. As winter draws to a close and love is in the air, listen in as the cubs talk about bear runs and going up, down and back again for more. The guys bring you up to speed as they continue their training on the skills.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: The Once and Future Trainer
  • Damon: NABW 2024 / 20 V-Days
  • Gary: Up, Down, and Back Again

CDC Adult Vaccination Schedule online PDF

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  • Bruce Bryan

Patreon Updates

  • Happy 6 Year Anniversary to Cubster level Patron Charles! They joined 3/4/18 and we thank them for six years of dedication and support.
  • Happy 2 Year Anniversary to Buddy level Patron Michael! They joined 02/11/22 and we thank them for their continuous support. 
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, and Michael Q
    • plus our Buddies: Hadrian, Lloyd G. and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL728: WGO: January ‘24
  • COL729: LTA… The Love Bug
  • COL730: LoR: Tolerance vs Acceptance
  • COL731: Bears in the Future

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COL731: Bears in the Future

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys hop in their DeLorean and discuss the future of bears. The cubs gather together to talk about what another 30 to 40 years down the road might look like for the broader bear community. From disappearing bear runs to growing inclusivity, listen in as the guys ponder the next steps of the community.

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Bears in the Future

The cubs gather together to talk about what another 30 to 40 years down the road might look like for the broader bear community. Will runs still exist? Are more animals coming into the menagerie? What about the ‘aging’ of the cubs in the year to come?

Wikipedia – Bear culture

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COL730: LoR: Tolerance vs Acceptance

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke returns and this time we discuss tolerating versus accepting behaviors in our relationships. Do we let the annoying Aunt Ida in?

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Landscape of Relationships: Tolerance vs Acceptance

What is tolerance?

  • Tolerance is the state of “putting up with something without directly opposing it.”  It brings up ideas of enduring or allowing certain behaviors.  But it doesn’t mean embracing or supporting these behaviors or actions.
  • It’s a head thing

What is acceptance?

  • Acceptance is the state of opening yourself up completely to a situation, not how your mind sees it.  Acknowledging the reality of a situation without the need to change it or resist it.  Being open to differences and embracing them through love and compassion.
  • It’s a heart thing

Tolerance 

  • It involves the suppression of difficult emotions.  Can lead to feelings of resentment and anger due to lack of acceptance or understanding.

Acceptance 

  • This process can lead to feelings of love, compassion, and empathy.  The more that we feel connected to someone the deeper our understanding is.  

ACT with Love by Russ Harris [purchase on Amazon]

DRAIN

  • Disconnect
  • Reactivity
  • Avoidance
  • Inside your mind
  • Neglecting Values

LOVE

  • Letting go
  • Opening up
  • Values 
  • Engage 

“Annoying Aunt Ida”

  • Acknowledge 
  • Allow
  • Accommodate
  • Appreciate
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