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COL720: WGO: November 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of November. As the guys end the month of thanks, they find themselves with not a lot to be thankful for. It’s been a month of ups and downs, so listen in as the cubs share their goings-ons as we close out on the year.

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  • COL719 comments and more: Hey Guys, I hate to be complaining, but am sending this email in case if you are unaware. I downloaded COL 719 and sadly could not hear Jeff speak at all. I could hear Gary and background music.  I went to look at youtube today and it seems to be operating the same way. I’ve listened to quite a few podcasts where Jeff’s volume was very low and hard to hear, while all the other guys were ok.  COL 719 is the first that I recall not hearing Jeff at all. Just wanted to let you know. – MTNB
  • Advice: Hi I’m ace(he/him) and only recently started watching the podcast and found it interesting. I’m a trans guy living in the south and I’m still pre-transition and not out to everyone (mainly cause of fear of judgement). so any advice on how to let people know without saying it straight up – AR

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Patreon Updates

  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Hadrian, Lloyd G. and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL718: WGO: October ‘23
  • COL719: LTA…Adulting

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COL717: LoR: Healing Our Queer Inner Child

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke joins the cubs again to discuss the psychological concept of the inner child. Initiating from a conversation about Bluey (who knew?), the idea of finding connections to your inner child to heal from the potential harm caused by trauma comes to the forefront in this installment. Listen in as Ed leads the guys on ways to cope with and celebrate with their inner child to bring about healing and growth.

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Landscape of Relationships: Healing Our Queer Inner Child

Our Inner Child is a self-state part of us that is still experiencing and processing emotions, thoughts, and memories from that time but also is playful, spontaneous, and creative. Erik Erikson’s stages of development suggests that we have MULTIPLE inner children/adolescent/emerging adults within us.  

Inner Child is a common topic in therapy 

  • Writing letters to your childhood self
  • Engaging in playful, creative, and spontaneous behaviors 
  • Mindfulness or meditation 

Current topic re: Inner Child “Bluey”

Queer Authenticity 

“Queer people don’t grow up as themselves, we grow up playing  a version of ourselves that sacrifices authenticity to minimize humiliation and prejudice.  The massive task of our adult lives is to unpick which parts of ourselves that are truly us and which parts we created to protect us.” -Alexander Leon

How can we heal our queer inner child?

  • First, talk to a therapist
  • Start asking yourself what you needed growing up and do that
  • Edward’s Disney adventure
  • Music
  • Concerts
  • Playing games
  • Watching cartoons
  • ….get creative!
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COL713: WGO: September 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of September. As the cubs finish the third quarter of the year, they find themselves busy. From work to traveling to work travels, listen in as the guys catch you up on their first fall month.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Down Then Up
  • Damon: Cabin Trip & Future Plans
  • Gary: ½ Work Travel, ½ Misc

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YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COL706: Nerd Culture: Then vs Now – @MrRee-px1n: We nerd hard!️ Weekly Magic the gathering games since 97, geocaching, & bear hunting.
  • Re: COL707: LTAS: Fave Porn Tropes – @jordan3636: Does a cub not refer to a child? 

Voicemail

  • Sep 5, 4:49 PM – Hi. I was just calling to find out if y’all have ever done a podcast about. Skeleton Crew or demon doctor they’re creations of Joshua R Pangborn that are really bear friendly and big guy friendly. They’re awesome. And I just thought maybe a lot of the folks listening to your podcast might be interested in finding out about it, how to watch it and things of that nature. Just a suggestion. Thank you so much, bye-bye. 

Patreon Updates

  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G. and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL709: WGO: August ‘23
  • COL710: LoR: Selfcare
  • COL711: LTAS: Tips for Better Selfies
  • COL712: LTAF: State Fairs ’23 Part 3

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COL700: WGO: June 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of June. With Pride and Summer happening, things are definitely heating up. From festivals to nuptials, the guys have been keeping themselves pretty busy.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Yup, June 2023 happened.
  • Damon: I’m Married Now/House Upgrades
  • Gary: PRIDE…now I’m tired

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Twitter Followers – we turned 15 this month?

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  • @BearNakedYogi

YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COL698: LTA… CPAPs, finally! – Bobby M.: How does Meds effect your chances of sleep apnea.

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  • Carpenter Logan James
  • Yash Sheoran
  • João Batista Abreu de Sousa
  • Jimmy D Tingle

Patreon Updates

  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G. and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL696: WGO: May 2023
  • COL697: ATNS: LGBTQIA+ Pride in 2023
  • COL698: LTA… CPAPs, finally!
  • COL699: Nothing in Particular

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COL686: WGO: February 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of February. Despite the month being short, the guys had a lot going on. From bear runs to emergency dentistry, those 28 days were packed full! Catch up with the cubs and get acquainted with their goings-on.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Take care of your teeth, kids.
  • Damon: NABW 2023
  • Gary: Family Stuff Was the Theme

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Twitter Message:

  • @TransBuildABear – Loved the new episode!

YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COL683: Trans Bear Listener 2 – Bobby M.: Great topic!
  • Re: COL682: Bears in Entertainment Media Today 
    • Payson R. Harris: Enjoyed this episode! FYI, though, the telegram link at the bottom is expired. [fixed as of 3/4/23]
    • Sidekick Productions: A topic near and dear to my heart! 😛

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  • Romualdas Bilinskas
  • جدران هشه [judran hishih (means fragile walls) in Arabic]
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Patreon Updates

  • Happy One Year Anniversary to Buddy patron Zach on 2/1 and Michael V on 2/11
  • PLUS Happy FIVE Year Anniversary to Cubster patron Charles yesterday March 4th! 
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G., Michael V., and Oan R.!

Recent Shows

  • COL681: WGO: January 2023
  • COL682: Bears in Entertainment Media
  • COL683: Trans Bear Listener 2
  • COL684: LoR: Attachment
  • COL685: LTAF: Snacks

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