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COL563: What’s Going On – July 2020

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of July. For this month, the guys talk about their work-life balances, family struggles, and a lot of D&D gaming. On top of this, the cubs share your recent feedback, give you some big bear love, and provide some fun shows to get you through your hot summer nights.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff:  D&D Madness! and The Legend of Korra
  • Damon: Workload, A Tragedy, and a Guest
  • Gary: Welp, Another Month Gone

Feedback:

Facebook Likes:

  • Tiffany Wilson Lane
  • Kitti Sage
  • Anthony Cruz

Facebook Comment/Post:

  • COL558: LTAF: All Time Faves – Tim Shell – Love the episode I hope you do more. I tried Jeff’s version of grilled cheese with munster delicious I’m hooked !
  • COL559: ATNS: A Whole New PRIDE – Tim Shell – Another good episode. I hope you would have a topic about racism in the bear community. I think now would be a good discussion.
  • COL562: What is… Pleasure? – Edward Angelini-Cooke – I love aural pleasure!

Instagram Followers

  • Sirkingbearlamar
  • Justice_for_the_family
  • kybubbabear

YouTube Subscribers:

  • Seika The Bear
  • Dustin Jacobs
  • Eulalia

YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COL562: What is. . . Pleasure? – TheNaishproductions. To some extent Cellphones are glorified portable dopamine dispensers. Not convinced people actually use them as a communication device or more for the narcissistic posting of Food, i’m here & you’re not and the ever impressive “Best Night Everrrrrr!!!” photos. 
  • Re: COL562: What is. . . Pleasure? – Oan R. – Was the self-harm road really the best way to go about talking about pain and pleasure? That was a bit triggering. Edit: I don’t know, maybe I was hearing that wrong. 
  • Re: COL562: What is. . . Pleasure? – Oan R. – About the mask thing: for autistics, sensory issues come into play. Although I haven’t had any issues myself, there are people who have had issues. 

Twitter Followers

  • @CowboySlutty
  • @MAN_UPP01
  • @harmaakarhu
  • @HungdaddyUK
  • @LeilaGr80769383

Recent Shows:

  • COL560: What’s Going On – June 2020
  • Week Off
  • FB321: Goldilocks and the Three Bears
  • COL561: LTAS: Asking and Receiving
  • COL562: What is. . . Pleasure?

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https://twitter.com/BigBeefyBear1/status/1288555370072412163?s=20

https://twitter.com/Dinohunter68/status/1284083219311333377

https://twitter.com/CowboySlutty/status/1289878823954194432?s=20

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COL457: Bear Positivity

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys use the recent Arrested Movement male nude art project to discuss body positivity in the bear community. Given that bear is sometimes considered a state of mind, the cubs ponder about healthy body image and whether or not this can be done through #thirsttrap and other self-positive concepts.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Social Anxiety and Taxes
  • Damon: CMC Retreat
  • Gary: SSDD

Feedback:

Facebook Likes:

  • Michael Droste

YouTube Subscribers:

  • Jeff Leavitt
  • Fred Houmsi

YouTube Comment:

  • RE: COL456: Flagging – oscar orozco orejel: Hay there seems to be a little bit of audio quality problems with the recording

Blog Comment:

  • New comment on “COL455: Title Competing”: James Butterfield

Hey guys!  Great show as usual! Some things to clarify  – contestants are judged partly on audience reaction, and that we are the entertainment for the weekend. We were told that if we had a fantasy scene we would get rehearsal time, but when we arrived it was just a sound check.  So we did have a chance to be on the stage and get a feel for it, but there was no run-through.

As contestants, we were given pink name badges instead of yellow, so everyone knew we were competing.  So there was no way a contestant could hide.

As for the money issue – I know I spent quite a bit just preparing for NAB, and I’ve now spent a whole lot more just lining up travel!  Also, my tax return is buying my new title vest!

For the raffle ticket sales – my drive for selling was to raise as much money as possible.  I really wanted our total to be higher than last year.

Thanks again for the great show!!

James – 2018 Mr NAB Admirer, 2017 Klondykes Glitter Bear

Show Topic

If being a part of the Bear community is about one’s mindset, than how does one go about having a healthy sense of self? Is it possible to be happy and see what each of use is in a positive light?

Guys we know who have modeled:

Cooldown Topics

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Patreon Subscriber Thank Yous

Buddies:

  • Eric L
  • John H

Cubsters:

  • Aaron H
  • Charles W
  • littlesnoze1

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COL416: LTAK: Consent & Respect 2 Part 1

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time around we bring back an old topic in light of recent discussions on social media. The guys are joined by kink favorites Ms Tammy and Ches as well as Brady, Mr. North American Bear Cub 2017 and Ray, Mr. North American Bear 2016 to contemplate consent and respect. In this first part of a two-part series, the guys describe what consent is and when and how things can go wrong with it.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Farming
  • Damon: 91st BDay,  Poker and Old Friends
  • Chester: Lots of new music! Chainsmokers and Todrick Hall
  • Gary: SSDD on loop
  • Ches: FUCKING MOVING, but I still love my husband, CLAW
  • Ms. Tammy: Judging Contests, Leather Events, Mr. KY Leather, Mom and grandsons, Hammy
  • Ray: Finally taking some time from traveling
  • Brady: Travel!

Did I Do That?

Weekly Topic

Let’s Talk About Kink: Respect and Consent

Our previous episode COL314 [found here] was nearly two years ago. Some things though do not change with time…

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COL398: LTAS: ‘Bud Sex’

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined by Hadrian for another Let’s Talk About Sex! This time around we talk about “bud sex”, where rural guys are hooking up with other guys, but are totally “not gay”. Is this a new phenomenon or just a rebranding of something the guys already knew about?

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Hibernation Mode
  • Damon: Union Suits and Revisiting Spaces
  • Gary: New Year, SSDD
  • Hadrian: Travel and Fun

Weekly Topic

Let’s Talk About Sex discussion with guest Hadrian on ‘Bud Sex’. Part of the topic will be covered by two recent articles about men having sex with men and ‘dropping’ labels.

Cooldown Topics

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