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COL490: R.I.P. Tumblr Porn

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined again by Daddy Hadrian to talk about current events in social media. Earlier last week, Tumblr decided to ban NSFW content as of December 17th and Facebook has changed its terms regarding “sexual expression”. The guys discuss how this impacts both themselves and the community at large.

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Verizon owned Tumblr has announced they’re banning NSFW content starting Dec 17th. [Oath Inc. is a subsidiary of Verizon Communications that serves as the umbrella company of its digital content subdivisions, including AOL and Yahoo!. Verizon acquired AOL on June 23, 2015 and Yahoo!’s operating business on June 13, 2017. Within Oath, AOL and Yahoo! maintain their respective brands.]

  • What do we think of this policy/content change?
  • Does anyone know the numbers? As in, what %s of user accounts/posts are NSFW vs SFW.
  • Where will the porn gravitate to on the internet?
  • Vox: Tumblr bans porn so Verizon can sell ads

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What do we think of the recent change in Facebook’s own terms re: sexual expression?

Here’s the new wording from Facebook’s Community Standards Section 15:

  1. Sexual Solicitation

Policy Rationale

As noted in Section 8 of our Community Standards (Sexual Exploitation of Adults), people use Facebook to discuss and draw attention to sexual violence and exploitation. We recognize the importance of and want to allow for this discussion. We draw the line, however, when content facilitates, encourages or coordinates sexual encounters between adults. We also restrict sexually explicit language that may lead to solicitation because some audiences within our global community may be sensitive to this type of content and it may impede the ability for people to connect with their friends and the broader community.

Do not post:

Content that attempts to coordinate or recruit for adult sexual activities including but not limited to:

  • Filmed sexual activities
  • Pornographic activities, strip club shows, live sex performances, erotic dances
  • Sexual, erotic, or tantric massages

Content that engages in explicit sexual solicitation by, including but not limited to the following, offering or asking for:

  • Sex or sexual partners
  • Sex chat or conversations
  • Nude images

Content that engages in implicit sexual solicitation, which can be identified by offering or asking to engage in a sexual act and/or acts identified by other suggestive elements such as any of the following:

  • Vague suggestive statements, such as “looking for a good time tonight”
  • Sexualized slang
  • Using sexual hints such as mentioning sexual roles, sex positions, fetish scenarios, sexual preference/sexual partner preference, state of arousal, act of sexual intercourse or activity (sexual penetration or self-pleasuring), commonly sexualized areas of the body such as the breasts, groin, or buttocks, state of hygiene of genitalia or buttocks
  • Content (hand drawn, digital, or real-world art) that may depict explicit sexual activity or suggestively posed person(s).

Content that offers or asks for other adult activities such as:

  • Commercial pornography
  • Partners who share fetish or sexual interests

Sexually explicit language that adds details and goes beyond mere naming or mentioning of:

  • A state of sexual arousal (wetness or erection)
  • An act of sexual intercourse (sexual penetration, self-pleasuring or exercising fetish scenarios)

Facebook Community Standards Section 14: Adult Nudity and Sexual Activity

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COL487: LTAS: Our DL Experiences

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex. The cubs are joined by our regular sex advice guru Hadrian to discuss our downlow experiences. From cruising in adult bookstores and parks to meeting the married guys online, the guys share stories about their times with DL men as well as speaking on the culture, stigma, and other aspects of what this means.

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Guest LTAS discussion with Hadrian – our DL/downlow experiences.

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COL484: Skeleton Crew Update

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys welcome back Joshua Pangborn from Skeleton Crew! After a successful Indiegogo campaign, the show is getting ready to launch its fourth season. The cubs discuss the last season with Joshua as well as its recent awards and gives us some insight to the new season. Listen in to get some of the “bone-us” info prior to the season launch later this year.

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Guest Interview with Joshua Pangborn to discuss the upcoming Season 4 launch and the recent awards news.

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COL480: Catchup & More – Part 3

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys again play a little bit of catchup. The cubs listen to your feedback and get up to date on your audience participation. Included this time around are more DL discussion, loving a drunken Gary, and a random buttdial.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Toku All The Way Down
  • Damon: HOPR/A Wedding, Hurray!!
  • Gary: BIG FURRY GAY WEDDING

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Facebook Comment/Post:

  • Re: COL478: LTAS: Discreets / DL – Michael Quinichett: Loved the podcast guys. To tag onto what Damon said, the “down low” or DL was also a term referenced in R&B music, specifically TLC’s 1994 “Creep” and R. Kelly’s 1995 “Down Low.” Although those songs inferred infidelity within heterosexual relationships, the DL term crossed over into queer circles with the rise of HIV cases in women in the late 90s. In 2004, the term DL was fully thrust (hehe) onto the national stage when writer J.L King wrote “On The Down Low: A journey into the lives of ‘straight’ black men who sleep with men.” He was also interviewed by Oprah the same year.

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  • COL477: Power Hour 6: Jeff’s Birthday Bacchanal – Chris Greene: Can we vote for more shirtless episodes? 😉

Blog Comment:

  • COL477: Power Hour 6: Jeff’s Birthday Bacchanal – Chris Greene: THIS one is best viewed on YouTube. Some great eye candy. Plus drunk Gary is my favourite.

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  • “Bruce Hicks”
  • “Hadrian”
  • “Unknown” aka Hadrian Butt Dial

Patreon:

  • NEW Ubehr level patron – Howard Jonathon James Naong

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  • [Damon] – SPM on Growlr: “Hey I just wanted to say Brock turned me on to your podcast and I’ve really been enjoying it. You guys do a great job!”

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COL472: Giving/Taking … Compliments

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs want to tell you that you are awesome! The guys talk about being complimentary: both giving and taking … compliments. Is this still an acceptable practice and what does it entail? Are you being flirtatious or just respectful? The cubs give all the praise and admiration on this appreciative topic.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Vue-ing Pokèmon
  • Damon: Disconnect/Reconnect
  • Gary: Vacation and Reboot

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  • Rex Apps
  • Arturo Carretero Feliciano

Facebook Comment/Post:

  • Re: COL471: Where is the body?
    • Joshua R. Pangborn: Oh I wish I could have joined you guys for this one! Obviously a topic near and dear to me 🙂
    • Arturo Carretero Feliciano: Great episode, I think being a bear is more like how you feel , and looks comes second.

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YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COL471: Where is the body? – Barbara Thomas: Good show.

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Compliments…

  • How do we give and take them?
  • Have they gone by the wayside?
  • Are all compliments acceptable?
  • Can they be given as part of flirting?

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