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COL606: ATNS: LGBTQIA+ Pride 2021 – Part 2: Kink

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another All T, No Shade show. This time around, the topic is Pride and because the cubs have a lot to say about it, this will be a two-parter. In this second part, the cubs break down their views on the ongoing debate of kink at Pride and its inclusion in LGTBQIA+ spaces. From consent to caution, listen in as the guys paddle their way through this hard stop conversation.

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ATNS: LGBTQIA+ Pride 2021 – Part 2: Kink

This year for our annual Pride discussion, we have a two-parter – previously we discussed Corporations. Now that we’ve told big business to fuck off with their pandering, let’s piss off even more people with our thoughts on kink being a part of Pride for the LGBTQIA community. 

From COL previous guest Perrin on social media:

Perrin 

So here’s the thing… cause it apparently needs to be said. Wearing a leash in public harms absolutely no one. It violates no consent.

This discourse reeks of “think of the children” and “no kink at Pride” and I’m not here for this sanitization.

For years these types of excuses were used to actively harm homosexuals, transfolk, and anyone else who didn’t fit the public’s perception of normal. Still to this day, we see people crying foul when anyone dares deviate from that norm.

From Forged & Folded A Thousand Times in Rainbow Flame [aka @vaspider] on Twitter

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COLDR: S13E13: Henny, I Shrunk the Drag Queens

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon reach into their hot pockets as the queens live their sci-fi fantasy in an acting challenge. The guys share their tiny thoughts and give pocketfuls of shade and tea. Which queens make it to the final lap as the top 4?

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RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 13

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Overall Thoughts – Acting Challenge Redux

  • [Damon] – You Gotta Take Risks  
  • [Gary] – It’s About Growth

Stomp the Runway:

Category/Theme – Haute Pocket

  • [Damon] – What’s in the Pocket?
  • [Gary] – Glow Ups and a Week 1 Throwback

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Rose’ Rising
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Gottmik’s Revelation on Trans Barbie/Ken & Scarlett Johansson Married Colin Jost!!
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Predictability 
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… The Outcome, She’s Bound for All Stars
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COL595: Landscape of Relationships: Trust Part 1

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. This time the guys discuss trust. For this first part, the guys begin to break down the anatomy of trust. From the romantic to the familial, Ed leads the cubs through the initial tenets as they begin to break down what trust truly is.

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Landscape of Relationships: Trust

  • What is trust?

“Trust is choosing to make something important to you vulnerable to the actions of someone else” – Charles Feldman

“Mistrust is what I shared with you that is important to me is not safe with you.” – Charles Feldman 

Vault -”Common enemy intimacy”

Brené Brown: Anatomy of Trust

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COL578: What is. . .Gratitude?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys present another “What is…” show. For this episode, the cubs explore the emotion known as gratitude. As Thanksgiving draws ever closer and the pandemic keeps us further apart, the guys reflect on what they are thankful for and what that means to themselves and the world as a whole.

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What is. . . Gratitude?

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COL577: LTAF: Thanksgiving

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Food. For this one, the guys bring back a familiar topic on the show: Thanksgiving! From tasty turkey to perfect pies, listen in as the cubs gobble up their faves and also discuss Turkey Day during a pandemic.

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Let’s Talk About Food: Thanksgiving Edition 

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