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COL416: LTAK: Consent & Respect 2 Part 1

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time around we bring back an old topic in light of recent discussions on social media. The guys are joined by kink favorites Ms Tammy and Ches as well as Brady, Mr. North American Bear Cub 2017 and Ray, Mr. North American Bear 2016 to contemplate consent and respect. In this first part of a two-part series, the guys describe what consent is and when and how things can go wrong with it.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Farming
  • Damon: 91st BDay,  Poker and Old Friends
  • Chester: Lots of new music! Chainsmokers and Todrick Hall
  • Gary: SSDD on loop
  • Ches: FUCKING MOVING, but I still love my husband, CLAW
  • Ms. Tammy: Judging Contests, Leather Events, Mr. KY Leather, Mom and grandsons, Hammy
  • Ray: Finally taking some time from traveling
  • Brady: Travel!

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Weekly Topic

Let’s Talk About Kink: Respect and Consent

Our previous episode COL314 [found here] was nearly two years ago. Some things though do not change with time…

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COL407: All T, No Shade: Racism & Sex

In this episode Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by two CA pups, Pup Beacon and Pup Yoshi, to continue an “All T, No Shade” episode about racism and the gay community. In part two, the guys get onto the topic of racism and sex. From marketing to porn, the guys take time to discuss issues of stereotypes and how they affect perspectives.

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Weekly Topic

Racism & Sex

Discussion points:

  • How minorities are sexualized and desexualized
    • Wanting a black man cause he has a big dick
    • A Latino cause he’s spicy
    • An Asian man because he is submissive
  • Minorities not being seen in marketing as often as white men
  • Minorities aren’t seen in porn as often as white men, and when they are…
    • Black men are thugs
    • Latinos are cholos
    • Asians are subs

Cooldown Topics

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COL392: LTAK: Cupping

col392In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time around, the guys are joined by Pup Dozor to talk about cupping. Seen recently at the Summer Olympics for therapeutic reasons, the cubs talk about the more sensual side of this form of temperature play.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: The Joys of Napping
  • Damon: Early Holiday Party
  • Chester: MME (Mr. Minneapolis Eagle 2017)
  • Gary: Food Show Coma
  • Dozor: Pre bday pie-hole stuffing

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Urbandictionary with Gary

  • cupping season: The seasons of Fall and Winter, during which vast amounts of people, who are otherwise content with being single, elect to settle down with a significant other. A “couple” is formed, giving rise to the term “cupping”.
    • “Ashley and Becky just got boyfriends, I thought they were loving the “single life”… “
    • “Yeah, but it is cupping season, after all”

Weekly Topic

Let’s Talk About Kink: Cupping

  1. Quick Vocabulary on Types
    1. “Cupping”: to use a suction device on body parts; commonly glass cups which are done with suction or fire
    2. “Temperature Play”: a form of BDSM sensual play where objects and substances are used to stimulate the body’s neuroreceptors for heat and cold for sensual effect
    3. “Fire/Traditional Cupping” vs “Vacuum Cupping”
  2. How the Olympics brought it into homes around the nation, possibly the world
  3. How do ‘cup’ participants find each other?
  4. Social Dynamics
  5. Preparation/Tips/Hints

Cooldown Topics

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  • Jeff: TableTop Season 4!

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COL353: LTAK: Watersports

COL353In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, It’s another Let’s Talk About Kink. The cubs are joined by guest hosts Bruce, Shutter, and Josh as we talk about watersports. From piss play to recycling, the guys discuss the different variations of the yellow hankie.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – I QUIT! . . . . and I got Ice Cream cake.
  • Damon – Love is a Cabaret
  • Gary – KY is coming
  • Bruce – Possible Euro Travel
  • Chester –  Last on the show in October for LTAK: Chastity.  I’ve finished school, I have 2 weeks left here in London.  A very full list of bear runs planned when I return.
  • Josh – If the area around your appendix is hurting, you should probably see a doctor…

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Urbandictionary with Gary

  • Water PisstolThe act of pouring piss into ones anus with a funnel, after which masturbating furiously for 10 seconds (acting like the pump on a water pistol). After which the participant squeezes the piss out of their arse like a water pistol.

”Last night my friend came round to my house and we both help each other fill out water pisstols then had a water pisstol fight”
”Last night I was practising with my water pisstol, I shot three meters”

Weekly Topic

LTAK: Watersports

Cooldown Topics

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COL314: LTAK: Consent and Respect

consentIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined by several guests (returning guests Ms. Tammy, Ches and Shutter as well as new guests Shelby and Stickpup!) in another Let’s Talk About Kink! This time around, we let some pups speak about the role they play in the community and move beyond that to the issues of consent and respect.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Avengers
  • Damon – It’s Official
  • Gary – Owwww…..

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Urbandictionary:

Pupsticle Course – The act of having to step over dogs sleeping on the floor in your or a friends home.

Mike: Butch come here a minute please, I need your help.
Butch: Coming.
Mike: What’s taking so long?
Butch: Sorry, I had to deal with a 3 dog pupsticle course.

Weekly Topic

Let’s Talk About Kink series discussion: Consent and Respect.

Cooldown Topics

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Links:

  • [Jeff] – Atomas – iTunes – Google Play
  • [Gary] – 20 Facts About The Muppets (feat. The Muppets!) – mental_floss on YouTube – List Show (309)

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