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COL325: Summer Reading: An Older Man by Wayne Hoffman

AnOlderManCoverIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we crack open a book and enjoy some summer reading. While experiencing some technical difficulties, the cubs are joined by author Wayne Hoffman to discuss his latest book “An Older Man”. A standalone sequel to his other book, “Hard”, Wayne tells the story of his main character, Moe, as he traverses the highs and lows of Bear Week in Provincetown.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Got a job, and an interview.
  • Damon – Columbus Weekend Fun with Pups and Board Retreat and Roseland
  • Gary – Summer is here!

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Urbandictionary with Gary

shirt cocking – Men who go about their day with a shirt on, but no pants or underwear.

“Cocking” can be used with other terms. Example: Cowl Cocking, when a man wears only a super heros cowl, much like Batmans cowl, but no pants or underwear.

Look at that dude, he’s totally shirt cocking.

Weekly Topic

Discussion of Wayne Hoffman’s newest book, An Older Man.

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COLDR: S7E7: SNATCH GAME!!

COLDRS7-Ep7In this episode of Cubs Out Loud Drag Race, Damon and Gary talk about the seventh episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7! In this episode, it’s time for SNATCH GAME! Listen in as the cubs judge the queens’ impersonations, how the look isn’t everything, and that taking a risk could be a good thing. Also, are the queens really the problem with this season.

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Weekly Topic

Current episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7

Episode 7: Snatch Game

First Impressions:

  • [Gary] – The hate is on for Kennedy; old vs young
  • [Damon] – This betta be good

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – Follow Ru’s guidance; aka take a hint guhrl
  • [Damon] – Be Funny!

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary] – Disjointed…ugh [editing?]; Max’s strangeness
  • [Damon] – I may not want to watch this one…

Cooldown Topics

Take Aways:

  • [Gary] – Breaking the rules works if you execute
  • [Damon] – Look isn’t everything.

Snaps / Eyerolls [Hits/Misses]:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Fame being there when Katya needed her
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Jaidynn’s runway look
  • [Damon] – Snaps for…Kennedy taking a risk and succeeding
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Jaidynn: Step it UP!!

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COLDR: S7E6: The Bitches of Untucked

COLDRS7-Ep6In this episode of Cubs Out Loud Drag Race, Damon and Gary talk about the sixth episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7! In tonight’s episode, the drama becomes real as the queens spill the tea on each other. Who’s to blame for the stirring the pot: Ginger or Max? Also, the cubs tackle the acting challenges, the bullshit and more. And, will Miss Fame ever SHUT UP?!?!

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Episode 6 of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7

First Impressions:

  • [Gary] – Hacks… poor acting jobs
  • [Damon] – Give Violet a chance?

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – The bitchiness has arrived
  • [Damon] – What’s with all the acting challenges?

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary] – Ginger tastes nasty and Max is hated
  • [Damon] – The Stitch & Bitch Club (Ginger, Katya, Kennedy)

Cooldown Topics

Take Aways:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Ross Matthews trying to work
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… all the shade and shit stirring aka ghosts of drama past
  • [Damon] – Snaps for…Merle Ginsberg is back/Ariana Grande during LSFYL/Untucked
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for … Max poking the fire (at Kennedy)

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary] –
  • [Damon] – SNATCH GAME!!

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COLDR: S7E1: ‘T’ Time – Season 7 Has Arrived!

COLDRS7-Ep1In this new series of Cubs Out Loud, Damon and Gary talk about the first episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7. They take some time to discuss all the queens, give their first impressions, and throw the T down on what they liked and definitely DIDN’T like about the show. It’s an all-new, all-shady side of COL, COL Drag Race.

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Weekly Topic

Current episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7

First Impressions:

  • [Gary] – The Antici…..pation was annoying but perhaps understood
  • [Damon] – FINALLY!

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – Love the first episode. Waiting to see what is going to happen.
  • [Damon] – Great first episode and meeting new queens for S7. But…meh for now.

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary] – LOVE the new documentary style format.
  • [Damon] – Like the new format/“Backstage” look.

Take Aways:

  • [Gary] – Ginger Minj [personal story], Mrs. Kasha Davis, Kennedy Davenport, Max
  • [Damon] – Miss Fame and Pearl (might be hating them). Trixie Mattel Really, Queen!

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Violet Chachki’s Runway Outfit Transformation
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for … Miss Fame’s tape lines showing in first workroom reveal
  • [Damon] – Snaps for…Violet Chachki’s Fall Fashion
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for … Tempest DuJour’s face during Untucked

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary] – Tempest DuJour’s final look/words
  • [Damon] – The extras in Untucked.

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COL295: LTAK: Pup Play

PupPlayAOn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we have another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time, it’s pup play! We are joined by Chester/AlphaShutter, Daniel aka BearberlyCrusher, and pup Jericho to discuss this aspect of kink.Grab your favorite chew toy and cuddle up.

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What’s Going On?

  • [Jeff] – 7/7 Heroic
  • [Damon] – Louisville Trip
  • [Gary] – No NY Crud!
  • [Chester] – There’s No Place Like Home
  • [Daniel and Jericho] – In Bed

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  • COL287: Canadian Extravaganza!: Thomas Hammond: listened to show at work with my headphones, made my monday enjoyable

Weekly Topic

  •  Pup Play – definition
    • A ‘fetish’ derived from Dom/Sub side of BDSM where the sub counterpart takes on behaviors of a dog, a Dom counterpart takes on a role of “handler/trainer.” Puppies will get into a “headspace” where it is easy for them to shed their human self and accept their puppy self.
  • Roles/Duties
    • As with any fetish, there is no black and white.  It’s not uncommon for pups to take on a slave type of role.
  • Reasons for experience
    • Chester: For me, it allows me to express myself with a different persona. Being obedient is very easy for me, and I enjoy the interactions of a Dom counterpart treating me as a pup.  I also have more self confidence when I am in a public space like a bear run or gear night, I also draw attention to myself and I get hit on quite a bit more.
  • Prevalence/Awareness
    • It is becoming more and more accepted throughout the BDSM/Fetish community, especially at events like Folsom, IML, and CLAW. Particularly “Puppy Moshes.”
  • Outside misunderstanding [what people think it is vs. truly is]
    • As with most BDSM/Fetishes, people not familiar with the community often believe that the “sub” counterpart is not a strong person and enjoys being abused. Puppy play is very much the opposite. Trainers/handlers often treat pups with more caring and playfulness than a regular BDSM/Fetish relationship. It’s very similar to how a person would treat a biological puppy.

 

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