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Landscape of Relationships: Struggle Bus
- Stonewalling
- Criticism
- Defensiveness
- Contempt
- Psychological Self-soothing [for Stonewalling]
- Gentle Start Up [for Criticism]
- Take Responsibility [for Defensiveness] – it’s okay to be wrong, make mistakes, own our limits, be vulnerable
- Appreciation [for Contempt] – consider a ratio with 5 for 1 [5 appreciative thoughts for 1 contempt]
- Current Conflicts
- Attachment Injuries
- Gridlock Issues
- Conflict is ongoing and recurring
- 69% of conflicts are unsolvable
- Utilize conversation/discussion to unearth the underlying source/cause
Resources:
The Marriage Minute – email newsletter signup site
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert – Amazon ordering info
Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love – Amazon ordering info
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