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COL392: LTAK: Cupping

col392In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time around, the guys are joined by Pup Dozor to talk about cupping. Seen recently at the Summer Olympics for therapeutic reasons, the cubs talk about the more sensual side of this form of temperature play.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: The Joys of Napping
  • Damon: Early Holiday Party
  • Chester: MME (Mr. Minneapolis Eagle 2017)
  • Gary: Food Show Coma
  • Dozor: Pre bday pie-hole stuffing

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  • Dan McCord, “Happy Birthday, Gary!”
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  • xcubbyxbearx: “Thanks for the reblog! Been listening to you boys for quite some time… At least 7 years :)”  
  • Gemini: “What is the most embarrassing story you have about somebody else on the podcast? :)”

Urbandictionary with Gary

  • cupping season: The seasons of Fall and Winter, during which vast amounts of people, who are otherwise content with being single, elect to settle down with a significant other. A “couple” is formed, giving rise to the term “cupping”.
    • “Ashley and Becky just got boyfriends, I thought they were loving the “single life”… “
    • “Yeah, but it is cupping season, after all”

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Let’s Talk About Kink: Cupping

  1. Quick Vocabulary on Types
    1. “Cupping”: to use a suction device on body parts; commonly glass cups which are done with suction or fire
    2. “Temperature Play”: a form of BDSM sensual play where objects and substances are used to stimulate the body’s neuroreceptors for heat and cold for sensual effect
    3. “Fire/Traditional Cupping” vs “Vacuum Cupping”
  2. How the Olympics brought it into homes around the nation, possibly the world
  3. How do ‘cup’ participants find each other?
  4. Social Dynamics
  5. Preparation/Tips/Hints

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COL383: All T, No Shade: Biphobia

col383In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we present a new series of shows. This one is called “All T, No Shade” and allows the hosts to provide a more frank opinion on some potentially polarizing subjects. For this first show, the cubs discuss biphobia. From our personal dealings with bisexuality to admitting our personal biphobic tendencies, the cubs keep it real about their feelings.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Pain in the Butt
  • Damon: Being Sick
  • Chester: Back in the USA
  • Gary: Living with parents

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GROWLr:

So I just finished listening to episode 374 of COL, and I’d just like to thank you Sir. It was a touching conversation and many good points were brought up in the discussion.

You are most welcome. I’ve been a longtime listener but during that episode the discussion shifted to include someone in my situation. Which unfortunately, I find is rarely addressed since for many it isn’t an issue.

I will say that y’all were spot on when discussing how many of my generation are more aware of who they are attracted to at a much younger age.

Oh, I would just like to thank you again, the podcast has helped me a lot over the years. Whether it was for entertainment (comedic or sexual), informative, or just something to detract from the loneliness.

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  • Biphobia definition: Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality and bisexual people as a social group or as individuals. People of any sexual orientation can experience or perpetuate such feelings of aversion. Biphobia is a source of discrimination against bisexual people, and may be based on negative bisexual stereotypes or irrational fear.
  • Bi-now, gay later.
  • Bisexuals are just plain selfish!
  • Is there Biphobia in the kink community?
  • I’m Bisexual, But I’m Not Buzzfeed Video:

  • Opinions on choosing the label of bisexual, how people act towards them, and personal experiences.

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COL381: LTAK: Boy vs Pup

COL381In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Kink. For this one, the guys are joined by Ches (Foxbear), Ray (Mr. North American Bear), and pups Beacon and Dozor to talk about boys and pups. What common features do these roles play under the grander kinky umbrella and where do they differ? Listen in as the cubs break down these two similar, yet very different identities.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Legion has arrived!
  • Damon: IndyFurCon briefly
  • Chester: Mancs Pride
  • Gary: Bestie Time
  • Ches/FoxBear: WORK!  NEED VACATION!
  • Ray: Imperial Court of Indianapolis
  • Pup Dozor: Softball and Hockey end of season! Prep for BtW.
  • Pup Beacon: Busy summer. All the new things. Job, home, car, pup, member of Onyx, etc

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  • Randall Stratton: Just finished listening to the podcast..and I agree with Gary none of these songs did it for me..like it was said on the show they seemed to follow a formula..so I was like..meh next.

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Let’s Talk About Kink: Boys vs Pups

COL314: LTAK: Respect and Consent

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COL378: State of the Podcast

COL378In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined again by Chester aka Shutter to discuss some feedback they’ve received from recent episodes. From marriage equality to men on the DL, listen in as the guys dig into some comments from our fans.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: DIABLO! And glasses.
  • Damon: It’s HOT and Suicide Squad
  • Gary: No Gamping but Bestie Time
  • Chester: Pokemon Go can go fuck itself. Brighton Pride. Personal life is being turned upside down.

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Re: COL376: WYR: International Edition

  • Andrew Ealy: Fun show… Made my long road trip more enjoyable!… FYI… Car over Fridge, Muzzle over Glasses, Book over Song, Tape over Tree, Speeding Tickets over Gas, Clean/Colonic over Dirty Toilet, Light Cold over Dark Warm, Facts over Emotions, Push over Pull, Wonder Woman over Batman,

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Re: COL372: LTAS: THE DL DEAL

  • chubnerdchaser:Really loved this episode! As someone who is one of the (mostly) D/L guys, it was good to hear more from the other side of the coin. Also really glad you touched on the type of D/L guys who aren’t “out” about being into chubs or bears, even if they’re otherwise out as gay. It’s one of my pet peeves! Keep up the great work!

Re: COL374: OTR: BEAR ORIGINS

  • chubnerdchaser: Highly recommend listening to at least 374 if you’re not a regular listener. It’s really good. I laughed, I cried, I got a semi. Thanks for recording it!

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State of the Podcast

New comment on your post “COL371: HNU: State of the Community2016″ From Jay

Email feedback from listener RJ:

Hello guys its RJ i thought it was easier to send an email rather than leave a very lengthy message in the comments section, first off one of my earliest experiences with a guy was the DL

Richard and I both worked at Meijer and as time went on we developed a relationship of sorts..which included messing around at work (how we were never caught is an honest to god miracle..LOL) then as time went on we would see each other outside of work once neither of us worked there he was of course married and neglected which his how and why things happened between us (btw even though he is still single we still mess around)

next up is Robert…I actually poached him from another mostly straight fuck buddy and Robert and I still mess around though once i did see him out in public and did not approach him as he was with his daughters girlfriend at the time and did not want to make things odd for him.

Oh i have also managed to play around currently with a guy from Chaturbate..hes married but has a really high sex drive for a man in his mid to late 50s…LOL

And you also asked if there were ever any guys we have hooked up with that were kind of odd or secretive about playing with them…actually Gary there are guys and mutual friends between us i have played with and that have asked for discretion..not sure if its due to me being more effeminate or what but its all about having a good time.

BTW..you had asked me about some show ideas Gary..i was thinking about dating deal breakers…or perhaps how apps are almost eliminating traditional dating..

Stalkers was another show topic i suggested

Thanks guys take care and keep up the good work

RJ

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COL372: LTAS: The DL Deal

COL372In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex. We are joined again by our London based guest hosts, Shutter and Bruce, to talk about DL guys. From “str8” men playing with men to gay guys not wanting people to know who they’re shacking up with, the cubs spill the beans on their interest and disinterest with those who keep it on the down low. Make sure everybody knows about this show.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Texas Summers are expensive and loud.
  • Damon: DENVER!!
  • Gary: Party and Politics
  • Bruce: Pride weekend in London
  • Chester: Next weekend, I’m heading to Belfast for the weekend to visit my friends Ryan (Belfastcubcake) and John

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Let’s Talk About Sex: The DL Deal

  • Our experiences and thoughts on guys who hook-up on the down-low
  • Does it different from urban to rural?
  • And what of in other countries?
  • Does culture and religion play a factor?

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