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COL497: LTAK: Financial Domination

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we delve into another Let’s Talk About Kink! For this episode, we take one of our audience requests and discuss the idea of “financial domination.” In the D/s dynamic, financial domination is where a submissive gives money–and is pleasured by doing so–to their Dominant. Listen in as the cubs share their thoughts what this kink means and where it differs from being a kept bear.

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Let’s Talk About Kink – Financial Domination aka money slavery

Financial domination (also known as money slavery) is a sexual fetish, in particular a practice of dominance and submission, where a submissive (money slave, finsub, pay pig, human ATM, or cash piggie) will give gifts and money to a financial dominant (money mistress, findomme, money domme, cash master, or findom)…Financial domination is a paraphilia (experience of intense sexual arousal to situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals) stemming from a devotion of financial slavery or to be dominated in a financial way. – WikiWand Online Article

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COL445: OTR: Midwest Bearfest 2017

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, Chester, Damon and Gary are ON THE ROAD! The guys make their way to Midwest Bearfest as it celebrates its 21st year. The cubs bearly make it through all the benefits of the weekend.

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Midwest Bearfest 21: Bearly Legal – Our experiences

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COL427: LTAK: Flogging

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by the knowledged Ches aka Foxbear for another Let’s Talk About Kink. For this kinky-go-round, the cubs discuss the impact play known as flogging. Listen in as the guys give some tips, tricks and technical tools on floggers and flogging. It’s an impactful conversation.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Downtime
  • Damon: Jocks on, Asses Out!
  • Chester: Settling in, a broken window, Cap City Pup Night
  • Gary: Good and Disappointing Foods

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  • Co-hosts Damon, Gary, and recurring guest Ray (aka Karen Forecox) take a quick selfie at the Gem City Bear 2017 contest. Congrats to the winner Benjamin Benton!
    • Benjamin Benton – Thank u!

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  • re: COL425: Dear Gay Men – Randall Stratton – American gods is done for the season and yes the sex scenes were hot.

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Let’s Talk About Kink series discussion. Topic is a part of impact play, flogging.

  1. Vocabulary [descriptions not definitions]
    1. Impact Play
      1. Flogging
    2. Sensations: Sounds & Feelings
      1. Thud
      2. Sting
      3. Bite
  2. D/s relationship
  3. Implements Involved
    1. Flogger Types
      1. Different hides yield different results
      2. Different shapes of falls yield different results
      3. Different fall counts yield different results
    2. Not limited to floggers
      1. Paddles
      2. Crops
      3. Wartenberg wheel
      4. Breath
      5. Hands
  4. First Time Expectations

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COL382: Following, Lurking, or Stalking?

col382In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined again by RJ to talk about followers, stalkers, and lurkers. Listen in as the guys discuss what these terms mean to them and their stories about dealing with them. When is enough enough and they can’t take the hint?

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Guess.
  • Damon: Binging on Stranger Things
  • Chester: Aladdin, Tidal Wave, and Tea
  • Gary: Chillin’ – literally

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  • Mr HappyHands: Grrr!

 

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Urbandictionary with Gary

  • orophiliaoral sex.
    • “They are vigorously involved in orophilia.”

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Our experiences and differences between following, stalking, and lurking in people’s lives; mostly social media sites.

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COL381: LTAK: Boy vs Pup

COL381In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Kink. For this one, the guys are joined by Ches (Foxbear), Ray (Mr. North American Bear), and pups Beacon and Dozor to talk about boys and pups. What common features do these roles play under the grander kinky umbrella and where do they differ? Listen in as the cubs break down these two similar, yet very different identities.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Legion has arrived!
  • Damon: IndyFurCon briefly
  • Chester: Mancs Pride
  • Gary: Bestie Time
  • Ches/FoxBear: WORK!  NEED VACATION!
  • Ray: Imperial Court of Indianapolis
  • Pup Dozor: Softball and Hockey end of season! Prep for BtW.
  • Pup Beacon: Busy summer. All the new things. Job, home, car, pup, member of Onyx, etc

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  • Randall Stratton: Just finished listening to the podcast..and I agree with Gary none of these songs did it for me..like it was said on the show they seemed to follow a formula..so I was like..meh next.

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Let’s Talk About Kink: Boys vs Pups

COL314: LTAK: Respect and Consent

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