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COL625: LTAK: Gear – Part 4

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another installment of Let’s Talk About Kink. The guys are again joined by Tony aka Cubziz to discuss gear. In this fourth part, the guys discuss headspace and how it can relate to gear. From placing you in the proper role to play to enhancing your personal play, learn more on what headspace is and where it can come from.

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Let’s Talk About Kink: Gear – Part 4

We’re joined one again by kinky boy Tony aka Cubziz for a chat about what is headspace and how ‘gear’ adds we see and experience when it comes to leather/BDSM/kink. Previously we discussed…

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COL405: LTAK: Needle Play

In this episode Cubs Out Loud, Jeff, Gary, and Chester are joined by Dane for a chat about kink; or should we say poking? It’s another show in our Let’s Talk About Kink Series and this time we inject some thoughtful questions into the discussion. And for those of you that have a vivid imagination, we go easy on ya. Get ready with some deep breaths and listen in to the conversation that goes skin deep.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Same ole, Same ole
  • Gary: Need cheap meat that tastes good
  • Dane: Hockey/photo’s and setting up for BtW 2017 reg opening

Did I Do That?

  • Gary: On Gigaguess’ Tumblr…
    • For the record… Seeing that I am on someone’s tags as #tumblrcrush is massively flattering.  :p

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Let’s Talk About Kink: Needle Play

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COLDR: S7E8: CONJOINED QUEENS

COLDRS7-Ep8In this episode of Cubs Out Loud Drag Race, Damon and Gary talk about the eighth episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7! In tonight’s episode, the twists and turns will have you gagging as an eliminated queen returns! Who will it be? Is it Trixie? Or Tempest du Jour? Maybe Max? Listen in as the cubs combine and navigate their way through.

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Current episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7

Episode 8: Conjoined Queens

First Impressions:

  • [Gary] – Ru Maxi challenge clue
  • [Damon] – “It’s getting real!”

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – Headspace is KEY
  • [Damon] – What a Twist!

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary] – Queens were REAL [yet again, the editing sequence]; Jaiden’s goodbyes
  • [Damon] – Interesting how they did it..

Cooldown Topics

Take Aways:

  • [Gary] – Fame is Crazy, Pearl is awake, Violet is hateful, Kennedy wants the crown, Ginger’s getting tired
  • [Damon] – The family stories.

Snaps / Eyerolls [Hits/Misses]:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Twists!(LaTrice Royale returns, Prison garb challenge, ALL the queens come back, Conjoined challenge, Conjoined lipsync!)
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Miss Fame’s TAPE is back hiding under the face wrap
  • [Damon] – Snaps for…Latrice Muthafuckin Royale!! YES!!! & the twist!
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Ginger giving up, SHUT UP MISS FAME, and Kennedy’s rant/strategy

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary] – One of the top episodes this season
  • [Damon] –   I’m sad…

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COL295: LTAK: Pup Play

PupPlayAOn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we have another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time, it’s pup play! We are joined by Chester/AlphaShutter, Daniel aka BearberlyCrusher, and pup Jericho to discuss this aspect of kink.Grab your favorite chew toy and cuddle up.

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What’s Going On?

  • [Jeff] – 7/7 Heroic
  • [Damon] – Louisville Trip
  • [Gary] – No NY Crud!
  • [Chester] – There’s No Place Like Home
  • [Daniel and Jericho] – In Bed

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  • Mysterysammy

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  • Aaron Sobczak

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  • COL287: Canadian Extravaganza!: Thomas Hammond: listened to show at work with my headphones, made my monday enjoyable

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  •  Pup Play – definition
    • A ‘fetish’ derived from Dom/Sub side of BDSM where the sub counterpart takes on behaviors of a dog, a Dom counterpart takes on a role of “handler/trainer.” Puppies will get into a “headspace” where it is easy for them to shed their human self and accept their puppy self.
  • Roles/Duties
    • As with any fetish, there is no black and white.  It’s not uncommon for pups to take on a slave type of role.
  • Reasons for experience
    • Chester: For me, it allows me to express myself with a different persona. Being obedient is very easy for me, and I enjoy the interactions of a Dom counterpart treating me as a pup.  I also have more self confidence when I am in a public space like a bear run or gear night, I also draw attention to myself and I get hit on quite a bit more.
  • Prevalence/Awareness
    • It is becoming more and more accepted throughout the BDSM/Fetish community, especially at events like Folsom, IML, and CLAW. Particularly “Puppy Moshes.”
  • Outside misunderstanding [what people think it is vs. truly is]
    • As with most BDSM/Fetishes, people not familiar with the community often believe that the “sub” counterpart is not a strong person and enjoys being abused. Puppy play is very much the opposite. Trainers/handlers often treat pups with more caring and playfulness than a regular BDSM/Fetish relationship. It’s very similar to how a person would treat a biological puppy.

 

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COL259: LTAS: Rimming

keep-ca-aaaargh-and-now-you-know-what-rimming-isOn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we hangout LIVE with Hadrian and talk about the assmunching, buttlicking power of rimming. From top to bottom, we discuss the ins and outs of anilingus: what we like, what we don’t like and what we don’t want to happen…ever! So, pop onto YouTube and get ready for the oral discussion.

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Feedback:

Tony Banks here. Just doing what I can to give back. I fire for the topic was reignited when I read this post on Facebook.

It made me want to get off my ass and try to help. Thus the Cub Love tee was born. Because a little love goes a long way.

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Let’s Talk About Sex: Rimming!

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