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COL569: LTAS: Bubbles/Pods

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex show. For this one, the guys discuss the concept of sex bubbles or sexpods, a safer sex practice of maintaining social/sexy time with a smaller group of people to help keep yourselves protected during the pandemic. Listen in as the guys tell more about “quaranteaming” and debate on its potential effectiveness. When thinking about it, is it really new or just necessary?

Show Topic

Sex Bubbles/Pods 

  • Definition?
  • Safety?
  • Potential?
  • Interest?

How to Form a Pandemic Pod | Greater Good 

“quarantine pods” as an effective way to get our social, emotional, familial, and sexual needs met without unnecessarily endangering ourselves or others. Pods are small, self-contained networks of people who limit their non-distanced social interaction to one another—in other words, they’re the small group of people with whom you share air without using breath-control precautions such as masks.

Pods (or “bubbles” or “containers” or “quaranteams”) aren’t just ways for people to have social connections within a pandemic. They also serve an important epidemiological purpose—they help limit the size and spread of outbreaks. That’s one reason why in the Bay Area, where the authors live, public health officials recommend that pods be no larger than 12 people who live across three households, and that pods limit their non-distanced social contact to one another for at least three weeks.

Despite the centrality of sex to our lives, many of us are ashamed of having sexual needs. This is tragic, because we should be no more ashamed of needing sexual contact than we should be of needing food. So, be honest with yourself and others: If you want to form a pod to meet sexual needs, say so, rather than concealing or minimizing that purpose.

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COL568: What’s Going On – August 2020

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of August. For this month, the cubs discuss birthday booboos, visits from family and friends, and colonoscopies. As the guys head into the final third of the year, listen in as their lives continue along similar lines due to the pandemic. Also, did somebody say “thicc”?

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Happy Birthday Boo Boos, and more of the same.
  • Damon: Family Visit/Gaming/Lots of YouTube
  • Gary: Busy month, how the hell is it September???

Feedback 

Facebook Comment/Post:

  • COL567: Power Hour 8 – Joshua R. Pangborn: Had a blast! Happy Birthday, Jeff!

Instagram Followers

  • Acruz197421

YouTube Subscribers:

  • Christian Payne
  • Taylor Mitcham
  • Graham McKenzie

YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COL564: LTAF: Guilty Pleasures – Berty Bertface – “Sausage Rolls and Cheeseballs. Innuendo exempt.” 
  • Re: COL565: LTAS: Gloryhole Safety – King R2K – “This was a pleasure!”
  • Re: COL567: Power Hour 8 – Oan R. – “Just thought about this just now, but like at the ends or when anybody leaves, y’all should like do a cheers with the shot glasses or the bottles or whatever you have. Always good to send people off.” Oan R. commented: “And now for my rundown of my favorite parts from this video.And now for my rundown of my favorite parts from this video. . In no particular order: – Josh taking his shirt off – Gary taking his shirt off and the millisecond of his nipple screen time. – Ed showing off his tattoos (they coo. Also, he has pierced nipples. That’s hot.) – Smashy taking his pants off (I mean…yeah. That was hot.) – The birthday bear taking his shirt off (yeah, pretty hot) – that one time everybody was talking about watches and I made a joke. Cause that was coo.” 
  • Re: COL567: Power Hour 8 – Fruit Flake – Y’all all looking cute as hell 

Twitter Followers

  • @belfastbears
  • @cbbwbc
  • @eyesup305
  • @InglewoodJoseph
  • @acruz197421

Recent Shows

  • COL563: What’s Going On – July 2020
  • COL564: LTAF: Guilty Pleasures
  • COL565: LTAS: Gloryhole Safety
  • COL566: Aging Cubs
  • COL567: Power Hour 8

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COL566: Aging Cubs

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are getting OLD! With Jeff’s 40th birthday coming soon, all of the COL hosts will be 40 and up. So, if they are getting old, can they really call themselves “cubs” anymore? Listen in as the guys reminisce on their aged experiences and discuss the good and bad about getting older in the LGBTQ+ community.

Show Topic

Cubs at Any Age?

  • Definitions vs Labels
  • Loneliness with Aging
  • Health
  • Ageism

Satisfying Mature Gay Sexuality

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COLDR: S12E011: One Woman Show

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon ru-view the next installment of RPDR. The top six (AGAIN!) are challenged with presenting a one-queen show. From the ridiculous to the sublime, listen in as the guys critique the queens’ performances. Which queen deserves a standing ovation and which one should get the hook?

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 12

  • 12 Seasons – 153 Queens

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Mini Challenge – Everyone Loves Puppets!    Maxi Challenge – One-Queen Show

  • [Damon] – The Library Must Be Closed/Funny and Ummmmm…..
  • [Gary] – Laughter and Yikes

Stomp the Runway:

Category is. . . The Color Purple

  • [Damon] – Some Great Choices
  • [Gary] – Honestly, mostly great stuff

Lip Sync for Your Life:

Bottom Two – Heidi Afrodite and Jaida Essence Hall

“1999” by Prince

  • [Damon] – Someone Else Should Have Been in the Bottom
  • [Gary] – Two Enter, One Slays

Shantay Jaida stays, and Heidi Something sashays away

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Miss Whoopi!!
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… WHOOPI FUCKING GOLDBERG MASTER CLASS!
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Not disqualifying Sherry 
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Dahlia Sin Broccoli Stalking – stop trying to make her happen!

 

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COLDR: S12E10: Superfan Makeover

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, IT’S MAKEOVER TIME!! Gary and Damon review the 10th episode of this season and it’s a twist on a classic challenge. As the queens are charged with bringing some super fans into their drag families, the guys get charged on their critiques. As we are nearing the final laps, do the gurls have it in them to stay on track?

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 12

  • 12 Seasons – 153 Queens

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Maxi Challenge – SuperFan Makeovers

  • [Damon] – Cute Change Up!
  • [Gary] – For once, a fair matchup?

Stomp the Runway:

Category is. . . Family Resemblance

  • [Damon] – Ummmm……
  • [Gary] – Typical Outcomes and Wonderful Weirdos

Lip Sync for Your Life:

Bottom Two – Heidi Aphrodite and Jackie Cox

“Kill the Lights” by Alex Newell

  • [Damon] – Too Late and Unnecessary
  • [Gary] – One episode too late?

Shantay Heidi stays, while Jackie also stays

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Opal Methyd
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Heidi’s Love and Crystal’s Choices
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Sherry Pie’s Choices
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Heidi’s Decision