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COL382: Following, Lurking, or Stalking?

col382In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined again by RJ to talk about followers, stalkers, and lurkers. Listen in as the guys discuss what these terms mean to them and their stories about dealing with them. When is enough enough and they can’t take the hint?

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Guess.
  • Damon: Binging on Stranger Things
  • Chester: Aladdin, Tidal Wave, and Tea
  • Gary: Chillin’ – literally

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  • Slavebear23

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  • Mr HappyHands: Grrr!

 

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Urbandictionary with Gary

  • orophiliaoral sex.
    • “They are vigorously involved in orophilia.”

Weekly Topic

Our experiences and differences between following, stalking, and lurking in people’s lives; mostly social media sites.

Cooldown Topics

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COLDR: S8E09: The Realness

COLDRS8-Ep9In this week’s episode, it’s time to get real as we take the final lap of RuPaul’s Drag Race! Gary and Damon discuss this episode of music videos, final runways, and emotional baggage as one queen fails to make it to the finish line. The Realness is real alright.

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Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 8 Episode 9

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: Glamazon Episode?
  • [Damon]: Fixing the Flaws

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: Mild Music Video Challenge
  • [Damon]: “The Realness” was okay…/Jayson Whitmore WOOF daddy

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary]: Truest Sisters
  • [Damon]:  Loving the Camaraderie!

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: Carson’s Question/Ross’ Conversion
  • [Damon]: Definitely got real

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… RuPaul’s Dress!
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for…
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…Kim Chi’s emotions  
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for…Bob’s “Very Best Drag”

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: We now have a Top 3
  • [Damon]: Be who you are…

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COLDR: S8E5: Supermodel Snatch Game

COLDRS8-Ep5This show is so _____! That’s right, ladies and gents, it’s another episode of COLDR. The category is: SNATCH GAME!! Fill in the blanks as Gary and Damon discuss this iconic episode full of celebrity impersonations, several Madges, and other supermodels of the world.

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Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 8 Episode 5

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: Bummed
  • [Damon]: What’s with the drama, Derrick?

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: All Bob, All the Time
  • [Damon]: Showboating?

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary]: Robbie gets real with Naomi
  • [Damon]: Starts slow/The “Freaks” as AB puts it

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: NY Trio Now a Duo
  • [Damon]: Be Original/GWYG

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… Chi Chi’s ingenuity
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for… Betty’s exit
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…Derrick sticking to what she knows/Thorgy’s MJ
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for…Naomi’s not funny

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: Naomi better watch out
  • [Damon]: Bob needs to be careful

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COLDR: S8E4: New Wave Queens

COLDRS8-Ep4Can you hear them? They’re talking ‘bout RuPaul’s Drag Race! It’s an 80’s neon fantasy flashback on this episode of COLDR! Time after time, Gary and Damon present this radical episode as the gurls team up in a singing/songwriting challenge. Who’s totally awesome and who gags us with a spoon?

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Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 8 Episode 4

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: Party, Punk, & Synth…?
  • [Damon]: 80s Neon Remix

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: Communication is Key
  • [Damon]: It’s Good to be Humble(d)/No Excuses

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary]: Naysha Lopez shines thru
  • [Damon]: Sisterhood come thru!/Under-confidence

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: A true lip-sync for their lives
  • [Damon]: Lookout for NY

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… Chicken Wings and Robbie Turner! AND Robbie’s hospitality
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for… Synth Leftovers Group
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…OMG Blondie!
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for…Naysha Taking off her shoes!!

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: This is your real competition
  • [Damon]: The RuRu Sisterhood

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COL295: LTAK: Pup Play

PupPlayAOn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we have another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time, it’s pup play! We are joined by Chester/AlphaShutter, Daniel aka BearberlyCrusher, and pup Jericho to discuss this aspect of kink.Grab your favorite chew toy and cuddle up.

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What’s Going On?

  • [Jeff] – 7/7 Heroic
  • [Damon] – Louisville Trip
  • [Gary] – No NY Crud!
  • [Chester] – There’s No Place Like Home
  • [Daniel and Jericho] – In Bed

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  • Mysterysammy

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FB Comment:

  • COL287: Canadian Extravaganza!: Thomas Hammond: listened to show at work with my headphones, made my monday enjoyable

Weekly Topic

  •  Pup Play – definition
    • A ‘fetish’ derived from Dom/Sub side of BDSM where the sub counterpart takes on behaviors of a dog, a Dom counterpart takes on a role of “handler/trainer.” Puppies will get into a “headspace” where it is easy for them to shed their human self and accept their puppy self.
  • Roles/Duties
    • As with any fetish, there is no black and white.  It’s not uncommon for pups to take on a slave type of role.
  • Reasons for experience
    • Chester: For me, it allows me to express myself with a different persona. Being obedient is very easy for me, and I enjoy the interactions of a Dom counterpart treating me as a pup.  I also have more self confidence when I am in a public space like a bear run or gear night, I also draw attention to myself and I get hit on quite a bit more.
  • Prevalence/Awareness
    • It is becoming more and more accepted throughout the BDSM/Fetish community, especially at events like Folsom, IML, and CLAW. Particularly “Puppy Moshes.”
  • Outside misunderstanding [what people think it is vs. truly is]
    • As with most BDSM/Fetishes, people not familiar with the community often believe that the “sub” counterpart is not a strong person and enjoys being abused. Puppy play is very much the opposite. Trainers/handlers often treat pups with more caring and playfulness than a regular BDSM/Fetish relationship. It’s very similar to how a person would treat a biological puppy.

 

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