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COL295: LTAK: Pup Play

PupPlayAOn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we have another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time, it’s pup play! We are joined by Chester/AlphaShutter, Daniel aka BearberlyCrusher, and pup Jericho to discuss this aspect of kink.Grab your favorite chew toy and cuddle up.

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What’s Going On?

  • [Jeff] – 7/7 Heroic
  • [Damon] – Louisville Trip
  • [Gary] – No NY Crud!
  • [Chester] – There’s No Place Like Home
  • [Daniel and Jericho] – In Bed

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Weekly Topic

  •  Pup Play – definition
    • A ‘fetish’ derived from Dom/Sub side of BDSM where the sub counterpart takes on behaviors of a dog, a Dom counterpart takes on a role of “handler/trainer.” Puppies will get into a “headspace” where it is easy for them to shed their human self and accept their puppy self.
  • Roles/Duties
    • As with any fetish, there is no black and white.  It’s not uncommon for pups to take on a slave type of role.
  • Reasons for experience
    • Chester: For me, it allows me to express myself with a different persona. Being obedient is very easy for me, and I enjoy the interactions of a Dom counterpart treating me as a pup.  I also have more self confidence when I am in a public space like a bear run or gear night, I also draw attention to myself and I get hit on quite a bit more.
  • Prevalence/Awareness
    • It is becoming more and more accepted throughout the BDSM/Fetish community, especially at events like Folsom, IML, and CLAW. Particularly “Puppy Moshes.”
  • Outside misunderstanding [what people think it is vs. truly is]
    • As with most BDSM/Fetishes, people not familiar with the community often believe that the “sub” counterpart is not a strong person and enjoys being abused. Puppy play is very much the opposite. Trainers/handlers often treat pups with more caring and playfulness than a regular BDSM/Fetish relationship. It’s very similar to how a person would treat a biological puppy.

 

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COL287: Canadian Extravaganza!

Daniel Rugby 287In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we talk with Tumblr bear celebrity Daniel aka Bearberlycrusher about being Canadian and an amazing list of things about him and his life. From rugby and BDSM, to exhibitionism and gaming, we learn how unique and wonderful he is.

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What’s Going On?

  • [Gary] – Busy Busy Busy
  • [Jeff] – Warlords Released

Weekly Topic

Daniel Harris.

  • Tumblr account
  • selfies
  • leather
  • pup play
  • gaming
  • travel abroad
  • rugby
  • Vegan

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COLPOTW: What’s Your Hanky Code?

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On this week’s episode of Cubs Out Loud, the boys chat about sexual interests and limits.  One of the best ways to communicate this to your potential partners is the Hanky Code.  What we want to know is that color is your Hanky?  Here are a couple of guides to help you out.

The Wholly Ironic Hanky Code

Lists of Paraphilias