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COL418: Handsome vs Sexy

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by Ray to discuss a recent phenomenon; the ever increasing debate of being called “handsome” and being called “sexy”. From online dating to social apps, the guys chime in our their thoughts on what being complimented with these (and other) words means to them. Also, the cubs look at how accepting the compliment can have some positive and negative consequences.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Don’t You Know That It’s Hot, Hot, Hot
  • Damon: Reliving old stories
  • Chester: Post Tidal Wave/WDW & US w/ Evan
  • Gary: It’s betting busy
  • Ray: Taking care of Big Junk and Company

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  • Arturo Rojas Bear
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Facebook Comment:

  • From Paul Hobby, re: COL408 WYR Hardest Sex Ever: “In the spirit of the “Mary Anne or Ginger” debate, let’s go to Little House on the Prairie and ask Merlin Olsen or Victor French?”
  • From Erick Lungren re: CLAW17 co-hosts Pup Shutter’s pic: “DAM… Gary THAT short?”

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  • Tom Fleetwood shared COL416: LTAK: Consent and Respect 2: Part 1 “How fun!! with Ms. Tammy. It was cool hearing you on this podcast. I suggest everyone to take a lesson.”

 

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  • Andybear21: “Hi”
  • OtterDave: “Thanks Damon and the rest of the COL crew, I finally got the chance to catch up on some of the podcasts this week and appreciated the shoutout during the feedback episode (COL412). Your podcasts are always fun even when discussing serious topics and I can’t wait to hear more. If you’re looking for some ideas I’d like to see a poll option for the would-you-rather episodes so the listeners can play along. Woof, Dave”

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“Handsome” Vs “Sexy”

Cooldown Topics

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COLDR: S9E09: Your Pilots On Fire

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, the gang is joined by extra special guest Brady to talk about the most recent episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race. It’s TV pilots and Club Kid couture and enough twists and turns to leave you gagging for breath. Plus, an elimination so shocking, the guys barely mask their emotions.

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Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 9 Episode 9

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – Two things:
    • 1) All the BS aside, Club Kids to the Main Stage!
    • 2) Emotional Rollercoaster [bored, annoyed, frustrated, slightly amused, bewildered, confused, appeased, unsure, perplexed, gagged, mystified, and ultimately mournful]
  • [Damon] – One of the best episodes of the season
  • [Chester] – Entertaining and gag worthy
  • [Brady] – Hypocrisy in abundance.

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Damon] – Misconceptions (thanks internet)
  • [Chester] – Shea has some amazing words of advice…
  • [Brady] – Nina. We shall discuss. I have notes.
  • [Gary] – Nerves on Edge & the predicted Crash and Burn

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Chester] – Confidence vs. Cocky: know your shit/Manufactured
  • [Brady] – Katya/Alaska?/Where the fuck did that robe come from?
  • [Gary] – Ru voiced the T inside so many heads
  • [Damon] – It only takes one fall to break a leg

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Runway looks & shoutout to Alexis
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… guest judges who?? & 6Ps were missed
  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Peppermint’s Club Kid/Gaywatch
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… You know what I’m gonna eyeroll
  • [Chester] –  Snaps for… Shea/Sasha Redux
  • [Chester] – Eyerolls for… Sasha runway, snorefest
  • [Brady] – Snaps for… The Deadpool of Drag [Chester’s Couture pic vs Shea’s Runway Look]
  • [Brady] – Eyerolls for…Alexis

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Damon] – You don’t always get a 2nd chance
  • [Chester] – Nothing to add
  • [Brady] – Predictions.
  • [Gary] – The final four are predicted?

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COL384: Title Holder Experience

col384In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined by Mr. COL Bear and Mr. NAB 2016 Ray to talk about contests, titles, contestants, and winning (or losing). What does it take to be in a contest? Listen in as the guys tally out the ins and outs of running for–and being–a titleholder.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Too Much To Do!
  • Damon: Another Puppy contest
  • Chester: Busy bee
  • Gary: When your body gets old

Weekly Topic

What experience has taught former title holders others can do to prepare for entering a title contest and then the year following a win.

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COLDR: S7E14: Grand Finale

COLDRS7-FinaleIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud Drag Race, Damon and Gary talk about the final episode and crowning of a new queen in RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7!  The guys discuss the finale, the winner, and breakdown all the tears and laughter throughout.

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From Google+:

Anthony Mendoza

Replying to the question you guys asked, yes sometimes I do find myself agreeing with you. You guys make a lot of valid points and I enjoy your perspective. Early on I found myself agreeing with Gary more (and still do more often than not) but Damon has made compelling arguments that have swayed me before. But then again sometimes I think your both full of shit but I deeply enjoy your commentary anyway because whether I agree with you guys or not I find pursuing other viewpoints that I may not have explored without your opinion. I love your guys’s show and I love the podcast, keep doing what you guys do best! Hugs!!!

spreilly2

#I was born in 92

Weekly Topic

Current episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7
The Finale!

First Impressions:

  • [Gary] – Work the runway mamas!
  • [Damon] – So many beautiful looks/NOPE!!!

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – Final LIVE lipsycs and one-on-one interviews with Ru
  • [Damon] – Ginger/Big Gurl Winning/Soooo Emotional

Cooldown Topics

Take Aways:

  • [Gary] – Ru’s addressing the ‘hate’ online these days
  • [Damon] – Confidence/knowing your shit really pays off

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Kennedy’s runway, Ru’s one-liners, Benda LaCreme’s stunt, Katya’s award, Ru’s dramatic pause
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Pearl’s wig coming undone during the interview, Kandy Ho’s reveal that she doesn’t typically do her makeup, Ginger’s crowning look
  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Final 3 LSFYL/Jasmine Masters truthfulness/Ginger’s dad and Jaidynn’s mom
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Miss Fame and the fuckin’ chicken

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary] – The Brand with a Vision is key
  • [Damon] – Now what?

Bonus Material

Logo opened the vaults! A bazillion extra bonus clips on YouTube with too many to list. Use the link and then watch them all.

All three finalists released original music videos!

Ginger Minj – Ooh Lala Lala

Pearl – Love Slave

Voilet Chacki – Bettie

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COLDR: S7E12: And The Rest is Drag

COLDRS7-Ep12In this episode of Cubs Out Loud Drag Race, Damon and Gary talk about the twelfth episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7! In tonight’s episode, the guys listen in as the queens worq it in a music video challenge for RuPaul’s next song “Born Naked” (available on iTunes *wink*). Sparks fly in this emotionally charged episode from the start to the finish. The competition is on as the final four give it their all to make it into the top three. Who rises to the occasion and who ends up losing their wig? All will be RU-vealed.

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Anthony Mendoza

I’ve been watching your guy’s recap of the episodes since episode 1 and yours is my favorite by far. And can I just say that Gary gets more and more adorable every time he’s on camera. I just wanna take him home and do horrible naughty things to him. Love you guys!

Weekly Topic

Current episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7

First Impressions:

  • [Gary] – Talk about emotions!
  • [Damon] – Let’s Git It ON!!

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – Final Four Focus, FLAWS and All, careful how you answer that loaded question
  • [Damon] – Lots of emotions (Lunch w/Ru, Conversations with your younger self)/Bitter Old Queens vs. Artistic Gurls

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary] – From the beginning; IT’S A COMPETITION. Ginger’s a pageant girl? Short sightedness…. eeek.
  • [Damon] – That was Explosive!/Every drag queen needs to do a pageant

Cooldown Topics

Take Aways:

  • [Gary] – QUAD LIP SYNC?!? Never saw that coming…
  • [Damon] – How far do you go for the WIN?

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for…Honesty on the runway because we are all ‘damaged’, and the hidden gem from Mathu Anderson ‘Isn’t she clever?’
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Pearl’s hair issue, Ginger’s hair issue [did not fly away], Violet’s earring issue [did not fall off]
  • [Damon] – Snaps for…Kennedy and Ginger’s runway outfits/Pearl’s honesty
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for…The little problems (Kennedy’s acting/Ginger and Pearl’s hair/Violet’s earring)/Ginger said: “Old school is the only school”

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary] – “And if we’re gonna super size our french fries, why can’t we at least super size our next drag queen super star?” – Ginger Minj
  • [Damon] – Who do I want to win and who I think will win

Bonus Material

RuPaul – Modern Love Official Music Video

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