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COL081: Math is Haaard

The guys try to determine what sex is and how much of it is too much for comfort.

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Amazing Weekends

Feedback:
From Facebook: “Really!?!? 30-60%”
I do have to say, I’m a little offended that y’all think so lowly of our community. What are you basing these percentages on? I know that you are just guessing based on personal experiences, but really? Where do you people go? Haha.

Now, yes, if you are just basing this on gay men who go to gay bars/clubs every week then sure, I would say 40% actively participate in some form of public sex. But, you have to ask yourself, what percentage of gay men go to gay bars/clubs every week.

During my time living in NYC as a gay nightlife photographer I can tell you I saw the same groups of people at every party, every week. Those out at night in the gay bars/clubs are a small percentage of the male gay community at large. Although they are the most visible.

I feel like when you are going to make such a negative, blanketed statement about our own community; perhaps you should think about it beyond your experience at the Eagle.

Devil’s Advocate: Who’s to say public sex is wrong or immoral? Especially when those morals come from a religion that has condemned us to be less than human?

Nevertheless I do feel like y’all are grossly over estimating those percentages. Just call me the naive optimist.

I know this feedback will come off as harsh. I guess what is troubling me most of all, is that you seem to be judging our community on places like the Eagle and Craigslist just like the rest of America.

Love the show,

Aaron

Topics:

  • Are we saying public sex is negative?
  • What defines “sex”?
  • How many sexual partners before one becomes a slut?
  • How open should you be with a potential sex partner? Potential boyfriend?

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A Better Way To Remind You Of Safe Sex?

New ringtone refrain: ‘Condom, condom!’ | Crave, the gadget blog – CNET

Those crazy Indians are at it again. What better way to to remind you to make sure you have a condom on you when by having your ringtone be a multipart harmony of the word “Condom” being sung over and over again in an Indian accent.

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You might think this is absurd and it almost is. The ringtone, “Condom A Cappella”, is actually part of an ad campaign by the BBC World Service Trust to help prevent the transmission of HIV in India, where approximately 2.5 million people are living with HIV. The ringtone comes in at Phase III of the “jo samjha wohi sikander” (“the one who understands is a winner”) campaign sponcered by both the BBC World Service Trust and the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation. They put up an ad where a cell phone rings with the ringtone. The man holding the phone gets surprised that it’s saying “Condom” but eventually people start looking at him as if he’s a very intellgent and the ladies start making eyes at him. You can download the mp3 file above or go to http://www.condomcondom.org/ where you can take a look at the previous two phases and download the ringtone.