COL636: LoR: Love Languages

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined once again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. In this episode, the guys show how they feel the love within the five love languages. From learning what the languages are to sharing their results, listen in as the guys gift us some touching acts of quality words to help understand how these languages affirm the love and affection one can feel for their loved ones. In addition, learn more about more recent developments in the love languages from neurodivergent to kink play dynamics.

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Show Topic

Landscape of Relationships: Love Languages

Love Languages (Gary Chapman):

1. Words of Affirmation 
2. Quality Time
3. Acts of Service 
4. Gifts
5. Physical Touch 

The 5 Love Languages (according to Britney, Bitch!):

• Physical Touch: My loneliness is killing me
• Words of Affirmation: I must confess I still believe
• Quality Time: When I’m not with you I lose my mind
• Give Giving: Give me a sign
• Acts of Service: Hit me baby one more time

The 5 Neurodivergent Love Languages:

• Infodumping
• Parallel Play
• Support Swapping
• Please Crush My Soul Back into My Body
• “I found this cool rock/button/leaf/etc and thought you would like it”

Comparison of Results:

• Edward’s results 
• Damon’s Results
• Gary’s results
• Jeff’s Results

Gary Chapman, PhD, 1992, The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts 

• Gary Chapman has issues

Fear not: John Gottman and the Gottman approach, which I reference often, is a good overlap with the 5 languages of love….and allows some flexibility with the concepts.

• Queering the Love Languages 

BDSM and Love Languages  

• Kinky Quality Time
• Kinky Words of Affirmation
• Kinky Acts of Service
• Kinky Touch
• Kinky Gifts

Have Fun With It

• Internal Conflict 
• You’re so far away
• Five Hate Languages 

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