This may seem like a stupid question but, how do you date?  How do you find that right man?  I will be the first to tell you, don’t ask me for dating advise.  I’m only 27 years old and yet, I’ve been ready to settle down.  I definitely want to continue going out with my friends but I’m ready for the one man to be my husbear and live the rest of my life with.  I really felt like I had that before with Karl but he’s gone now and I don’t know how to proceed.  I’m a very shy person.  I was fortunate to find Karl and I don’t really understand how it happened.  Now I’m alone.  I’m striving for companionship, but only with the right bear.  It’s very hard for me to go out and just talk to some cute guy.  I’m one of those people who would hide behind someone and not introduce myself.  I don’t know if that would necessarily be considered cute or charming or repulsive or what have you.   Once I’m introduced to someone or someone comes to me, I will loosen up, but I’m terrified of going up to someone myself.

The other part is finding someone that fits you, and I don’t mean just sexually, although that can be important.  What I mean is someone who has interests that you can tolerate or enjoy and who can tolerate or enjoy your interests with you.  A relationship is a 2, 3, 4, or more way street.  I dare not say two because there are very happy triads out there.  I enjoy listening to tech podcasts, World of Warcraft, and gaming.  Karl and I use to go to GenCon together, but this year, I will not be able to go.  As much as I’m dyeing to go.  I need a $90,000 bear to sweep me off my feet and who loves just being with me, and who I enjoy being with.  Okay, so he doesn’t have to be a $90,000 bear, but I’m talking about my dream bear. So sue me.  Honestly, I’m not expecting the man in my life to like EVERYTHING about me.  Who does?  But that’s what I’m looking for in a man.  Check out my profile on Bearciti to see more.