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COL497: LTAK: Financial Domination

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we delve into another Let’s Talk About Kink! For this episode, we take one of our audience requests and discuss the idea of “financial domination.” In the D/s dynamic, financial domination is where a submissive gives money–and is pleasured by doing so–to their Dominant. Listen in as the cubs share their thoughts what this kink means and where it differs from being a kept bear.

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Let’s Talk About Kink – Financial Domination aka money slavery

Financial domination (also known as money slavery) is a sexual fetish, in particular a practice of dominance and submission, where a submissive (money slave, finsub, pay pig, human ATM, or cash piggie) will give gifts and money to a financial dominant (money mistress, findomme, money domme, cash master, or findom)…Financial domination is a paraphilia (experience of intense sexual arousal to situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals) stemming from a devotion of financial slavery or to be dominated in a financial way. – WikiWand Online Article

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COLDR: S10E12: American

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In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Chester and Gary are back to talk about the Final Four Queens. Who delivers an anthem stirring American performance, and which queens fail to razzle dazzle to the finale?

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RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 10

Mini/Maxi/ Runway: American Song Lyrics & Choreography / Podcast / Glamour Runway

  • [Chester] – Everyone did a good job overall…
  • [Gary] – Two Take the Lead

Snatched:

  • [Chester] – [didn’t watch it]
  • [Gary] – “I don’t think you need your horn tooted…”

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Chester] – Snaps for… Kameron’s Vocals / Kameron’s Pop & Lock
  • [Chester] – Eyerolls for… Not very “American”
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Todrick’s In-person Feedback
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… The Final Look of Eureka

Last Call:

  • [Chester] – Perspective changed on potential winners
  • [Gary] – WTH will happen next?

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COLDR: AS3E08: A Jury of Their Queers

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In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, we have reached the final lap, kitty girls! It’s the finale of All-Stars 3 and the cubs are ready to spill ALL the T. From the ‘live’ performance to the jury twist, find out who snatches the crown in the end and joins the Drag Race Hall of Fame!

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YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COLDR: AS3E06-07 – Mike A: Totally agree with Gary. Respect to Shangela because she is funny and talented and deserves the crown if she wins BUT…that fat suit was a total “stunt”. She’s a “stunt queen” always pulling stunts in her lip syncs. I think Sasha set a precedent with the rose petals under the glove and wig last year. If you wanna win you gotta have a gimmick. Team Trixie all the way but if Shangela wins I wont be mad. Great show guys! You are definitely one of the “better” recap shows. Missed Chester but Brady’s nice to look at 😉 Love you guys.

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RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars 3

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Chester] – No, we didn’t want a twist
  • [Damon] – I was SHOOKETH!
  • [Gary] – ‘Live – One Shot’? and about that ‘rumor’…

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Chester] – Snaps for… All the ‘extras’ not aired
  • [Chester] – Eyerolls for… WTF were those looks
  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Kitty Girl
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… LSFYLegacy Song
  • [Gary] – Snaps for . . . Shangela
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for . . . BeBe

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Chester] – Rigga Morris, gurl.
  • [Damon] – Great! You’re a Winner. Here comes Season 10! *steamroll*
  • [Gary] – May the odds be ever in your favor

Fantasy League

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COL421: Couples Age Differences

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  we are joined by Ches to talk about intergenerational relationships: the good, the bad, and the uncomfortable. We get it on with the May-December, throw down with All the Young Dudes, dust off our Silver Daddy/Santa fantasies, and talk about how cubs and Daddy bears make age-gaps in relationships work.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Down, Repeat, Computer Down!
  • Damon: Part of an panel
  • Chester: It’s been a hell of a month!
  • Gary: Guess who’s back in the house?
  • Ches: Pride; Birthday; Welcome baby Finnian!

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Facebook Comment:

  • Andrew Ealy ordered a COL T-Shirt and sent us a photo with the message “How YOU doin’ !!! Got my new COL shirt today!”

Twitter Followers:

Twitter Messages:

  • @dftbapaul in re: to
    • COLSP06: Daddy’s Day Storytime
      • “Whew that was sexy. Blushing at work
      • In a reply to @fyzzgiggidy
        • Btw a good way to get more info is to go to the @cubsoutloud podcast and use the search feature and look up the ltak (let’s talk about kink)
    • Missing COLDR tweets.

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Relationships with Age Spans between the Partners

  • Age is a number… Generational Gaps no longer defined
  • Values, Morals, and Ethics.
    • Values: Are having an emotional investment (either for or against something)
    • Morals: Are your ideas of what is right and what is wrong
    • Ethics: Are a set of rules which are explicitly adopted by a group of people
  • Age, Maturity, Life Experiences
    • Older Age =/= Mature, just as Younger Age =/= immature
  • Friends and Family Reactions/Acceptance
  • Challenges
    • Lack of life experiences can be frustrating
    • Facing down the question of mortality
  • Advantages
    • Experiencing new things together
      • Sharing our favorite things
        • music, movies, Gaming/TTG
      • Seeing things “new” again
      • The ability to help teach

Cooldown Topics

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COLDR: S9E11: Gayest Ball Ever

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In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, who’s ready for a big gay ball? Gary and Damon welcome back Brady to kick some drag balls around. From colorful rainbows and fierce unicorns to a throwback to the YMCA, the gays roll through the fantastical runway looks of the Top 5. Who prances to the top and who ends up getting kicked in the…well, you know?

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RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 9 Episode 11

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – Welcome to the Gay Pride episode…?
  • [Damon] – The SHADE of it ALL!!
  • [Brady] – Colorful, yet fun!

Runway Category Bests:

Rainbow She Better Do

  • [Brady] – Shea!
  • [Gary] – Sasha Velour
  • [Damon] – Trinity

Sexy Unicorn

  • [Brady] – WTF Trinity.
  • [Gary] – Sasha Velour
  • [Damon] – Sasha Velour

Village People Eleganza Extravaganza

  • [Brady] – Shea!
  • [Gary] – Shea Coulee
  • [Damon] – Trinity

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Damon] – *rolls eyes* Really, Alexis?
  • [Brady] – No fighting!?
  • [Gary] – Predictable and yet Fashion vs Rules?

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Brady] – They finally made the RIGHT choice.
  • [Gary] – And the pressure increases
  • [Damon] – Bring Your Best

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Sasha’s Rainbow Reveal
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Shea’s ‘Rainbow’ Graffiti & Peppermints Village Highlighter
  • [Damon] – Snaps for…Carson’s joke on Sasha’s Unicorn/Joan Small’s read on Alexis
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Sasha’s direction
  • [Brady] – Snaps for… RuPaul!
  • [Brady] – Eyerolls for… Peppermint. KNOW YOUR COMMUNITIES!

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Damon] – We’re near the end and I’m ready for finale
  • [Brady] – My prediction was right!
  • [Gary] – Quite possibly there’s a dead heat for Top 2

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