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COL421: Couples Age Differences

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  we are joined by Ches to talk about intergenerational relationships: the good, the bad, and the uncomfortable. We get it on with the May-December, throw down with All the Young Dudes, dust off our Silver Daddy/Santa fantasies, and talk about how cubs and Daddy bears make age-gaps in relationships work.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Down, Repeat, Computer Down!
  • Damon: Part of an panel
  • Chester: It’s been a hell of a month!
  • Gary: Guess who’s back in the house?
  • Ches: Pride; Birthday; Welcome baby Finnian!


Facebook Comment:

  • Andrew Ealy ordered a COL T-Shirt and sent us a photo with the message “How YOU doin’ !!! Got my new COL shirt today!”

Twitter Followers:

Twitter Messages:

  • @dftbapaul in re: to
    • COLSP06: Daddy’s Day Storytime
      • “Whew that was sexy. Blushing at work
      • In a reply to @fyzzgiggidy
        • Btw a good way to get more info is to go to the @cubsoutloud podcast and use the search feature and look up the ltak (let’s talk about kink)
    • Missing COLDR tweets.

Weekly Topic

Relationships with Age Spans between the Partners

  • Age is a number… Generational Gaps no longer defined
  • Values, Morals, and Ethics.
    • Values: Are having an emotional investment (either for or against something)
    • Morals: Are your ideas of what is right and what is wrong
    • Ethics: Are a set of rules which are explicitly adopted by a group of people
  • Age, Maturity, Life Experiences
    • Older Age =/= Mature, just as Younger Age =/= immature
  • Friends and Family Reactions/Acceptance
  • Challenges
    • Lack of life experiences can be frustrating
    • Facing down the question of mortality
  • Advantages
    • Experiencing new things together
      • Sharing our favorite things
        • music, movies, Gaming/TTG
      • Seeing things “new” again
      • The ability to help teach

Cooldown Topics

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COL215: Black Shirt Friday

Photo on 2013-06-07 at 18.55On this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys gather together in the off-hours to talk about their lives and what we will and won’t do with our responses to The Book of Questions. Oh yeah. By the way, Ben’s back.

What the F Did We Do This Week

This Week On Heat Sinks: The introduction of Heat Sinks: Arcade

Topic: Book of Questions: Lookout, ’cause we’re going to get serious….maybe

This week’s poll: What type of questions are off limits from your partner, boyfriend, husband, lover etc.?

  • Religious / Spiritual
  • Sexual (could be kink in nature)
  • Related to Bodily Functions
  • Money / Finances
  • Politics / Government
  • Other

Last Week’s Poll: How do you prepare for a date?

  • Full Flush and Go (Enema included)
  • Three S’s (Shit, Shower & Shave only)
  • I don’t ‘prep’, I’m a dirty pig
  • Buy Condoms and Lube
  • Haircut and a button down shirt
  • Charge my phone so I can Growlr for someone better if it sucks

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  • [Ben] $30 Socks?
  • [Gary] Intelligent and Masculine For Passable First Time


  • [Jeff] A Fish Called Wanda

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