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COL501: LTAS: Bathhouse Etiquette

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined by the multi-talented Daddy Hadrian for another Let’s Talk About Sex. In a follow up on previous episodes, today’s show is all about bathhouse etiquette: some spoken and unspoken rules, and tips and tricks to follow while engaging in the cruisy atmosphere of the gay bathhouse. Learn how to be a prepared bear before, during, and after you put that towel around your waist.

Show Topic

Welcoming back our longest standing guest host for his 28th appearance, Hadrian McQuaig!

Previous Related Topics – COL422: Playspace Etiquette, COL411: Bathhouse Experiences

  • Being invisible is rarely an option; you will probably be seen/watched
  • Respect – how to give and get it
  • Consent  – the subtle and direct moments
  • Get What You Want with Courtesy
  • Safety – yours and everyone else’s
  • Be PrEPared – inside and out
  • Stay Hydrated

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COL461: BEAR: Solo or Not

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  it’s another Bear Experience Action Readiness or BEAR show. Just before the festivities of Drenched Fur, the guys talk about the pros and cons of flying solo or travelling in a pack to an event. From getting there to being there, find out if it’s better to be lone wolf or to bring Chewie along for the ride.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: “BTW, this is your last week”
  • Damon: Vocally Tired
  • Chester: New Job! Isle of Dogs. Drenched Fur Prep
  • Gary: The Final Countdown

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  • Jake Enger
  • Alan Malinger
  • Jeffery Workman
  • James Mike Smith

Facebook Comment/Post:

  • ‎Michael Quinichett‎ – *The ripple effect begins*
  • Re: COL458: Turn Ons/Offs
    • James Martin: Fuck this was bloody hilarious! Keep it up guys!
    • Michael Quinichett: Great show guys! Generally, I don’t like wearing deodorant. I will use essential oils that have a “woodsy” man-like smell, like cedarwood, myrrh, or frankincense. It is a MUST for me at bear/leather events.

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  • Re: COL460: Disney Madness – FurInTeeth: It’s not Rude. lol I had a spot too and loved the site for years! But this “new thing” killed it!!! Not hating. Plus, how does blunt equal rude? lol silly cubs. PS.. Lion King hand that shit hands down!!!!

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  • FaffyWaffle518 – COL 460: Disney Madness
    • You guys are awesome, thanks for the shoutout and yes I made it through the “bullshit or whatever”😂 My favorite Disney film is The Aristocats so yeah…..

Show Topic

BEAR [Bear Experience Action Readiness] Series: Solo or Not?

  • Is it better to travel to a bear function/event by yourself or with others?
  • And what about rooming…should you share with friends or be greedy and bunk up alone?
  • How do we plan solo selfcare vs group involvement? Pros/Cons?

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COL304: OTR: NAB Weekend Part 2

COL304In this episode Cubs Out Loud, Gary and Damon are joined again by the Cubs – Rich and Vince and gang of guests at Lexington, KY. This is the second of three episodes from the North American Bear Weekend bear run. As the guys get together later that night, the discussion focuses on Mr. North American Bear contest. Sit back and get ready to listen in.

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Weekly Topic

Mr. North American bear run, Lexington, Kentucky – February 26 – March 1, 2015

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