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COL811: 2025 Look Back

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys reflect on the year that was 2025. With ups, downs, and all sorts of things in-between, listen in as guys reminisce and recap what happened to them. What stands out as notable in a year with non-stop news grabbing stuff?

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It’s the beginning of a new calendar year. The cubs reflect on the year that was 2025. We had ups, downs, and all sorts of things in-between. What stands out as notable in a year with non-stop news grabbing stuff? Might we find this to be more a year of ‘feeling’ than specific moments that stand out?

COL804: WGO: October 2025

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of October.  With the arrival of spooky season and the coming of Halloween, listen in as the guys scare up their recent haunts. It’s a frightfully full month for the cubs.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: 21+ pages and only 1 actual sex scene?
  • Damon: KY Leather/Blackout30/B-Day
  • Gary: Family but not family

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  • @atthatpointidkhim.bsky.social

Patreon Updates

  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W. and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, and Michael Q
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G., Michael V, Oan R.!

Recent Shows

  • COL801: WGO: September 2025
  • COL802: Furries 101
  • COL803: NGL Episode Part 2

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COL801: WGO: September 2025

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of September. As the first month of fall begins, listen in as the guys share some emotional highs and lows that occurred. From fun firsts to devastating blows, the cubs catch you up on their recent experiences.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: …
  • Damon: Orlando Trip/Back to Rehearsals
  • Gary: Therapy and Drugs

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  • @thebrisket.bsky.social‬

Patreon Updates

  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W. and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, and Michael Q
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G., Michael V, Oan R.!

Recent Shows

  • COL797: WGO: August 2025
  • COL798: LTAK: SpankPls BDSM Test
  • COL799: Let’s Jackbox Again!
  • COL800: How did we get here? The NGL Episode

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COL797: WGO: August 2025

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of August. As we head into the last month of summer, the guys bring you up to speed on their shenanigans. From staycations to the unexpected, listen in as the daddycubs catch up after the busy month.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Staycay!
  • Damon: Title Grandpa!
  • Gary: Unexpected

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  • @swteddybear21.bsky.social‬

Patreon Updates

  • HAPPY THREE YEAR ANNIVERSARY TO MICHAEL K!
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W. and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, and Michael Q
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G., Michael V, Oan R.!

Recent Shows

  • COL792: WGO: July 2025
  • COL793: LTAF: State Fairs ‘25 – Part 1
  • COL794: LTAF: State Fairs ‘25 – Part 2
  • COL795: LTAF: State Fairs ‘25 – Part 3
  • COL796: Jeff’s BDay Happy Hour: Baker’s Dozen Edition

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COLDR: S17E06: The Villains Roast & Ross Matthews vs The Ducks

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary & Damon return as the queens inch ever so close to the crown! With villains and ducks abound, listen in as the guys roast the gurls during a comedy and acting challenge. Which queens gave them laughs and which ones were burnt to a crisp?

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

  • Serve(s):  
    • [Damon] – Ep 10: Jewels’ Shorty Runway  & Ep 11: Le Porque Choppe
    • [Gary] – Ep 10: Writer’s Room  & Ep 11: Black & White Runway Theme
  • Swerve(s): 
    • [Damon] – Ep 10: Lexi’s Inner Saboteur & Ep 11: Lydia’s Fabric Obsession
    • [Gary] – Ep 10: Arrietty Stunt & Ep 11: Onya’s Runway
  • Nerve(s): 
    • [Damon] – Ep 10: Bring Back the Tank  & Ep 11: Onya’s Fupa 
    • [Gary] – Ep 10: Mother’s Runway & Ep 11: Ganging Up On Suzie

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • Snaps for… 
    • [Damon] –  Suzie/Onya Got the Gurls Struggling
    • [Gary] – Lana’s & Lydia’s Roast Surprise and Sam Smith Realness
  • Eyerolls for… 
    • [Damon] –  Arrietty’s Goodbye (HAB!!)
    • [Gary] – Late Season Runway Theme (Ep 10)

COL755: LoR: We Hurt Where We Care

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke is back with the cubs to explore the somewhat darker side of relationships. This time around, Ed leads the guys on a journey through hurt from those we love and how to find a positive perspective from this.

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Landscape of Relationships: We Hurt Where We Care

Relationships have a lot of benefits, but they are not going to be without conflict and other life difficulties.  So what do you do when that happens?

Fear not!  I have a couple things to tell you that will be helpful.  

  1. “We Hurt Where We Care” 
    1. Russ Harris’ “When Life Hits Hard”
    2. Your pain tells you that this is important to you
    3. Self-compassion
  2. Brene Brown’s BRAVING model.  
    1. the G stands for Generous. 
    2. Let’s be generous with our loved ones when they mess up 
  3. The Gottman’s Positive Perspective
    1. We can either look at the actions of our loved one through rose colored glasses, clear glasses, or poop colored glasses.  Which one(s) do you think is going to have the best outcome?
    2. Five positive interactions to one negative interactions (e.g. affection, appreciation, listening, rituals).
    3. Small actions lead to big results