Show Topic
Let’s Talk About Sex – Asking and Receiving
- Why is it so hard to ask for something during sex?
- Are you being rude if you don’t show appreciation for the other participant during sex?
- What do you do if you wanted a blow job but they aren’t doing that thing that you really like when you are getting a blowjob? You know that thing…
The Good Touch Games….Drenched Fur….Gabe and Edward
Consent
- “An agreement between two parties who are about to engage in sexual activity”-RAINN
- Consent is just as much about no as it is about yes.
- Consent is about both parties getting what they want
- Consent Tea Video
Asking
-
- We have to know what we want or what we don’t want in order to ask for and/or decline something.
- Sex needs a new methaphor other than baseball/sports….what about pizza?
-
- Asking leads to intimacy
Receiving
- Periodic Checking in (Verbal and non-verbal)
- Sometimes you are speechless so a nod of appreciation is good (see Daddy Will Angel for reference…Daddy Will Angel, Liam Angel, and Brad Kalvo)
- How to receive (Compliment Sandwich)
- Show appreciation
- Room for improvement
- Show appreciation again
- Repeat till orgasm (if that is what you want on your pizza)
NPR Safe Sex Communication Skills and COVID-19 Social Bubbles
Podcast: Play in new window | Download
Subscribe: RSS