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COL816: LTAS: Favorite Features We Love

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex. This time around, the guys share their favorite features. What draws their attention, catches their eyes and could potentially leave them in a compromised situation? From perfect beards to round bellies, listen in as the cubs share the parts that make them double take.

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The Let’s Talk About Sex series returns and the cubs are discussing their personal faves when it comes to features on other people they wouldn’t turn down as a valentine. What draws their attention, could start a crash, or result in embarrassment?

 

 

 

 

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COL802: Furries 101

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys welcome back a familiar face to the show: Chester aka Shutter! Shutter returns to school the cubs on what it means to be a furry. From the simple definition to a brief deep dive into the culture & more, listen as the guys learn more about the community.

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Furries 101

Have you wondered what it’s like to wear a mascot costume? If you like depictions of anthropomorphic animals, does that mean you’re automatically a furry? And what the heck even is a furry? We’re going to find out with our special guest, Shutter. 

General concepts for discussion:

    • What is a furry?
    • What is a fursuit?
    • Do you have to wear special stuff? [head, paws, tail, suit, etc]
    • What’s a fursona?
    • What kind of events are there? Who can attend? 
    • Are there gay furries? 
    • How do bears exist in the furry community?
    • Any general misconceptions? 
    • Any important takeaways?

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COL800: How Did We Get Here? The NGL Episode

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys reach a prolific milestone: 800 EPISODES! Not gonna lie. It’s hard to believe that a little show that started in 2008 has reached this major achievement. Not gonna lie. To celebrate, the cubs put themselves in the hot seat and answer some anonymous questions from you, our beloved audience. Not gonna lie. With so many questions coming in, this is only part one.

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How did we get here? The NGL Episode

Who knew that in January 2008 a gathering of folks online for a recorded chat would become a podcast for more than 15 years? So for this milestone episode, we’re putting the hosts in the hot seat. 

NGL [not gonna lie] is a fresh take on anonymity. And it’s a fun way to express feelings and opinions. The Cubs Out Loud worldwide entourage [audience] now has an opportunity to share their thoughts and ask questions  via incognito mode, so to speak.

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COL798: LTAK: SpankPls BDSM Test

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another installment in the Let’s Talk About Kink series. The cubs are joined again by Tony aka Cubziz to guide them through another BDSM online test. The newest SpankPls test has come up to ‘test’ the cubs’ kink preferences. Will the guys find new insights to their interests in kink/BDSM, or will they find it another repeat of what they already know?

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LTAK: SpankPls BDSM Test

The Let’s Talk About Kink series returns and we’re pleased to have Cubziz join us! Another new online quiz has come up to ‘test’ our kink preferences. We’ve done a couple of these before and we’re about to do another. Will we find this one to give us new insights to our interests in kink/BDSM? Let’s find out. 

SpankPls BDSM Test

  • Cubziz – The Kink Explorer
  • Damon – The Soft One
  • Jeff – The Sensualist
  • Gary – The Sensualist

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COL788: From Cubs to Daddy Cubs

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are turning DADDY! With Father’s Day being last week, the guys shift their focus to discuss their mutual love of daddies. Listen in as the guys talk about what it means to transition from young cubs to cub daddies.

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From Cubs to Daddy Cubs

In this episode, the cubs honor this year’s recent Father’s Day with a discussion about what it means to go from being young cubs to turning into daddy cubs with the development of ever more grey hairs everywhere.

  • What did we think of daddies when we were younger?
  • When did we begin to recognize becoming daddies ourselves?
  • How do we feel about being daddy cubs?

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COL774: LTAK: Uniforms

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another installment in the Let’s Talk About Kink series. The guys are joined again by Tony aka Cubziz to discuss uniforms. From military fatigues to sporty spandex, listen in as the cubs address the types of uniforms and give some advice on how to handle them in our current climate.

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LTAK: Uniforms

The Let’s Talk About Kink series returns and we’re excited to welcome back Cubziz! In the Kink Community, uniforms hold a special place. We’ll be discussing the different types and their cultural references, especially in today’s age.

Uniforms as kink vs fetish

Types of uniforms:

  • Military
  • Law Enforcement / Prison
  • Athletic
  • Trade
  • Specialty / Hiviz / Diving Suit

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Cautions: Context Matters

  • In Private: Enjoy the scene. Careful with pictures when taken OUT of that context.
  • In Closed Public: Go by expectations of the environment. For example, a BLUF bar night, a full cop uniform may be acceptable. Regular bar night, be very careful of other patrons. Unknown city bar night, keep that uniform at home.
  • In Open Public: VERY careful and always make sure it is known to be not authentic uniform for the role.
  • In Porn: Touchy. Depends on studio/audience. (i.e. Military porn studios usually won’t try to make things authentic, but just enough to be believable. But others, like “The Academy” strove for authenticity and their videos were geared more to fetish than sex.)

Things to note on uniforms: 

  • Stolen Valor vs Impersonation
  • Authenticity (ties into BLUF) – Badges, Pins, Nameplates, Sashes
  • Generally major issues tie into Trust.
  • Know every piece and be able to explain.
  • The “Awkward” / Punishment / Self-Conscious Uniform

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COL766: LTAK: Social Media Memes

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another installment in the Let’s Talk About Kink series. The cubs are rejoined again by Tony aka Cubziz while Damon is away. The cubs discuss the recent social media memes of the kinky kind.

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LTAK: Social Media Memes

With the suregence of Bluesky, it feels like the old days of Tumblr. Lots of kink memes have surfaced as people are resharing their proclivities. But are they being a little overly empowered to reveal everything to the whole world?

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COL765: LTAS: The Santa Fetish

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex. It’s that time of the year where thoughts turn to that jolly old man with the bag in the red suit. For some gays–and definitely the cubs–those thoughts can get a little naughty. But what about Santa makes the guys swoon? Find out as the cubs talk about what makes Santa titillating.

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LTAS: The Santa Fetish

Let’s Talk About Sex series returns and we’re asking the question, “Have you been good or bad this year?” Perhaps the answer will reveal if you happen to have a certain holiday based fetish. This one is for Producer Jeff, and well… let’s admit it some of the rest of us too. 

We’ve touched on this before from time to time and in this episode, let’s get into the sex appeal of Santa Claus, Ol’ Saint Nick, Sinterklaas, aka the Jolly ol’ Elf himself.

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