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COL774: LTAK: Uniforms

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another installment in the Let’s Talk About Kink series. The guys are joined again by Tony aka Cubziz to discuss uniforms. From military fatigues to sporty spandex, listen in as the cubs address the types of uniforms and give some advice on how to handle them in our current climate.

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LTAK: Uniforms

The Let’s Talk About Kink series returns and we’re excited to welcome back Cubziz! In the Kink Community, uniforms hold a special place. We’ll be discussing the different types and their cultural references, especially in today’s age.

Uniforms as kink vs fetish

Types of uniforms:

  • Military
  • Law Enforcement / Prison
  • Athletic
  • Trade
  • Specialty / Hiviz / Diving Suit

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Cautions: Context Matters

  • In Private: Enjoy the scene. Careful with pictures when taken OUT of that context.
  • In Closed Public: Go by expectations of the environment. For example, a BLUF bar night, a full cop uniform may be acceptable. Regular bar night, be very careful of other patrons. Unknown city bar night, keep that uniform at home.
  • In Open Public: VERY careful and always make sure it is known to be not authentic uniform for the role.
  • In Porn: Touchy. Depends on studio/audience. (i.e. Military porn studios usually won’t try to make things authentic, but just enough to be believable. But others, like “The Academy” strove for authenticity and their videos were geared more to fetish than sex.)

Things to note on uniforms

  • Stolen Valor vs Impersonation
  • Authenticity (ties into BLUF) – Badges, Pins, Nameplates, Sashes
  • Generally major issues tie into Trust.
  • Know every piece and be able to explain.
  • The “Awkward” / Punishment / Self-Conscious Uniform

COL766: LTAK: Social Media Memes

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another installment in the Let’s Talk About Kink series. The cubs are rejoined again by Tony aka Cubziz while Damon is away. The cubs discuss the recent social media memes of the kinky kind.

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LTAK: Social Media Memes

With the suregence of Bluesky, it feels like the old days of Tumblr. Lots of kink memes have surfaced as people are resharing their proclivities. But are they being a little overly empowered to reveal everything to the whole world?

COL765: LTAS: The Santa Fetish

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex. It’s that time of the year where thoughts turn to that jolly old man with the bag in the red suit. For some gays–and definitely the cubs–those thoughts can get a little naughty. But what about Santa makes the guys swoon? Find out as the cubs talk about what makes Santa titillating.

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LTAS: The Santa Fetish

Let’s Talk About Sex series returns and we’re asking the question, “Have you been good or bad this year?” Perhaps the answer will reveal if you happen to have a certain holiday based fetish. This one is for Producer Jeff, and well… let’s admit it some of the rest of us too. 

We’ve touched on this before from time to time and in this episode, let’s get into the sex appeal of Santa Claus, Ol’ Saint Nick, Sinterklaas, aka the Jolly ol’ Elf himself.