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COL798: LTAK: SpankPls BDSM Test

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another installment in the Let’s Talk About Kink series. The cubs are joined again by Tony aka Cubziz to guide them through another BDSM online test. The newest SpankPls test has come up to ‘test’ the cubs’ kink preferences. Will the guys find new insights to their interests in kink/BDSM, or will they find it another repeat of what they already know?

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LTAK: SpankPls BDSM Test

The Let’s Talk About Kink series returns and we’re pleased to have Cubziz join us! Another new online quiz has come up to ‘test’ our kink preferences. We’ve done a couple of these before and we’re about to do another. Will we find this one to give us new insights to our interests in kink/BDSM? Let’s find out. 

SpankPls BDSM Test

  • Cubziz – The Kink Explorer
  • Damon – The Soft One
  • Jeff – The Sensualist
  • Gary – The Sensualist

COL774: LTAK: Uniforms

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another installment in the Let’s Talk About Kink series. The guys are joined again by Tony aka Cubziz to discuss uniforms. From military fatigues to sporty spandex, listen in as the cubs address the types of uniforms and give some advice on how to handle them in our current climate.

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LTAK: Uniforms

The Let’s Talk About Kink series returns and we’re excited to welcome back Cubziz! In the Kink Community, uniforms hold a special place. We’ll be discussing the different types and their cultural references, especially in today’s age.

Uniforms as kink vs fetish

Types of uniforms:

  • Military
  • Law Enforcement / Prison
  • Athletic
  • Trade
  • Specialty / Hiviz / Diving Suit

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Cautions: Context Matters

  • In Private: Enjoy the scene. Careful with pictures when taken OUT of that context.
  • In Closed Public: Go by expectations of the environment. For example, a BLUF bar night, a full cop uniform may be acceptable. Regular bar night, be very careful of other patrons. Unknown city bar night, keep that uniform at home.
  • In Open Public: VERY careful and always make sure it is known to be not authentic uniform for the role.
  • In Porn: Touchy. Depends on studio/audience. (i.e. Military porn studios usually won’t try to make things authentic, but just enough to be believable. But others, like “The Academy” strove for authenticity and their videos were geared more to fetish than sex.)

Things to note on uniforms

  • Stolen Valor vs Impersonation
  • Authenticity (ties into BLUF) – Badges, Pins, Nameplates, Sashes
  • Generally major issues tie into Trust.
  • Know every piece and be able to explain.
  • The “Awkward” / Punishment / Self-Conscious Uniform