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COL721: LTA… Adulting, Redux

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another installment in the Let’s Talk About… series. After the audio issues a couple of weeks ago, the guys are returning to the discussion of their life experiences over the decades in the bear community. In this “redux”, the cubs discuss growing up, life lessons and how it feels to be adults. From finding your tribe to balancing your checkbook, listen in on the ins and outs of being big ole bears.

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LTA… Adulting, Redux

Recently Jeff and Gary had a lovely chat about the passage of time as cubs of a certain age. After quite a few years in the bear community, our journeys through life had been down and up. Do we regret growing up? What lessons do we have for others to consider? 

Wikipedia Article: Adulting

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COL529: LTAS: Incels

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex. The guys are joined by Drew to learn more about Incels-or involuntary celibates. From its beginnings as a website to an online subculture and involvement in some criminal activity, the guys dissect this unfamiliar subject.

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LTAS: Incels

  • Incels, a portmanteau of “involuntary celibates”, are members of an online subculture who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom.
  • For more info, check out the Wikipedia post re: Inceldom

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COL487: LTAS: Our DL Experiences

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex. The cubs are joined by our regular sex advice guru Hadrian to discuss our downlow experiences. From cruising in adult bookstores and parks to meeting the married guys online, the guys share stories about their times with DL men as well as speaking on the culture, stigma, and other aspects of what this means.

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Guest LTAS discussion with Hadrian – our DL/downlow experiences.

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COL426: Trend Alert

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys talk about some of the recent trends on social media. Whether they are reclaiming their time, doing it in front of salads or checking out the latest social anonymous commenting app, the cubs hit the talking points about these new alarming trends.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Remembrance and A Binge Watch Weekend
  • Damon: Gem City Bear……drag show??
  • Chester: New…  Everything.
  • Gary: Be Proud of Yoself

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  • RevBear: RE: COL424 – Playlists:
    • When Damon was talking about Push It by SaltNPeppa, not for a road trip but great for the other 2 playlists 😥
  • GBearTrekker: RE COL425: Dear Gay Men:

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Urbandictionary with Gary

  • Freudian Spell Check: When spell check changes your word to the wrong word, but the wrong word is actually more appropriate.
    • I meant to text my friend that she should go to the U2 concert with me because it would be a “great” time. Spell check changed it to “grey” time. That Freudian Spell Check is pretty smart.

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Trend Alert!

WTH have we been up to? And WTH has been happening in the world?

  • Sarahah App
  • Testony?

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COL409: Drummerboy North America 2017

In this episode Cubs Out Loud, the guys (sans Chester) get together to do an interview with David, the current Drummerboy North America. From his humble beginnings to coming out kinky, listen in as  the guys learn more about this adorable cub/pup/boy.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Parental Units
  • Damon: Preparing for Concert/Hubby’s Away
  • Gary: It’s here! Actually, it’s over…

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  • Interview with David Duelwood, Drummerboy North America (http://drummerna.com/)
    • Title Journey (Mr. Argos, Ohio Valley Drummerboy, Drummerboy NA)
    • Fun/Funny/Embarassing moments during contests
    • How did you get involved?
    • Any fun stories?
    • Basics (Who are you? Where are you from? Partnered? Family?)
    • What is Drummer?/Leather Journey
    • Fetishes?
    • Hobbies/Talents/Special Interests
    • What are you plans for your title year?
    • FInal Thoughts/comments

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