In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex! For this episode, the guys are joined again by COL Sex Therapist Edward Angelini-Cooke to discuss the concept of asking and receiving. As we explore romantic relationships, the cubs review negotiations, consent, and getting your needs met and fulfilled. Also sandwiches, pizzas, and tea and what they mean in the grand scheme of things (Don’t worry Gary, there’s no food play involved).
Show Topic
Let’s Talk About Sex – Asking and Receiving
Why is it so hard to ask for something during sex?
Are you being rude if you don’t show appreciation for the other participant during sex?
What do you do if you wanted a blow job but they aren’t doing that thing that you really like when you are getting a blowjob? You know that thing…
The Good Touch Games….Drenched Fur….Gabe and Edward
Consent
“An agreement between two parties who are about to engage in sexual activity”-RAINN
Consent is just as much about no as it is about yes.
Consent is about both parties getting what they want
In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On episode for the months of August and September. It’s been a while, so we’re checking in on the cubs to see how they’re doing. From work changes to the mundane schedule, the guys share their highs and lows for the past couple of months. Also, we share your feedback on some of our recent episodes, titillate you with some tweets, and give you some fun shows to watch.
What’s Going On?
Jeff: Back in the sunlight, Fuck you allergies
Damon: Cincy Leather, Work (Non)Fun, & Gaming
Gary: Work, Dad, Sleep, Repeat
Feedback
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Sept 17th – Aron Moberg shared out COL525: What is…Confidence? Episode post
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Re: COL522: Trans Bear Interview – Charles S. Scott Great episode! 🐻🐻🐻🐻🐻
Re: COL519: What’s Going On – July 2019 – Michael Quinichett Lmt If reference to my phone call into COL, this is what I meant when I said I “get on top of the client.” 😘😂
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Oan_ragnari It’s so beautiful. – Oan’s COL chili bowl pics!
Re: COL516: LTAS: What Porn Taught Us – Part One – hauntcub: I wonder what a daddy cub could contribute?
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Re: COL429: Power Hour 5: Drunk Cubs, The Next Birthday Bash – Oan R. Tacos and enchiladas. And more shirtless Gary.
Re: COL523: Power Hour 7: Jeff’s Birthday Basharino – Oan R. I’m scared. Drunk me is on the internet. Lol. For the record, I was good on shots until I reached the minute of my birthday. Then started skipping. (I also might’ve been trying to hold some of it down)
Name: Henry Message: Hi, guys. Still enjoying your podcast after all these years. (Although the one about trans acceptance did seem to go on & on and got on my nerves. Not sure if that’s because I’m personally uncomfortable with the subect, or just due to my habitual short attention span.)Anyhoo (to quote Damon), your call in COL515 for suggestions of topics for future shows made me think of one. Wonder what it was. In the time it took to seek out your website, go to Contact Us, fill in the top of this form, and type the preceding two paragraphs, it completely slipped my mind. [sigh] Age takes its toll…
Oh yeah, that’s it! You jokingly mentioned being together in a home, 50 years from now, and still putting out the podcast. It immediately brought to mind the subject of retirement homes for gay men, something that has been on my mind as I have aged. I have found none in the Atlanta area, and I wonder if they exist in other locales. If so, perhaps you could bring in a representative from one (a resident would be great) to talk about the concept, the demand, the challenges & rewards of getting them up & running, the general atmosphere in such a place, and whatever else y’all and the guest might think appropriate. None of us is getting younger, and “what do I do now?” is a question that increasingly comes up. Thanx for considering this. And keep on ‘castin’! Henry
Name: Mark Message: Thanks again for restoring a button to download the podcasts. Could you do that for episodes 512-516? Thanks! UrsusMajr (Mark)
Voicemail
Oan: Re: What is … Self Love? And What is … Self Hate?
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re: COL521: What is…Respect? – @GBearTrekkie65: Replying to @cubsoutloud: Is the clothing optional gay campground mentioned in the episode The Woods Campground in Lehighton, PA?
In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs celebrate the hard worker in another This, That or Other. From our favorite blue collar men to the classic suit & tie and on to that sexy uniform, check out the guys’ selections as we give tribute to the Labor Day holiday.
On GROWLr: Dan( from Knoxville TN): I just recognized your face from the COL banner and wanted to say that I enjoy your show.
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G. Todd Brisbin
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Re: COL429: Power Hour 5:
Patrick Bishop: You guys were a riot…
Jack Warbus (message): Thank you for the entertainment while on a road trip last week. My husbear had a couple of podcast saved up and we listened to the both on the road. I am now hooked.
That is awesome to hear, Jack! We’re glad you are enjoying the show. Thank you for the feedback and don’t hesitate to let us know a topic you’d like to hear about or any thoughts on past shows you might have. – Chester
Aww… thanks for letting us know Jack! We’re happy to have provided you with entertainment for your recent roadtrip. Welcome to the COL Community! – Gary
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Re: COL428: It’s a Mystery: Randall Stratton – Mama Gary is wearing her hangover sunglasses…jk hugs to
Re: COL429: Power Hour 5:
Randall Stratton – HOT MESS…and I’m only 13 min in..OY
Mike A – Happy belated Birthday Jeff! (And Damen you are so cute when you’re tipsy). 😉 You guys seem like SO much fun. Would LOVE to hang out and have a drink with you guys sometime! “Bear hugs
Tyler Stillwell – Loves, loves, loves suit and tie.
Andrew Ealy- Blue collar… The illusion/idea of a person who is a hard worker, not afraid to get dirty, mechanically inclined, Caretaker… The ability to build, create, repair take care of our own I find to be a sexy trait.
Randall Stratton – Totally agree with Andrew Ealy
Aron Moberg – I think for me, It’s the exchange of the masculinity representative of that archetype being an object of my pleasure. Subjected to my desires.
In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex! For this episode, the guys are joined again by COL Sex Therapist Edward Angelini-Cooke to discuss the concept of asking and receiving. As we explore romantic relationships, the cubs review negotiations, consent, and getting your needs met and fulfilled. Also sandwiches, pizzas, and tea and what they mean in the grand scheme of things (Don’t worry Gary, there’s no food play involved).
