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COL680: LoR: Parasocial Interactions

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. The cubs are once again joined by Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke for this insightful look into one-sided parasocial interactions. From celebrities to social media influencers, learn how these types of relationships are formed without the others’ knowledge and also the positive and negative impacts they can have on the person creating it. Please like, comment and subscribe to learn more.

Show Topic

Landscape of Relationships: Parasocial Interactions

Parasocial relationships are one-sided relationships where one person invests lots of time, energy, interest, and sometimes money where the other person is completely unaware of the other person’s existence.  Parasocial relationships are most common with celebrities, organizations, television stars, and social media.  These relationships are created through parasocial interactions (PSI) through mediated encounters with performers through mass media.

Social media offers an added layer of interaction for these relationships to intensify through likes, comments, and direct messaging.  

Alief – def. knowing something isn’t real but feeling like it is

Positive Outcomes of Parasocial Relationships

*Identity Formation 

  • performers can offer autonomy in relationships where they can receive total acceptance outside of parents/family.  
  • provide a secure relationship without the fear of rejection.
  • feeling a part of a group 
  • empathy

*Learning

  • Bandura’s Social Learning Theory says that social behavior is learning and imitating the behaviors of others. 
  • Shows like Mr. Rogers Neighborhood, Sesame Street, Dora the Explorer, Blue’s Clues, and more recently Bluey all offer kids opportunities to learn through identification with these characters.  

Negative Outcomes of Parasocial Relationships 

*Body Image 

  • research has indicated a negative relationship between parasocial relationships and body image, as well as self-comparison, social comparison with characters increases negative body image 
  • interestingly among men, having a PSR with a superhero is likely to protect body image, where not having a PSR with a superhero is likely to hurt body image 
  • the usage of filters in social media (like airbrushing in print media) has greatly increased, giving a false reality of performers.

*Aggression 

  • more aggressive viewers were more likely to identify with aggressive characters and create PSR with them. 

*General 

  • anxiety media views are more likely to be more invested in parasocial relationships 
  • parasocial relationships are one-sided and different traditional friendships
  • the whole hegemonic masculinity thing
  • parasocial breakups and grief “what happens when they ‘betray’ you or they die?” Research indicated this follows the patterns of a relationship breakup
  • can create bias in reality 

Topics of PSR

  • Taylor Swift “Swifties”, Lizzo “Lizzbeans”
  • Twitter/Only Fans
  • Reality TV Stars 
  • Vloggers/Podcast hosts 
  • Fictional Characters 
  • Tiktok 
  • Politicians

Be mindful of the media you are consuming and how that translates into your other relationships and the real world.

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COL327: Summer Hits 3

COL327In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys return again to discuss the Billboard Summer Hits of 2015. Looking at the top 10 hits for this year, the guys talk about cheerleaders, bad blood, a lot of dancing, the 80s and some good old uptown funk.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Starting Job
  • Damon – Furry Con and Paddles
  • Gary – Life Milestones and Bear Community gets smaller

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  • Randall Stratton

great episode this week and very nice pics from tumblr…..WOOF

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Always relevant to the bear community, and often to the gay community as a whole.  Working my way back through the older podcasts to listen to the ones that seem interesting, relevant, or that are referenced in the show.  Hard to stay caught up every week with the long running podcasts but still nice to listen to while driving.  Keep up the good work and can’t wait to see what is coming next.  Always like the LTAS and LTAK episodes the best.

Urbandictionary with Gary

service a bro

The act of performing an oral sexual deed to a male.

Where is Brendan?

I think he is out on call to service a bro.

Weekly Topic

Billboard Top 10 Summer Songs

The summer’s most popular songs across all, based on cumulative performance on the weekly Billboard Hot 100 chart from Memorial Day through Labor Day. Rankings are determined by radio airplay audience impressions as measured by Nielsen BDS, sales data as compiled by Nielsen and streaming activity data from online music sources tracked by Nielsen BDS.

  1. See You Again – Wiz Khalifa Featuring Charlie Puth
  2. Cheerleader – OMI
  3. Bad Blood – Taylor Swift Featuring Kendrick Lamar
  4. Trap Queen – Fetty Wap
  5. Watch Me – Silento
  6. Shut Up and Dance – Walk The Moon
  7. Can’t Feel My Face – The Weeknd
  8. Uptown Funk! – Mark Ronson featuring Bruno Mars
  9. Lean On – Major Lazer & DJ Snake Featuring M0
  10. Hey Mama – David Guetta Featuring Nicki Minaj, Bebe Rexha, & Afrojack

Cooldown Topics

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COL084: Dating: The Internet and Bars

Pirate Day, Dating via the internet and bars, Healthcare, the VMAs, and more

Amazing Weekends

  • Pirate Day

Topics

  • Using words that you didn’t really know the meaning of at the time (Jeff’s “Oral Sex” story)
  • Internet Dating

WTP

  • Health Care in America
  • Kanye West

Picks:

  • Halo: The Flood – Jeff

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  • Halo: First Strike – Jeff

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