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COL427: LTAK: Flogging

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by the knowledged Ches aka Foxbear for another Let’s Talk About Kink. For this kinky-go-round, the cubs discuss the impact play known as flogging. Listen in as the guys give some tips, tricks and technical tools on floggers and flogging. It’s an impactful conversation.

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  • Damon: Jocks on, Asses Out!
  • Chester: Settling in, a broken window, Cap City Pup Night
  • Gary: Good and Disappointing Foods

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Let’s Talk About Kink series discussion. Topic is a part of impact play, flogging.

  1. Vocabulary [descriptions not definitions]
    1. Impact Play
      1. Flogging
    2. Sensations: Sounds & Feelings
      1. Thud
      2. Sting
      3. Bite
  2. D/s relationship
  3. Implements Involved
    1. Flogger Types
      1. Different hides yield different results
      2. Different shapes of falls yield different results
      3. Different fall counts yield different results
    2. Not limited to floggers
      1. Paddles
      2. Crops
      3. Wartenberg wheel
      4. Breath
      5. Hands
  4. First Time Expectations

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COL409: Drummerboy North America 2017

In this episode Cubs Out Loud, the guys (sans Chester) get together to do an interview with David, the current Drummerboy North America. From his humble beginnings to coming out kinky, listen in as  the guys learn more about this adorable cub/pup/boy.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Parental Units
  • Damon: Preparing for Concert/Hubby’s Away
  • Gary: It’s here! Actually, it’s over…

Weekly Topic

  • Interview with David Duelwood, Drummerboy North America (http://drummerna.com/)
    • Title Journey (Mr. Argos, Ohio Valley Drummerboy, Drummerboy NA)
    • Fun/Funny/Embarassing moments during contests
    • How did you get involved?
    • Any fun stories?
    • Basics (Who are you? Where are you from? Partnered? Family?)
    • What is Drummer?/Leather Journey
    • Fetishes?
    • Hobbies/Talents/Special Interests
    • What are you plans for your title year?
    • FInal Thoughts/comments

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COL407: All T, No Shade: Racism & Sex

In this episode Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by two CA pups, Pup Beacon and Pup Yoshi, to continue an “All T, No Shade” episode about racism and the gay community. In part two, the guys get onto the topic of racism and sex. From marketing to porn, the guys take time to discuss issues of stereotypes and how they affect perspectives.

Weekly Topic

Racism & Sex

Discussion points:

  • How minorities are sexualized and desexualized
    • Wanting a black man cause he has a big dick
    • A Latino cause he’s spicy
    • An Asian man because he is submissive
  • Minorities not being seen in marketing as often as white men
  • Minorities aren’t seen in porn as often as white men, and when they are…
    • Black men are thugs
    • Latinos are cholos
    • Asians are subs

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COL347: WYR1: Sex Edition

WYR_SexEdIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we introduce something new for the new year. We present to you: WOULD. YOU. RATHER?! And to start things off, let’s talk about sex. Listen in as the cubs make some choices about their sex life in a this vs that game show.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Other games
  • Damon – How to run an event
  • Gary – Cha-cha-changes

Did I Do That?

  • Gary – It lives!

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Urbandictionary with Gary

  • bitchplosion – An explosion of bitchiness; when someone/something pushes you so far that you just bitchplode

Dude… I was just joking and then she just had a massiv bitchplosion

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Would You Rather: Sex Edition

  1. Would you rather have sex with a guy in athletic gear or in a bondage outfit?
  2. Would you rather be in a relationship with a totally submissive partner or a totally dominant partner?
  3. Would you rather have sex with just one person watching, or would you rather have sex with 50 people watching?
  4. Would you rather pursue a life where you could only ever have sex with one partner in the same position in the same bedroom or have sex with a completely different person every time?
  5. Would you rather sleep with someone much older than you, or simply never have sex during your entire life time?
  6. Would you rather remain a virgin from now until marriage and have a spectacular sexual partner, or would you rather remain unmarried for the rest of your life and have a ton of great sexual partners who never love or commit to you?
  7. Would you rather only ever have sex in bed or only ever have sex outside the bedroom?
  8. Would you rather proposition a complete stranger for sex (one who was exceptionally attractive), and face the possibility of being rejected, or would you rather receive guaranteed sex from a very unattractive individual as many times as you wanted?
  9. Would you rather be blind and sleep with the most attractive men in the world as often as you wanted or would you rather have your vision and be the same person you are now?

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COL306: Hostful News Updates – Sex, Relationships & All That Jazz

COL298In this episode Cubs Out Loud, we bringing you more special news bulletins. The hosts come back together after a hiatus to catch up and discuss some recent online articles. From compersion to polyamory to three dudes that get married, we discuss the wide world of relationships from a cubby point of view.

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  • [Jeff] – A lot of work
  • [Damon] – The house hunt is over
  • [Gary] – What day is it?

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UrbanDictionary

Dat (blank) doe – as in “Dat dick doe”, which was used in Episode 303 from the KY run.

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