In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex show! We’re joined by special guests AJ and Drew to talk about those men that play on the downlow. Listen in as the guys share their experiences with discreet and DL men.
Discreet [urbandictionary.com definition] – A word gay/bi men use to describe themselves in a cool way that they are closetcases and have no intention of coming out soon. This allows them to maintain perceived heterosexual privilege while engaging in their true sexual desires.
DL [urbandictionary.com definition] – A gay male who claims to be straight but nevertheless frequents gay clubs and bathhouses to score gay sex.
In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, Damon is glamping it up while the guys welcome virgin guest, Smashy! They talk about the importance of personal safety when it comes to hook ups. But are we overreacting to some idea of stranger danger? Or is there a legitimate concern when it comes to tricking; whether at home, an event, or a bath house? See if you agree with their thoughts in today’s PSA show.
Ches’ comment re: COL419: This is How We Genetically Role
“Identification/description in app profiles may typically get reduced to top/bottom/versatile, but it doesn’t take much to flesh things out and present a much more accurate picture of our preferences. For example, in mine, I have had the following blurb on the subject for years:
“Primarily dom/top, but will consider bottoming for suitably impressive alpha-male types and/or subbing for experienced leathermen.”
And that covers both fucking AND perverted stuff. The biggest component is honest self-examination. Everything flows from there…”
In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, It’s another Let’s Talk About Sex. The cubs are joined by regular guest hosts Ches and Shutter as well as new guest Josh to discuss PrEP and its rise in usage in the community. From how to get on it to its effects and what they feel it means to the community, listen in as we share some facts and information about PrEP, Truvada, and HIV prevention.
A childish taunt or jeer pronounced with a nasal sneer, for lack of a more intelligent retort to someone else’s jeer or taunt, usually from a peer. Sometimes sung to the tune of “Ring-Around-the-Rosy” for really driving the point home.
My definition is better than all the other stupid definitions listed here – neener neener.
Weekly Topic
Discussion of PrEP in the bear community.
Items of interest to the topic:
Educate: what it is, how it is taken, what it does
The results of usage – stats on reduction in transmission?
Campaigns to promote it overall
The negative side of people using it – examples of going off pill/treatment
In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex show! We’re joined by special guests AJ and Drew to talk about those men that play on the downlow. Listen in as the guys share their experiences with discreet and DL men.
