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COL354: Mr. North American Bear 2016

RaymondSmithIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we have an exclusive interview with Ray Smith, the holder of the 2016 Mr. North American Bear title. Coming fresh off his win from NAB, Ray gives us some insight into the weekend, his life, and his plans for the title. So, join in as we talk with this sexy ginger.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – New Chair and on the Job
  • Damon – Work Sucks
  • Gary – Post KY Life
  • Ray – Winning a title

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  • Chester Beltowski: Show idea… So I’m in the shower, lathering up my naked body, running my fingers through my luscious beard, and thinking about how full my schedule is once I return to the US (on Feb 29), and I realized I need to pick up some Vitamin C. Why? you ask… Because right after I get home, I head to my first bear run of the year, Fur Flee. I then thought, this would make a great topic for COL. I know our good friend Ches has mentioned that he has a pre-run regiment for warding off Kennel Cough aka bear flu. So why not have a show about the dos and don’ts of staying healthy at before, during, and after a bear run.

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  • gingercubguy: Damn fine Cubs

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  • Greg Hope: Comment: Good show guys!

Urbandictionary with Gary

  • titleitisthe overwhelming compulsion to have a title, any title, while failing to live up to the standard of that title.

    John’s breath reeks of titleitis – he sounds like some self-important schmuck since he became club treasurer. He still can’t balance the check book.

Weekly Topic

Interview with Ray Smith, the newly titled Mr. North American Bear 2016 from Louisville, KY

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COL287: Canadian Extravaganza!

Daniel Rugby 287In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we talk with Tumblr bear celebrity Daniel aka Bearberlycrusher about being Canadian and an amazing list of things about him and his life. From rugby and BDSM, to exhibitionism and gaming, we learn how unique and wonderful he is.

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What’s Going On?

  • [Gary] – Busy Busy Busy
  • [Jeff] – Warlords Released

Weekly Topic

Daniel Harris.

  • Tumblr account
  • selfies
  • leather
  • pup play
  • gaming
  • travel abroad
  • rugby
  • Vegan

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Space Channel 5 – Ulala vs Evila & Blank (Final Bosses)

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COL282: Let’s Talk About Kink – Dom/sub, you don’t say!

LTAKIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we welcome Ches and Matt to lead an in depth discussion on Dom/sub relationships. From defining some of the terms to offering their takes on the dynamics, the guys exchange insights and provide an intriguing dialogue on power exchange and control.

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What’s Going On?

  • [Damon]-Where I Have Been (Comic Con, Bluegrass Leather, Ren Fair)
  • [Gary] – Getting Older

Weekly Topic

BDSM Discussion: Dom/sub Dynamics

  • Dom/sub, Daddy/boy, Sir/boy, Master/slave
    • Role play vs Power Exchange
    • Power Exchange
      • Dom/sub – umbrella
      • “With great power comes great responsibility”
        • Master/slave – focus on pleasure of Master; steward/guardian of slave
        • Daddy/boy & Sir/boy – conditional submission; varying kinds
          • Daddy/boy – mentoring, growth and nurturing for better service in and out; temporary relationship with a defined beginning and end
          • Sir/boy – personal service tailored to the Sir ; extended dynamic with long term possibility
  • Labels, Identities & Titles
    • Look at the power exchange
    • Self-identification
    • Thoughts on Being a Bear
    • “Respect somebody else’s kink”
      • Needs, Activities, Experiences
    • “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” – old mantra?
    • “RACK – Risk, Aware, Consensual, Kink” – new mantra?
  • Play Dynamics vs. Scene Dynamics vs. Relationship Dynamics
    • Play – experiencing with known boundaries
    • Scene – substantial power exchange; individuals familiar with aspects of time, players, experience levels
    • Relationship – extend outside of private settings, more public appearance
  • Closeness of Leather/BDSM Community
    • Support structure for others
  • Respect, Reciprocity and Abuse
  • Personal Responsibility in Representation
  • Local Community Reaction
  • For Da Noobz

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  • [Gary] – No Boyfren Bon Qui Qui feat. Tammy

  • [Jeff] – Matt Alder – Handsome Man

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