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COL561: LTAS: Asking and Receiving

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex! For this episode, the guys are joined again by COL Sex Therapist Edward Angelini-Cooke to discuss the concept of asking and receiving. As we explore romantic relationships, the cubs review negotiations, consent, and getting your needs met and fulfilled. Also sandwiches, pizzas, and tea and what they mean in the grand scheme of things (Don’t worry Gary, there’s no food play involved).

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Let’s Talk About Sex – Asking and Receiving

  • Why is it so hard to ask for something during sex?
  • Are you being rude if you don’t show appreciation for the other participant during sex?
  • What do you do if you wanted a blow job but they aren’t doing that thing that you really like when you are getting a blowjob?  You know that thing…

The Good Touch Games….Drenched Fur….Gabe and Edward

Consent 

  • “An agreement between two parties who are about to engage in sexual activity”-RAINN
  • Consent is just as much about no as it is about yes.  
  • Consent is about both parties getting what they want
  • Consent Tea Video 

Asking 

    • Asking leads to intimacy

Receiving 

  • Periodic Checking in (Verbal and non-verbal)
  • How to receive (Compliment Sandwich)
  • Show appreciation 
  • Room for improvement 
  • Show appreciation again
  • Repeat till orgasm (if that is what you want on your pizza)

NPR Safe Sex Communication Skills and COVID-19 Social Bubbles

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COL Flashback COL215: Black Shirt Friday

Damon is singing his heart out with pride while Gary takes a roadtrip with his Dad. And Jeff… kinda gets the week off. But COL Flashback is here. Let’s rewind the clock to Sunday June 7th, 2013 – six years ago when Gary, myself, and retired co-hosts Ben and Eric answered some items from The Book of Questions. Plus we go over other stuff in our lives and that infamous Watermelon YouTube video.

On this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys gather together in the off-hours to talk about their lives and what we will and won’t do with our responses to The Book of Questions. Oh yeah. By the way, Ben’s back.

What the F Did We Do This Week

This Week On Heat Sinks: The introduction of Heat Sinks: Arcade

Topic: Book of Questions: Lookout, ’cause we’re going to get serious….maybe

This week’s poll: What type of questions are off limits from your partner, boyfriend, husband, lover etc.?

  • Religious / Spiritual
  • Sexual (could be kink in nature)
  • Related to Bodily Functions
  • Money / Finances
  • Politics / Government
  • Other

Last Week’s Poll: How do you prepare for a date?

  • Full Flush and Go (Enema included)
  • Three S’s (Shit, Shower & Shave only)
  • I don’t ‘prep’, I’m a dirty pig
  • Buy Condoms and Lube
  • Haircut and a button down shirt
  • Charge my phone so I can Growlr for someone better if it sucks

Love on Craigslist – Bringing the Best of Love and Lust to You

  • [Eric] Seminary Boy – Peoria – Dedicated to Regev
  • [Ben] $30 Socks?
  • [Gary] Intelligent and Masculine For Passable First Time

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COL215: Black Shirt Friday

Photo on 2013-06-07 at 18.55On this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys gather together in the off-hours to talk about their lives and what we will and won’t do with our responses to The Book of Questions. Oh yeah. By the way, Ben’s back.

What the F Did We Do This Week

This Week On Heat Sinks: The introduction of Heat Sinks: Arcade

Topic: Book of Questions: Lookout, ’cause we’re going to get serious….maybe

This week’s poll: What type of questions are off limits from your partner, boyfriend, husband, lover etc.?

  • Religious / Spiritual
  • Sexual (could be kink in nature)
  • Related to Bodily Functions
  • Money / Finances
  • Politics / Government
  • Other

Last Week’s Poll: How do you prepare for a date?

  • Full Flush and Go (Enema included)
  • Three S’s (Shit, Shower & Shave only)
  • I don’t ‘prep’, I’m a dirty pig
  • Buy Condoms and Lube
  • Haircut and a button down shirt
  • Charge my phone so I can Growlr for someone better if it sucks

Love on Craigslist – Bringing the Best of Love and Lust to You

  • [Eric] Seminary Boy – Peoria – Dedicated to Regev
  • [Ben] $30 Socks?
  • [Gary] Intelligent and Masculine For Passable First Time

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  • [Jeff] A Fish Called Wanda

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