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COLFB162: To Bare, or Not to Bare?

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We’re back with another Flashback episode!  Damon and Gary are away this holiday weekend. And I get a relaxing day to myself. But have no fear, because a COL Flashback is here. Let’s rewind the clock to Sunday June 3rd, 2012 – almost a full 9 years ago. The Next Gen hosts are happy to have the lovely and talented Ethical slut Allen join them a mere 440 episodes ago. *sigh* Next week, we’re planning to be back on the same YouTube Channel and podcast streams.

To bare, or not to bare, that is thy question on this weeks episode of COL. To help us answer this question we have the lovely and talented Ethical slut Allen join us. We also talk about the tragity that has befallen Damon’s precious Trololo, this week’s poll of the week and it’s absolutely positively official, the hot Jovial Cub Jared is our mascot.

So what the F did you do this week?

This week on COL Movies
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Topics

  • The Death Of The Greatest Joke Ever On COL – Edward Khil + Damon = Love – Is No More
  • Bareback sex in the next generation with Allan
  • Longtime Companion

Poll of the Week – Bareback?

  • Comment from Tommy on Last week’s poll – “Once was enough.”

Love On Craigslist – Bringing the best of Internet love and lust to you!

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COL561: LTAS: Asking and Receiving

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex! For this episode, the guys are joined again by COL Sex Therapist Edward Angelini-Cooke to discuss the concept of asking and receiving. As we explore romantic relationships, the cubs review negotiations, consent, and getting your needs met and fulfilled. Also sandwiches, pizzas, and tea and what they mean in the grand scheme of things (Don’t worry Gary, there’s no food play involved).

Show Topic

Let’s Talk About Sex – Asking and Receiving

  • Why is it so hard to ask for something during sex?
  • Are you being rude if you don’t show appreciation for the other participant during sex?
  • What do you do if you wanted a blow job but they aren’t doing that thing that you really like when you are getting a blowjob?  You know that thing…

The Good Touch Games….Drenched Fur….Gabe and Edward

Consent 

  • “An agreement between two parties who are about to engage in sexual activity”-RAINN
  • Consent is just as much about no as it is about yes.  
  • Consent is about both parties getting what they want
  • Consent Tea Video 

Asking 

    • Asking leads to intimacy

Receiving 

  • Periodic Checking in (Verbal and non-verbal)
  • How to receive (Compliment Sandwich)
  • Show appreciation 
  • Room for improvement 
  • Show appreciation again
  • Repeat till orgasm (if that is what you want on your pizza)

NPR Safe Sex Communication Skills and COVID-19 Social Bubbles

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COL551: Sex Needs vs COVID-19

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Edward Angelini-Cooke of EAC Therapy and COL’s resident sex therapist. For this episode, the cubs acknowledge their thirst due to many states’ social distancing regulations during the COVID-19 pandemic. Because of this, we bring in the good doc to discuss the sexual needs during this crisis. We all have needs and need to find ways to address them safely.

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COVID-19 isn’t going away. And now more than ever we’re facing challenges with having our sexual needs met. What’s a person to do?

This is an extended traumatic experience….which means that people are going to have traumatic reactions to this.  Here are some common traumatic reactions and ways to address them sexually:

IMPORTANT: Our reactions to this may be different therefore we may have different sexual libidos during this time (that is normal).

Overview:

The 5 Love Languages

    • Phone Sex 
    • Video sex
  • Looking into the future 
    • Research is seeing a decrease in STI rates
      • Decrease access to testing sites
    • Re-entry 
      • Sexual risk taking 

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COL423: PSA: Get a Lucky Buddy!

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  Damon is glamping it up while the guys welcome virgin guest, Smashy! They talk about the importance of personal safety when it comes to hook ups. But are we overreacting to some idea of stranger danger? Or is there a legitimate concern when it comes to tricking; whether at home, an event, or a bath house? See if you agree with their thoughts in today’s PSA show.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Other people’s vacations suck
  • Chester: Packing, Pokemon Go, missing D23 =(
  • Gary: The work flow is…
  • Steve: the trouble with ribfests

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Facebook Comment/Post:

  • Ches’ comment re: COL419: This is How We Genetically Role

“Identification/description in app profiles may typically get reduced to top/bottom/versatile, but it doesn’t take much to flesh things out and present a much more accurate picture of our preferences. For example, in mine, I have had the following blurb on the subject for years:

“Primarily dom/top, but will consider bottoming for suitably impressive alpha-male types and/or subbing for experienced leathermen.”

And that covers both fucking AND perverted stuff. The biggest component is honest self-examination. Everything flows from there…”

 

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  • RE:422 Sigma Wolf: ​LOVE to ALL of Y’all!!! one of the few bright moments in my long week!!!

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PSA: Get a lucky buddy!

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COL411: LTAS: Bathhouse Experiences

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In this episode Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by the sexy Mr. Hadrian to do another round of Let’s Talk About Sex. This time around, the cubs throw their towels on and discuss bathhouses. From their historical beginnings to their height in gay culture, the guys splash about with this steamy subject.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Two interviews and a boss kill.
  • Damon: CMC CMC CMC and bears
  • Chester: Drenched Fur over, CLAW up next! +Moving
  • Gary: It’s over, I took a break, not really
  • Hadrian: Western Exposure 3

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Let’s Talk About Sex: Bathhouse Experiences

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