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COL729: LTA… The Love Bug

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About… For this episode, the guys talk about love–exciting and new. From feeling romantic vibes to just feeling randy, find out how the cubs feel about finding love, being in love, and what love means to them.

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LTA… The Love Bug

When it comes to the romantic side of our hosts, what do they feel describes them as being in love? Are there specific feelings, actions, behaviors that we universally feel show love for others? Have we ever been ‘bitten by the love bug’? Did we get over the itch?

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COL724: WGO: December 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of December. The holidays are here and the guys are feeling jolly? From stuff with cars to stuff for Christmas, listen in as the guys catch you up on their last month of 2023.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: WoW, Car Trouble
  • Damon: Holiday Shows & Time w/Family
  • Gary: New Car, Busy 2024

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  • COL709: WGO: August 2023 ~ goody2toad: I just saw my name tagged in this podcast…. Y’all are invited to try the machine anytime

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  • COL720: WGO: November ‘23
  • COL721: LTA… Adulting, Redux
  • COL722: 2023 Look Back
  • COL723: Jingle Mingle 3

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COL636: LoR: Love Languages

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined once again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. In this episode, the guys show how they feel the love within the five love languages. From learning what the languages are to sharing their results, listen in as the guys gift us some touching acts of quality words to help understand how these languages affirm the love and affection one can feel for their loved ones. In addition, learn more about more recent developments in the love languages from neurodivergent to kink play dynamics.

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Landscape of Relationships: Love Languages

Love Languages (Gary Chapman):

  1. Words of Affirmation 
  2. Quality Time
  3. Acts of Service 
  4. Gifts
  5. Physical Touch 

The 5 Love Languages (according to Britney, Bitch!):

  • Physical Touch: My loneliness is killing me
  • Words of Affirmation: I must confess I still believe
  • Quality Time: When I’m not with you I lose my mind
  • Give Giving: Give me a sign
  • Acts of Service: Hit me baby one more time

The 5 Neurodivergent Love Languages:

  • Infodumping
  • Parallel Play
  • Support Swapping
  • Please Crush My Soul Back into My Body
  • “I found this cool rock/button/leaf/etc and thought you would like it”

Comparison of Results:

Gary Chapman, PhD, 1992, The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts 

Fear not: John Gottman and the Gottman approach, which I reference often, is a good overlap with the 5 languages of love….and allows some flexibility with the concepts.

BDSM and Love Languages  

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COLDR: AS6E10: Rudemption Lip-Sync Smackdown

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon finally get a full-on view of the “game within a game” that has been hinted at all season long. During this lip-sync smackdown spectacular, the guys flap their gums as the eliminated queens face off in one song after the other after the other. Which queen lip-smacks their way to the top and back into the competition?

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RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 

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Overall Thoughts: Rudemption Lip-Sync Smackdown

  • [Damon] – I WAS RIGHT!! WOOT!!
  • [Gary] – Did we predict this?

Cruise the Runway:

Category/Theme: Lip-Sync for Your Rudemption 

  • [Damon] – Ummm…
  • [Gary] – Stunts, Gags, Goops

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Changing Things Up
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Commitment to the Game
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Did She Really Do That Well?
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Worst On-camera Hosting
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COL533: What’s Going On – November 2019

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of November. It’s been a quick turnaround from our last WGO show, but the guys wanted to make sure you were abreast of their turkey day plans and more. From computer issues to Friendsgiving, listen as the cubs share their November highs and lows.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Pokémon, Season of Thanks
  • Damon: D&D Podcast, Thanks-living!!
  • Gary: Training at Work, Friendsgiving, Meh

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  • Nov 19 – Edward Angelini-Cooke: Here is the podcast I recently recorded with Cubs Out Loud.

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  • Nov 22 – Michael Quinichett LMT: Thanks for the tank top guys!

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  • Re: COL530: Hibearnation – Oan R: Nick Frost and Simon Pegg, the first time they came to New York they were homeless on the street, they’d actually curl up together. So it’s this thing where if two guys are like really close, once they get past the whole stigma of not really being into each other physically and then they can get into a plutonic cuddle.
  • Re: COL532: The Landscape of Relationships – Berty Bertface: Perhaps the age at which you marry plays a part for longevity, at least if you are both very young. My two cents is when you share a deep connection with another, beyond the pure primal physical desire (as the body ages) you want to create a life together where there is no space for others. You have to put some effort in of course, as nothing worth having is easy This is my goal anyway.

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  • COL531: What’s Going On – Oct 2019
  • COL532: The Landscape of Relationships

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